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rembrnt 14 Reviews 2255 reads
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Noticing the big boom in new unknowns in the hobby its interesting to see how this changes the behavior of people.

Just going by recent posts and reviews, I feel like some of us are being a bit careless and putting ourselves in unnecessary risk because of the avalanche of new prospects. By letting the little head take over the big head we are not only putting ourselves in risk with LE but also of having an unfortunate situation such as girls taking the donation and sprinting or on one of the worse case scenarios finding yourself on very un-wanted company and ending in an ER.

So gentlemen do your homework and don't put your self at risk, what should be an hour or two of fun can turn in to a long drawn nightmare in some cases. Always remember the rule of thumb, if it looks too good to be true 99.9% of the time it is.

Also keep in mind that ladies that do perform screening are doing it for both yours and her safety. Take it from me, an appointment that you have been screened for goes much smother and (in my experience, I had one case that a provider skipped the screening and I spent more time trying to convince her that I was not LE that getting a good ambiance was difficult at the start, plus she was freaked out) is more fun because you can let the little head take over and she will be more comfortable. That being said, I do agree that some ladies can go a bit heavy on their screening requirements and at times have no flexibility, personally if she asks for something I'm not comfortable sharing I will politely state that I'm not comfortable sharing the requested information and we have always found a middle ground.

This community is a great tool to keep our noses clean along with tools like TinEye and like I always say Google is all mighty and all knowing. Use them wisely, don't get drawn by a nice g string pic on BP that in most cases belongs to some chick in Russia or some other country and to our misfortune she has not traveled to our location. As far as stolen pics, if TinEye returns multiple profiles, with different names, some times its a good idea to check with the provider (that is not local) if she really is in the cities under a different name, I have had cases where some girl is using pictures for a girl in NY and when I contact the real owner of the pictures clearly states that she is not in the area and thanks me for pointing out the stolen identity.

So don't act like a noob and always play it safe. If we all play safely we all live to hobby and have fun another day and in the end, isn't that what we are all here for? To have as much fun as we can while staying out of trouble? ;)

MissFiona1127 reads


Sounds pretty logical to me.
My view is if it's too good to be true "eee", "it's probably not". I mean a hot 19yr old with a 100. special, take it for it is, in and out. LE, simply stop incriminating yourself, just stop incriminating yourself, it's simple. No "do you do this, what about this" HELLO dadundadah. You experience what you pay for so all that extra talk pre- event is awkward it makes people nervous.
Reality, time is rarely the issue/code words baby are in affect. Hope this helps, read between the lines hun. Plus LE is not putting no 400+ rate up. They're hot on backpages, #1 it's cheap advertising, #2 no i.d. needed from the girl/underage ladies being exploited, #3 yea more pimps, # more drug user, NOT ALL but hey it is what is. That's what you get penny pinchin, no offense please but come on, 7 guys at 200 or 100 a "pop" what would you expect??? To make love????
Save your 2s n fews and get an adventure multiple hours, lunch, dinner, jacuzzi, toy party with a truly sophisticate woman...cheap is rarely better EVER.
F.Y.I.I do believe the ladies have far more to worry about but both sexes don't need that crap

Posted By: rembrnt
Noticing the big boom in new unknowns in the hobby its interesting to see how this changes the behavior of people.
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Just going by recent posts and reviews, I feel like some of us are being a bit careless and putting ourselves in unnecessary risk because of the avalanche of new prospects. By letting the little head take over the big head we are not only putting ourselves in risk with LE but also of having an unfortunate situation such as girls taking the donation and sprinting or on one of the worse case scenarios finding yourself on very un-wanted company and ending in an ER.

So gentlemen do your homework and don't put your self at risk, what should be an hour or two of fun can turn in to a long drawn nightmare in some cases. Always remember the rule of thumb, if it looks too good to be true 99.9% of the time it is.

Also keep in mind that ladies that do perform screening are doing it for both yours and her safety. Take it from me, an appointment that you have been screened for goes much smother and (in my experience, I had one case that a provider skipped the screening and I spent more time trying to convince her that I was not LE that getting a good ambiance was difficult at the start, plus she was freaked out) is more fun because you can let the little head take over and she will be more comfortable. That being said, I do agree that some ladies can go a bit heavy on their screening requirements and at times have no flexibility, personally if she asks for something I'm not comfortable sharing I will politely state that I'm not comfortable sharing the requested information and we have always found a middle ground.

This community is a great tool to keep our noses clean along with tools like TinEye and like I always say Google is all mighty and all knowing. Use them wisely, don't get drawn by a nice g string pic on BP that in most cases belongs to some chick in Russia or some other country and to our misfortune she has not traveled to our location. As far as stolen pics, if TinEye returns multiple profiles, with different names, some times its a good idea to check with the provider (that is not local) if she really is in the cities under a different name, I have had cases where some girl is using pictures for a girl in NY and when I contact the real owner of the pictures clearly states that she is not in the area and thanks me for pointing out the stolen identity.

So don't act like a noob and always play it safe. If we all play safely we all live to hobby and have fun another day and in the end, isn't that what we are all here for? To have as much fun as we can while staying out of trouble? ;)

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mnfan704 reads

Hey, im a newbie and I appreciate the post :)

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oleoneeye1028 reads

Also worth mentioning - that for every well established and reviewed provider, there are those new ladies that pop up without the experience nor common sense of understanding all the risks.  Therein lie the prospects of discovering that diamond in the rough, so to speak, and someone has to TOFTT as we say, although with the street smarts to know when to stay away or walk away.  I could name a dozen ladies who at one time were among the b&s, ncns variety that learned the "hobby" etiquette and protocols the hard way, as have many of us long time hobbyists.  

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rembrnt1159 reads

I agree that someone has to TOFTT with some of the unknowns I'm just suggesting you do your homework before you venture out. I have had a few of those experiences and so far have had an great outcome but that is because I don't ignore the obvious signs that something is a miss and don't let a dirt cheap rate and pictures that are too good to be true take over rational thinking. But yeah someone has to give the new ladies venturing in the hobby a try I'm just saying be careful when you do, if your gut check says something is wrong trust your gut not the bottom head ;)

Posted By: oleoneeye
Also worth mentioning - that for every well established and reviewed provider, there are those new ladies that pop up without the experience nor common sense of understanding all the risks.  Therein lie the prospects of discovering that diamond in the rough, so to speak, and someone has to TOFTT as we say, although with the street smarts to know when to stay away or walk away.  I could name a dozen ladies who at one time were among the b&s, ncns variety that learned the "hobby" etiquette and protocols the hard way, as have many of us long time hobbyists.  

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vorlon1046 reads

Reminding of us of the basics is a good idea.   We always have newbies who aren't as familiar with these things and no matter how much of a veteran you are, overconfidence in your ability to avoid trouble should always be a concern.

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oleoneeye1567 reads

Also worth mentioning - that for every well established and reviewed provider, there are those new ladies that pop up without the experience nor common sense of understanding all the risks.  Therein lie the prospects of discovering that diamond in the rough, so to speak, and someone has to TOFTT as we say, although with the street smarts to know when to stay away or walk away.  I could name a dozen ladies who at one time were among the b&s, ncns variety that learned the "hobby" etiquette and protocols the hard way, as have many of us long time hobbyists.  

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MissFiona1492 reads

Didn't mean to be preachy, I had debate class in college so it kinda come natural, hehe

Posted By: oleoneeye
Also worth mentioning - that for every well established and reviewed provider, there are those new ladies that pop up without the experience nor common sense of understanding all the risks.  Therein lie the prospects of discovering that diamond in the rough, so to speak, and someone has to TOFTT as we say, although with the street smarts to know when to stay away or walk away.  I could name a dozen ladies who at one time were among the b&s, ncns variety that learned the "hobby" etiquette and protocols the hard way, as have many of us long time hobbyists.  

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