I started when my marriage collapsed. I began by going to strip clubs, which while fun was also expensive and not that easy to get what I really wanted. I started seeing escorts a while after I found TER; it took a little while for me to decide that the site was actually legit.
What I like is the opportunity to see young, hot women who normally wouldn't give me the time of day. What I dislike is all the problems caused by its being illegal. I believe things would be much better overall if we didn't have this concern.So in an attempt to get interesting conversation going, I thought I would pose this question.
What made you get in the hobby and what is one thing you like and dislike about it?
So I was in a relationship for many years and honestly never thought about getting in the hobby and I didnt really need to. After a break up, I found out my FWB was dabbling in hobby to make extra money. I meet two of her friends at a party, who also were pros, and hooked up with both(my first threesome). I guess that kinda hooked me. Those were the days, lol.
Pro-I love the variety of women but also the connection with some pros(the ones who are genuine at least). The sex with most is great as well.
Obviously the con is that the hobby is super expensive. Unfortunately I dont make 6 figures like some guys, so have to really plan out encounters now. This wasnt as big of and issue when BP was around but too many low class chicks were on there and too many drug addicts.
Your turn..
I have an open relationship with my wife. There's some things she can't do (due to medical reasons) and others can. We just find this easier.
Pros: Alleviates an urge, meet some cute women, and convenient.
Cons: This shit is expensive, meet a lot of eh women. To be honest rather be with wife.
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When i was 17 i enlisted inthe Marine Corp i finished my training in San Diego and Pendleton. My company got our first weekend pass after months of training. They told us Tijuana was off limits, so of course my squad looking for fun headed down there. Got down there ended up in the Brooklyn Bar, no age limit and anything goes. We got a table and sat down, as a wide eyed kid looked around there was a mariachi band playing chicks everywhere and 1st time drinking in a bar. You put down a half buck scantly clad Latinos would come by and pick it up with there snatch, i look around chicks were under peoples tables sucking cock. Chicks would come over stick there tits in your mouth and shove there hands down your pants. In the midst of this a really hot blond chick walked across the bar grabbed me by the hand and led me upstairs to her room. She got me comfortable and naked then her. We got in the sack and she started worship my cock and balls, then the door opened and there stood a really large mexican she got up started bitching at him and slammed the door in his face. She jumped back in the sack i was rock hard in the prime of my life and in great shape. I fucked her and fucked till we were both soaked in each other sweat and love juice we used no condom dis every position. We fucked until we were both worn out. We rested and cuddled she was so nice, and fun and hot.i was getting up to leave she grabbed my dick got me rock hard and away we went again. Never a mention of money went down stairs to a cheering table of jarheads, guess they must have paid for it although never said so.Amazing evening and will never forget.
When I was 18 I went in the service and was stationed in Germany where it was legal. I knew it prior to arriving and did my best to find out where this happened without sounding like I was going there! LOL
I took the information I had and went for a long walk that 1st weekend in search of the place. I had given up hope when all the sudden I stumbled upon it. I walked up and down the street trying to decide! It was pretty fun and I was hooked!
I didnt do it a ton at that point due to lack of funds. After I got out I seemed to find enough without paying to keep me happy.
Once I married I had it as much as I wanted and it was daily as a rule. But over time it lost the fun excitement it had before and I grew bored. As I recall I went to a few of the massage house back then but that was rare. Then since my job had me traveling a lot I began to discover the strip joints and I spent too much there and sometimes actually got lucky!
Then came the internet!! There was a time before the PC police showed up where porn pics were often sent amongst people myself included. One day while looking at some link up popped Adult Friend Finder and I was like "What the Heck!!!" So I signed up and found it to be more difficult than I thought because the women were looking more for a relationship it seemed. Or at least those were the ones I found.
Then one day I discovered TER.... As they say the rest is history! I've faded in and out of here over the years but always come back. I wish I didnt so much but its so damned fun!
I dont have the limitless funds some do so I typically do lots of research first. I've found that I prefer the women closer to my age which is early 60s. I will look as low as maybe 35 but tend to stay above 45 for the most part
I really have come to enjoy a couple that I have met to the point where I think of them as friends (Even though I don't think that thought is reciprocated and I don't blame them either) I'm sure if I was single I'd try dating some of the ladies I met but I doubt any would take me up on it. I know for fact that if I was single I'd be a complete slut for awhile! LOL
As far as what I don't like. I'd have to say it would be when I meet someone with great reviews but it doesnt seem that way for me. That and the fact its so spendy and the part where you could get busted!
Great suggestion for a thread BTW!
Likes: Variety
Dislike: Cost
Why?: See likes, above.
I started when my marriage collapsed. I began by going to strip clubs, which while fun was also expensive and not that easy to get what I really wanted. I started seeing escorts a while after I found TER; it took a little while for me to decide that the site was actually legit.
What I like is the opportunity to see young, hot women who normally wouldn't give me the time of day.
What I dislike is all the problems caused by its being illegal. I believe things would be much better overall if we didn't have this concern.
I got into the hobby when I moved to the Cities in 2011. For me I really never thought about being serious about the hobby until I moved here.
When I was 25 and finishing my PHD I met an married the love of my life, unfortunately, 6 months into our marriage I lost her in a car accident. So married at 25 and a widower at 26. Not looking to sympathy, this has a lot to do with why I hobby. Well after her death I became very self destructive and did things and partook in behaviors I'm not proud of. I ended up getting a chance to do a post-doctorate fellowship at a school in Europe, which I jumped at the chance. I took full advantage of the close proximity to Amsterdam for sure and visited many clubs in Berlin. Well after about a year I cleaned up my act and got back to living my life and totally removed myself from seeing any providers . I started dating again and met some fantastic women, but I always felt they were judging me when they found out I was a widower. I would not share this info until I was well into any relationship. I never remarried. I still get very frustrated with dating because now that I'm in my early 50s I still feel that women who I date treat me one of two ways: 1.) Oh you are "broken" so I'm going to run. 2) Oh you are "broken" so I'm going to fix you. I guess I'm like everyone else, sure we all are a little bruised, but I feel that I've dealt with my issues and am a well-adjusted individua, I don't need to be fixed. So basically for me being in the Hobby, is a hell of a lot easier than dating in "civilian" life. I will say this, Covid has cut down my hobbying over the past year so I feel like I am starting all over again. Would love some recommendations of providers over 35.
Be Safe,
Buck
Buck, an excellent post. Thanks for sharing
Living with a very crabby, bitchy, controlling wife that won't have sex for too many years. Now she might finally leave but sooo expensive now. I was looking at retirement instead of refinancing and starting over.
After 10 years of wife imposed abstinence I decided to outsource my needs to a professional.
My favorite thing was 4-5 day trips with a favorite lady.
Dislikes, having to retire due to my health a few years ago.