I just so happen saw that post this morning and have talk about it to a few people… I find it very interesting. I was thinking about your original post guy and why don’t the ladies post?
I can remember back to the 1st board that there was, and I think that was over 6-7 years ago. There were a handful of guys and gals on that board. We got along with each other and respected each other. There were NO fights between the ladies and the guys respected the ladies in their posts. Then things started to change, one thing I did notice was that some guys have this view in their mind on how the date is going to happen. Then maybe it does not come out like that, because of a number of reasons. So they try to trash the lady they saw. Then there is the normal “save the queen” postings that come after that.
It was a number of years ago that I was keeping track of the number of ladies that were forced off the boards for a number of reasons. Some of them were really stupid!! But if my memory serves me right it was almost 15-20 providers that have fallen that way…and this was a number of years ago. I remember the e-mails that I received from some of the ladies and how outrage they were on how they were treated. I don’t think there will ever be a common ground on the public boards for this to happen.
Now the ladies post on their own private boards, which might be a great idea
on the board...Just in the last day we have had 2 posts with negative slants to them... The first a post about Peyton and how bad her service was...sometimes guys I wonder???..We expect none the less from the ladies when it comes to personal upkeep so why on earth would you come to the board and slam on a gal for not providing when you created the problem…not the gal, so why post? Then we have the Badgirl Bianca aka "Badnews" post..and under an alias at that!! Why on earth would you post that without knowing what the whole story is…Bianca is a great gal and sometime personal issues will come first… These are perfect examples of why the ladies don’t join in on the board…We all need to take a little sensitivity training here…I am all for letting everyone know when someone is not who or what they say they are but if we want to have a open discussion board here with more then just the guys talking about the next hottie. We will have to change. I know I have, personal issues should just stay off the board.
I just so happen saw that post this morning and have talk about it to a few people… I find it very interesting. I was thinking about your original post guy and why don’t the ladies post?
I can remember back to the 1st board that there was, and I think that was over 6-7 years ago. There were a handful of guys and gals on that board. We got along with each other and respected each other. There were NO fights between the ladies and the guys respected the ladies in their posts. Then things started to change, one thing I did notice was that some guys have this view in their mind on how the date is going to happen. Then maybe it does not come out like that, because of a number of reasons. So they try to trash the lady they saw. Then there is the normal “save the queen” postings that come after that.
It was a number of years ago that I was keeping track of the number of ladies that were forced off the boards for a number of reasons. Some of them were really stupid!! But if my memory serves me right it was almost 15-20 providers that have fallen that way…and this was a number of years ago. I remember the e-mails that I received from some of the ladies and how outrage they were on how they were treated. I don’t think there will ever be a common ground on the public boards for this to happen.
Now the ladies post on their own private boards, which might be a great idea
Fletch, Thanks so much for that post, I am almost in total agreement with Anneke's post on the National board and I know many of the other local ladies at one time or another have felt the same way. I have been trying to post more often now that I am phasing down in my own career and really enjoy being a member and the boards if there are good topics for a ladie to join into the discussion and it's nice when the tone is safe and inviting to do just that. I feel that at times there are some hobbyists that kind of live for the drama and even like try and start spats or fan the flames and it just makes such negative energy for any who follow the threads that take that vein, that I feel like my time is wasted even paying attention or paying for a membership if I am not logging out with a smile on my face. Don't all of us have enough stress and probably workplace drama to last??heehe. I really think it is getting better and being ever optimistic, it doesen't hurt to hope and wish that it continues and becomes a fun and informative place to hang-out does it???? Thank goodness the kind in here pretty much outweigh the hurtful and I am sure grateful that you thought enough of us gals to even post the above, thanks. xoxo J.
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