Guys this is a big one. "I HAVE A LIFE!" I don't provide 24 hours a day. I work, take care of my house and family, and have other things going on. When you listen to my voicemail it lets you know to send me an email and DO NOT leave a voicemail. Many guys still leave them and then wonder why they don't get a response.
The best way to contact me is by email. I prefer is, I can email you back at any time of day no matter where I am at. Also If I am running a special you have to have pre-booked by email to recieve it!
Why do providers place ads and then not answer their phones.
On many occasions I have called a recently posted ad, sometimes within minutes of when it first appeared, only to go to voice mail. The voice mail is also full. I will try again at various hours over the next several days and I keep getting sent to a full voice mailbox.
In most cases these are ads for providers who I haven't seen ads posted for before. I suspect that these may be a LE logging numbers so they can use it against you if they ever bust you. However, in some case they are for providers who otherwise appear legitimate.
Does anyone have any insight into this?
They must not need the business.
Maybe, but why bother with an ad then?
The message about the auto post may help explain it though.
Well, I don't always answer my phone. That little thing called life usually gets in the way. Just leave a message and they will usually get back to you. I find email is the best way to initially open communications with providers but to each his own.
You are referring to BP ads, I assume. It is not always the girl posting the ad - BP will automatically repost ads in some cases. In fact some of them don't even know they're on BP, because BP will steal an ad from another site and post it on theirs without alerting the girl.
Good point LIP.
I've had it happen most often with bp ads but I have run into it on other sites as well.
There are many legit reasons why a call may go to voice-mail. Particularly on a recently posted ad. There could be nothing nefarious going on with a missed call. I answer my calls if I can. On the profile, it says that I pick up.
Here's partial list of what could be happening:
1. Ad goes up...many, MANY calls come in. It will go to voice-mail if I'm already on the phone. Speaking of which....most of us will return the call if you say we can. Personally, I'm not going to return a call (even though I have the number) because the return call could be at a very inopportune time for you if I do. Examples: your other half may be around.....your kids are sitting next to you in the car or in the room...etc., etc.
2. Like it or not....We may be "entertaining" when you call. Or.......we may be around family or friends where it is not a good idea to answer the business phone. I made the unwitting mistake once by thinking that I was alone when I answered a call, and I said: "What time are you looking for?" I walked two steps further, and there was my son; who asked: "Who are you talking to on the phone that I don't know the number to?"
3. I've learned that it is more convenient and easier sometimes for you to call instead of emailing (particularly 1st-timers). Don't you know that I'll need to screen you anyway? SHUT UP threecupsplease!! Please shut up!!! Some of you don't like the electronic trail that emails can bring, so you want to give me your 411 on the phone. What if I'm driving at the time?
4. Some of us are really low volume, and if we are happy with where we are......leave a message if you can. Full message boxes notwithstanding. That's a problem perhaps.
I'm sure that other providers can give some other circumstances whereby it is not cool to answer the phone. We might be at our real jobs talking to the boss. Might be in a crowded elevator. My "pecker" may not be as hard as yours at the time because I haven't been thinking of or viewing the pictures....reading the reviews that you may have been. Need I say that if the call comes in during the wee hours of the morning while someone is suffering from whiskey-dick, and wants an appointment right away..........oh the trials and aggravations of the business. LOL
Just giving some legit reasons. Leave a message dammit! LOL
LE logging numbers? Oh my....I thought that I was paranoid. I don't think that it would be of much use if you dialed the wrong number that happened to belong to a provider; and who can say that it was YOU who dialed the number with your huge fingers that touches two numbers at the same time?
Okay girls....chip in and give us all some more good reasons to ease the OP's anxieties.
I understand that there are lots of reasons why a provider may be unable to answer their phone. You listed many good reasons.
The part that puzzles me is way they never seem to check their messages and clear them out so people can leave a message. They a spending good money on an ad but it doesn't do much good if they can't be reached.
As to le logging calls, you are correct. A single call to a single number doesn't prove anything, but they could argue that multiple calls to the same number or multiple numbers could help prove intent. It probably would hold much weight in court but it could prove useful if they were trying to coerce you into cooperating with them. It also takes very little man power to set up and monitor.
You could also be right. I may just be paranoid.
I should have read what you posted first because I would not have posted after reading this, you put it down exactly.
Also I do not do email... PERIOD !!
For me I only do one appt a day, so my day is short and the rest is spent at the gym or family. I answer the phone when I can, I do not work past 3 and do not answer the phone after that either, but I say that in my voice mail.
Enough said.
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Yeah, I guess my subject line was misleading. I do understand why someone might not answer their phone. I guess I should have said "why providers don't clear out their voice mailboxes" so that we can leave a message. That is the part that puzzles me. Thankfully there are many women who do so we can move on.
If you them on the phone then you can try to set something up. If not, well keep trying or move on because they don't return calls or check messages. I guess they figure there will be somebody calling when they decide they want or need to work.
Of course this is not true of all but it does explain some of it,.
You are probably right about them not being organized. It has just always puzzled me why a provider would spend the money for an ad and then make it damn near impossible to reach, especially when it appears they are new to the area or hobby.
On many occasions I have called a recently posted ad, sometimes within minutes of when it first appeared, only to go to voice mail. The voice mail is also full. I will try again at various hours over the next several days and I keep getting sent to a full voice mailbox.
In most cases these are ads for providers who I haven't seen ads posted for before. I suspect that these may be a LE logging numbers so they can use it against you if they ever bust you. However, in some case they are for providers who otherwise appear legitimate.
Does anyone have any insight into this?
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I'm glad someone understood what me real question was.
If my assistant doesnt answer
He's on the other line. Try again.
If you can't get through whatsoever to even leave a vm, it's because both lines are in use.
If you do not leave a message stating its ok to call you back, it will not be returned.
I am possibly booked for the day and or you called too late at night,
so please feel free to shoot an email to me instead if you can't get through .
If you call over and over as in 10 or more times, which some of you do this (everyone hates that) .
you have now thoroughly annoyed him, in turn it also ruins my horny.
so he definitely wont answer or return the call. Its not to be rude
That's just how he & i always have been .
LE & the call logging thing. Hello? They can just pull phone records from the carrier
why sit and watch a phone ring ?
To all you texting fanatics : please KNOCK IT OFF. We can't read them, they are auto deleted .
Xoxo miss V. R.
I know when I posted an ad that I would some times recieve 50 or more calls a day, I would try and answer as many as I could but I only worked part time so I would set up appts. Then later I would try to return calls, but I had rules about that. I would only return a call if someone said in plain language they would like a return call, I then would only call after nine am and before 3, business hours, I have in the past called after 5 and a woman answered the phone scaring the crap out of me.
I also would listen to the message and could tell by the way a person sounded if I even wanted to talk to that person.
This business is amazing sometimes in its extremes one day I am trying to field 50 or more calls and the next I recieve not one call.
You are also right that not all girls handle this business well but it is because of the nature of the business one thing us girls never have to worry about is finding business if we need it
I would move on if I could not get through, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Guys this is a big one. "I HAVE A LIFE!" I don't provide 24 hours a day. I work, take care of my house and family, and have other things going on. When you listen to my voicemail it lets you know to send me an email and DO NOT leave a voicemail. Many guys still leave them and then wonder why they don't get a response.
The best way to contact me is by email. I prefer is, I can email you back at any time of day no matter where I am at. Also If I am running a special you have to have pre-booked by email to recieve it!
. . . when my penis is in a providers mouth and she stops to answer the phone. Considering that I don't like it when it happens to me, I cut some slack when I can't get through immediately. I simply tell myself, "Oh, she can't talk right now because her mouth is sucking a penis." Seems reasonable to me.
30 minute gals get 40 or 50 responses a day. If you'd like a more prompt response, perhaps you should increase your wager and see a lady that excels in customer service. I bet the top 10 in Minneapolis could help you out.
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Good luck with your hobbying!