I think every guy plays the yes/no game when they’re walking thru crowds and looking at all the lovely ladies mixed in the masses.  What I find interesting and a bit titillating I suppose is when you see a smokeshow (or pair of) walking thru a terminal toting a bunch of bags.  Looking good, not like the vaca traveler with 5 layers of clothes and the travel hack attachments hanging on their bodies. Pretty sure I’ve seen many pros that just landed and heading for their incalls over the years.  I’m really good at remembering faces and every once in a while after being in the airport, I’ll jump on tryst or Eros to see if I recognize any of the visiting ladle's.  I haven’t narrowed down distinct profile quite yet but getting close.

-- Modified on 3/7/2025 11:22:47 AM

Hmm, this is one of those moments where I totally get and I also hope you never admit this to a provider, ever.  
One of my most unnerving experiences happened in an airport.

 
I had just gotten home from a FMTY and was scrolling through IG when I decided to check my DMs. Near the top was one that said, “How does that scotch taste?” I checked the time stamp, and it was from when I was at BWI airport. I thought it was a little weird, but then I checked my email about an hour later and found an email from someone telling me how they had been behind me in line at TSA Pre-check, watched me at the bar by the gate, and then were two rows behind me on the plane back to MSP.

 
While they were kind enough to wax poetic on how I'm "...even more gorgeous in person," that did not take the edge off how uncomfortable I felt. Although at some point, I'll start blurring my face again, I actually enjoy being face out - there's a freedom there but it comes with a con: messages like that monthly from local hobbyists.  

 
Maybe keep it in mind that while recognizing a smokeshow is one thing, I recommend keeping it to yourself. Just a thought.

Ive seen providers sitting courtside and in the Lexus section at the twolves games.  Also seen them while watching the game being streamed.  Its interesting watching a local legend stare at her phone for the entire game, the dude she was with must have been thinking "yknow, she's really not into this".

I was AYMBW and checking my MGTY doing some TWAMP and I thought I saw PAIGE at WITA  but it was WFP.

Buddy, please don't announce to the world that you are a stalker. This post is weird and creepy. Just...no. Providers are not some separate human entities that you should try to spot in the "wild". Not every guy does this, so no need to "think" this happens all the time.  Posts like this are exactly why providers blur their pictures on their website. Again, just...no.

I'm not sure if anyone else has noticed, but airline travel has been more of a challenge lately.  There was a recent trip coming back from the SW area of the states when a certain local airline delayed my 7:10 am departure to 11:20, then to 4:00 PM only to be canceled about an hour before that. 2 gate changes, breakfast and then lunch in different terminal restaurants.  I likely walked 2 miles dragging my shit around and trying to get some work done in the process.  OK, we've set the stage for the OP.

I'm going to jump around a bit and bring back the old days of the scene in Minneapolis to make a point.  Good or bad, depending on the POV of the reader, Minneapolis had a robust sex scene 20+- years ago.  Online forums and ad platforms opened a new world of choices and allowed communication between mongers and also between the buyer and seller in forums such as this.  We had probably or at least, 15 actual brick and mortar massage parlors plus a handful of pretty well known pop up brothels that would move around town.  What the hell does that have to do with anything you might be wondering?  A gent couldn't simply stop by a brothel unannounced to check out the ladies but you certainly could go down Hennipen, University or Payne Ave, have a beer or two and watch some topless or totally nude gals depending on local ordinances and then stop by a local rub joint, check out the line up and pick out a gal to have some fun with or walk back out and move on the the next one.  Often, a guy would find another hottie to come back and see a different day.  If you had the cash, it was a buyers market.  There were some pervs out there too that seemed like they'd drive around daily to see all the different lineups but never drop any cash down.  Or at least that was what some of the ladies would claim.  If that offends some of the ladies, don't beat me with the broomstick, I didn't create it and it was going a long time before I showed up.  The point here is, you could actually speak with 4 or 5 sexy dressed women before you would pick one out.  Sometimes through a small window in the door and sometimes face to face inside.  For a guy, there's a certain level of excitement in the process but I am also aware that it's likely the complete opposite for the women.  Again, not my system.

Perhaps I should have been more clear when I posted about seeing a potential hot female traveler that just deplaned or perhaps waiting at the gate for the same plane.  I'll go further with hotel lobbies or elevators.  Observing and engaging are two completely different things.  If a traveler and I were alone in an elevator I might try and strike up a convo that would leave her with an obvious opportunity to respond in kind, sure.  Hey, Sugartits...gotta card?  Not a chance...

Considering whether that hot female is a SW or not is itself compelling.  My thoughts are how many other dudes around me are clue'd in that she might be?  It's not like I can ask my SO if she thinks she is or the dude behind me so it's just a thought in my own head.  Pretty innocent, actually, if it wasn't about fucking.

If I were to find the traveler was actually an escort or SW and I had the time to see her at some point after, sure, why not?  Would I bring "Hey, saw you at the airport" at any point, no.  Why would someone risk the time involved (more important) and the cash (less important) and the experience itself (most important) by bringing that up.  
I'm anonymous, she's anonymous.  It's a perfect scenario.  If there's a traveling pair, hell, that might just give me happy thoughts for the whole flight considering the potential.  Most guys are visual creatures and their fantasies are all over the board from catching that massive fish to saving the kid from the burning house but I think mostly involve naked women and doing things with them when they are naked.  The more, the better.  

So, I'll wrap this up by saying I spend a hell of a lot of time in airports and hotel lobbies and to remind everyone it was simply an observation.  I'm calling this response a "twofer" to both ladies who have now chimed in to either remind me of the obvious or outright attacking me as a stalker because I notice but may actually want to meet, pay and fuck a traveling smokeshow.  

-- Modified on 3/9/2025 6:19:21 AM

Buddy, no need to spend two hours writing up your rebuttal, editing it, and then liking your own rebuttal.  I am not reading this whole damn thing. Ug. No one is attacking you. 2 providers have told you that yes, what you said is in fact stalkerish. If anyone that I have never met before said they saw me at an airport, thought I may be a provider, looked me up on various ad sites, and commented on what I was wearing, drinking, or eating, I 100% would not be seeing that person. Not cool. There is no way you can defend this hot mess, just move on with life and chalk it up as a learning experience.

Are you intoxicated?  You were claiming what I wrote was stalking and you embellish and use the story of what happened to Paige to turn it against me.  Good grief woman.  Maybe you misinterpreted what I wrote but you definitely stepped on a rake this time.  Just a guy in an airport and maybe a potential client if the situation was right.  

Read this very slowly....NO....
That is not "potential client" behavior....that is stalking behavior....
No one is against you, very thin skinned human.  
Be a better human.

Here is my take on this...

I too when traveling have noticed and wondered how many women might be professionals as well when I have been traveling.  Or when I have been at hotels while out and about.   Do I approach, try to look up online, etc.   NO!!!  But curiosity does run thru my mind.   It is the little things that I have picked up throughout the years while I have been seeing companions.  Things you notice is all.

But like mentioned you should never take it as far as mention you seen them, going up to any provider and telling them you know they are a provider while they are out in the "real world" type situation, messaging them, stalking them, etc.   Dont be a creeper.

Now if you happen to be cruising thru an ad site and see a familiar face and think back..... HOLY SHIT.... i saw her in an airport, at a bar, etc at one point in your life.... be like WOW..... coincidence.   But dont ever bring it up.  Just chalk it up to a memory you keep to yourself.

Remember discretion is key and it goes both ways.  

-- Modified on 3/10/2025 11:07:15 AM

Hey people,  just chill. Snafu was just making a casual comment.  Stop making a mountain out of a mole hill.
Good grief.

OK, if you keep your hobby long enough, you will meet a working girl in real life. It is going to happen in Minneapolis, Vegas, or anywhere. Plan on how to deal with it.  

If you are traveling with an SO, think about what to say. First, realize that there may be a look of recognition on your face. Your companion will ask, "Who is that?" or "How do you know her?" Hopefully, you go somewhere they don't go—a Health Club, a Cigar lounge, anywhere. DO NOT LIE and say you have no idea who that person is. Your SO will see the look of recognition and will know you are lying.

I rounded a corner in Vegas and ran into our neighbor. Thirty seconds apart, and we'd have missed each other.  Yes, the look of recognition was instantaneous. My SO caught my look before making the neighbor. (Yes, the neighbor is an attractive blonde. Thank God we walk dogs together.)

Next, do not make contact with any lady you have met privately when you are in public. They have a private life too.

I have been platinum on Delta for years, so I spend too much time in airports and hotels. Spend a few minutes thinking of what to say now, and then you might escape unscathed when you bump into a beautiful woman half your age at the trade show hotel with 1/2 your staff next to you.  Girls where you get your haircut work in a pinch, unless you go to a barber.

Casual comments get people on the FBI watchlist. Think with the big head pal.

How does this scenario get someone on an FBI watchlist?

If I'm ever in a situation where I'm asked "How do you two know each other?" by someone on the other side, I just say we took a class together once and leave it at that.  That allows them to fill in the blanks - be it a high school class, college, cooking, yoga, tax prep, beekeeping, mime, whatever it may be that they can come up with at a moments notice

I may be the odd duck here but I think the whole scenario sounds sexy.  The fella just happened to notice someone he recognized and enjoyed.  He didn't approach in person,  he was polite and just sent an email.  He couldn't help they were going to the same place.  
And maybe I'm getting old but I still love being considered a smokeshow. I appreciate it more now than I did when I was young.  I actually get a kick out of it.  
Now,  if you ever run into a provider in public , I would hope y'all have the good sense not to approach unless she's on fire and you have a bucket of water.  Otherwise there's not too many other reasons . If I saw client A or B at the State Fair, out to dinner or walking down the street I would never go running up to him,  give him a hug and kiss then start introducing him to whoever I was with. And I surely would hope the same.  

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