How many times is too many to call or email a provider? I'm don't live in MN, but I'm frequently here for business so I like to try and schedule a few days to a week in advance. I'm trying to book with some more upscale providers not of the backpage variety. I've sent emails using the info either on personal websites or listed on the TER review and in a few cases, a follow-up text. Should I just sit back and wait for replies and if nothing comes, just move on? I want to be respectful and not come off as a total creeper. Any input would be appreciated. Thanks!

The best approach I have found is to find 4 ladies you are interested in and mail all four. You will hear back from maybe 2 or 3 and maybe be able to find a time that matched for one.

Even if you do set something up a week in advance, you could still get a cancellation, so getting pre-screened is a must if you need to find a back-up. We all try to avoid same day bookings, but it happens and sometimes it worked out for everyone involved. I recently had two cancellations in. Boston due to weather. I did a same night booking with a very well reviewed girl on P411 and we have a great time.

I never double book, but I do try to make sure that I have established contact with at least three potential dates. Otherwise you are left scrambling.

Best thing I say is to fill out the verification form.  Providers like it when it its easier for them to respond.  Just a thought!

There are any number of reasons why you may not have heard back.  Beyond that I would just wait until another visit rolls around before I would try again.

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