Not all women are friendly to newbies. Be aggressive about the time you are spending because not all will say you can do more than 1 pop. Ask for more then you need.
Posted By: isquared
Maybe help give some valuable "what not to do"'s to some of us still learning the finer points (not the knock you over the head common sense kind)...
It was early in my hobbying and wasn't really a mistake. I was seeing a highly rated lady and for some reason I was scared shitless. Not of any physcal danger, but because I knew I was over matched and couldn't handle this lady. So as somebody on this board is fond of saying relaxe it"s just SEX. I have since seen the lady over 20 times and you know what I'm still sorta scared of her and can't handle her. She knows who she is!!!!! LOL So just enjoy yourself.
Not all women are friendly to newbies. Be aggressive about the time you are spending because not all will say you can do more than 1 pop. Ask for more then you need.
Posted By: isquared
Maybe help give some valuable "what not to do"'s to some of us still learning the finer points (not the knock you over the head common sense kind)...
Relax and enjoy your encounters. I am by nature leary and not overly trusting, early in my hobbying career I was very nervous when meeting new providers and this let to some engagements less than satisfying for me and the provider. Luckily they understood and I have seen several mutliple times and it has gotten better. It;s normal and fun to have some anxiousness when meeting someone new but keep it under control.
...in life we will all make mistakes. I'm hardly a grizzled vet by any means (as a hobbyist) but hopefully you will have less misques than I did recently. Recognize the experience for what it is. I'll admit that I was very infatuated (keyword was) and displayed way too much emotionally vulnerability due to the comfort level that I felt with the provider. Kind of stupid. An awkward experience can certainly dull the shine of infatuation in a hurry. Just remind yourself that it is just sex and you will have a great time. Regretfully I am pretty confident that I blew a chance to ever visit an ATF ever again but life goes on. Live, learn and laugh...
if things are less than advertised or there's some unpleasant surprise and it doesn't work for you. Don't lay the envelope on the counter until you're ready.
if things are less than advertised or there's some unpleasant surprise and it doesn't work for you. Don't lay the envelope on the counter until you're ready.
It is is hard to do at first, but once you get the confidence to do it you will be happy with your decision. My worst experiences were when I stayed. Don't worry about reprecussions. She might be pissed, but she knows it is because of her misrepresentation, so she will let it pass. It's your $$$, so politely say, "I'm sorry, I was expecting someone else", and walk out the door. Once you take those few steps and you are out the door, remind yourself of those benjis still in your pocket. The horniness will soon pass. I've found that legitatime agencies with reviews or independants with lots of reviews are the best bet.
1) No matter how good of time you are having, never ever forget this is a business relationship. Best way to screw that up is to forget that and end up with a favorite lady who won't see you again or who rips you off big time.
2) Remember that no matter how great you think a certain provider is, not everyone else will agree with you. There's a difference between speaking up for a provider who is being unfairly maligned and one who is receiving legitimate criticism, even if it doesn't match your experiences with her.
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