An appointment request is made via the contact form on a lady's web site or via e-mail. She confirms via e-mail. She says that the day before she'll send another e-mail with location and contact information. The day before the day before the gentleman sends her an e-mail to re-confirm and convey his anticipation.

The day before: no e-mail from the lady.

The day of: no e-mail from the lady.

No E-mail, No Explanation (NENE).

I have had two recent NENEs:
Lady Corazon
Savanna Cruz

I know, of course, that sometimes cancellations happen. But... NENE is not acceptable.

NENE makes it difficult for a Cordial Sport to remain cordial.

I had that happen last week with sexxxysam, emailed backnforth until the day before, everything was great.I called about a hour before appointment to give room # and no response, called a few more times and emailed a couple of times still no response. They should at least let you know whats happening for what ever reason they can't make it. You get all ready for some fun, then nothing.

You are a local legend among the ladies that do know you.
You are very kind, generous and ALWAYS cordial.
Those ladies really missed out by not seeing you.

Please keep your chin up CS and know MANY ladies in Minnesota cherish dates with you!

Dang, those two are (were?) on my short list. Hmmm. . . .

I too have tried to set something up with both of the gals in question, but with no luck.

Your kind reply is much appreciated.

But thanks for the post, that will save me from wasting my time on one of the aforementioned girls who was on my mind.

I'm sorry this happens to such nice gentlemen.  Keep in mind the list of wonderfully reliable ladies who always enjoy seeing respectful, fun men like you!  Hugs!

-- Modified on 10/22/2009 5:53:22 PM

sorry couldn't help myself

We as hobbyists can stop this sort of actions by NOT using the services of the ladies who do this to us.Its our only recourse.There are way to many  great providers who pay attention for us to waste out time and money on the one who dont.

There are no excuses for such behavior, especially when it is continuous and happens to more than one gent.

You men are too special to be treated like crap. I am sorry you had to deal with this.

And Cordial, please remain just as you are...I can't imagine you any other way. Trust me, many of us appreciate you for being just that…cordial.

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After a few glasses of wine, the name Nene became pretty funny.  All I could think of was


neener neener neener.  

I wasn't trying to taunt anyone.  

Wow..seems like this has become a trend these days. I had posted about my NCNS with another lady a few posts below, and it turns out that many other gentlemen also had similar experiences. I had an NCNS with one of the ladies in your list a few months ago, but we were able to see each other again. But I have been trying to schedule something with her ever since but she is horrible at staying on top of correspondence. I don't really understand this. If you are not going to return emails, if you are going to just disappear into thin air randomly, why advertise your services in the first place?