So, I was just thinking and wondering what men think about with regards to long dates.  There are lots of reasons to do both short and long dates.... and both can be fantastic and fun!  It's all about the reason you are seeing your favorite escort, anyway!

Obviously there is the financial side of it.  The hobby is fun, but not inexpensive.  If an hour is what you can do, then enjoy that hour to the max, of course!  Even in an hour a GFE experience can happen, or if PSE is what you really want then as Madonna said, "Express Yourself" and make that happen!  I do!

However, even when finances are not an issue, I am occasionally asked, "What would we do for two or more hours?"  The implication is that perhaps one hour is all the time they need for their ultimate goal.  While that may be true, who says that achievement has to happen in the FIRST 60 minutes?  With the right escort, that round can happen AFTER an hour or two (or three!) of:
--dining, either out in public with a discrete but beautiful woman, or perhaps in private with sensual foods and wine...with a very special dessert!
--teasing and sensual fun! Play a game of strip poker, or strip Trivia Pursuit!  The game takes a while but the build up is fantastic!
--sitting, relaxing in each others arms discussing ideas, the world, music, books, or whatever else interests you.  
--simply relaxing in comfortable peaceful silence...where else do you get that in your life?

Extended meetings are not for everyone!  Many gentlemen have related to me that they initially wanted to plan longer dates, but ended up not doing them as many escorts they saw didn't enjoy anything more than a quickie and didn't know what to do for a longer time experience anyway! In that case the financial investment became a disappointment.  Personally, I treasure longer dates because it is more intimate, more fun, more "real life", and has the greater potential for both sensual and intellectual connection. Still, having said that, I can say that some of my fondest memories have been very hot, quick, very naughty and fun!

Anyway, just my thoughts and wondering what others might have to add!  I know I will see comments about 15 minutes being the right amount of time, but thought I would post this anyway! LOL!

XO
Wendy

And by that I mean know each other well enough to believe that you can enjoy each others company when you are doing other things besides rolling around in bed.  At that point, it's a matter of finding other things to enjoy.

With you spending time is sweet, finding the time and making it work is harder...............   mbs

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And that can be hard to know ahead of time but with research one can get a pretty good idea of what to expect.

The first and only time (so far) that I met Wendy was for a 2 hour. Let me tell you there was never a problem trying to find something to do! And I have been called Vanilla (not by Wendy) and I am certain there are guys who can wow a woman much better. But I really do just love women and spending time with them. A couple providers have confided in me that some appointments really are hard work! So I try to not be. If I can leave an appontment and the lady had a good time, you can bet I did.

So Wendy, I have had some appointments were it did not take 15 minutes, I have actually left my car, made my way up the elevator and to the room, met the "lady" and done our thing and been back down and in the car in 13 minutes flat! I know because I called for the room right before getting out of the car and checked that time against the time I got back because it was so damn rushed.

On the other hand I have had planned 2 hour dates come to an end only to find out it had been 4 or 5 hours since I left the car! And I was so engrossed in the Wonderfull Woman that I had not realized it had been that long.

To me it is all about chemistry and personality. And probably more likely to be successful with a lady who was willing to invest in a few emails or phone calls to get to know each other just a little first.

Extened dates for a first meeting? The ones I did have been great times for me.... But when I TOFTT with a a new BP girl, I ussually just do a 1/2 hour. A lot of them are over in 20 minutes anyway.

I enjoy longer dates as well.
Some of the things I enjoy doing on my extended sessions are:
Going to museums.
Going to a concert.
Going to a theatrical play or a film.
Read erotic literature to each other.
But, my favorite would have to be a date at the MN state fair.
All of those activities stimulate the mind, and in my experiences, enrich vibrant conversations.


Great post Wendy!
Xo,
SG

Good post Wendy.  If I had unlimited hobby funds then longer dates could be quite a bit of fun.  Unfortunately my hobby funds are limited and so a 4 hour date wouldn't make sense financially.  On the other hand,  when my travels use to take me to Thailand (single and on an oil field income), I very much enjoyed the longer dates.  At the time most hobby dates were for the entire evening (from the time you pick up the lady until the next morning) at a cost less than a 1/2hr special here.  A bit of dinner, hitting the clubs, enjoying the beach, hitting the night bazar were all nice ways to enjoy the early evening.  Once in awhile I would take one lady for the week and we would travel - quite fun (especially when the lady was bi and like to pick up local girls to join us for the evening).

dinner dates
baseball/football games
walks (and some hanky panky) in the park
snowmobiling in the winter
fishing in the summer (as long as I do not have to bait my hook or touch a slimy fish)

Some of my favorite other things to do on long dates or trips:

Bus tour of cities and sight seeing
Staying in bed watching movies, drinking wine, and ordering room service
Seeing the waiters expression after he delivers both lunch and dinner to us still naked in bed
European pool cabana birthday parties
Long walks over bridges (into bad areas)
All day private wine tours
2-3 hour dinners in the finest restaurants
Watch airshows just outside the hotel window
Special concerts and the limo ride to and from
Waking up with a special lady
Las Vegas shows
Sharing time with a second lady, mutual friend
Fun shopping trips, being in the dressing room
College dance performances
Finding and enjoying the best rib joint in town
Breakfast naked in the room
Changing hotels at midnight
Being ignored (just me) by a very distracted waiter
Getting stranded for another night by Delta airlines
Long couples massage sessions
Long conversations with a fascinating lady
Reading a book in a national park by a river
The travel itself
Finding out only the first floor of the hotel is on fire and we're on the 15th
Lunch at a special place

Spending an extended time is not for everyone.  There must be a connection that allows the time spent together to enjoyable for both parties.

It is however, a wonderful way to "escape" from the realities of life and enjoy the beauty, intelligence and "fun" of an exceptional woman.