I guess I learned the hard way on 2 issues. One: much to my surprise that there is that much political correctness on TER of all places! That really surprises the heck out of me! (?) [2] That it's okay I guess for providers to post fake pics, do bate-n-switch, up-charge, give poor service, rush service, give a run-around, take donation and run, etc... and that's okay. If a hobbyist gives a bad review under REVIEWS, it's taken as factual experience. However, if there is critical comments of a provider and certain details on Regional Boards, there's all kinds of negative comments towards the hobbyist and all kinds of sympathy towards the provider???????? I don't get it?????? The Hobby world is a 2-way street! Give donation and expect good service. Don't get good service/experience, post bad review! If provider wants to build up a good client base, give good service, get good review. Get more biz. Daaa! Why should a provider who has no reviews and plays all the games, expect good comments on TER???? NOT! Why is it that there is a hand full of really great providers like Alex, who has been doing this for many years and always get good/great reviews compared to all the many "fly by nights" who demand big donations eventhough no reviews, get any sympathy???  Hey ladies; it's a biz and a 2-way street. You jerk me around, I'll do the same!

One: much to my surprise that there is that much political correctness on TER of all places! That really surprises the heck out of me

It isn't so much Political correctness but rather shut your mouth so the girl stays safe. Giving info about her incall, first name, etc. (which you HAVE done) is getting you in trouble, not the fact that you're asking about the girls. Learn what can be said and what cant,... right now you're a scary hobbyist to a lot of us ladies who read this stuff. I definitely don't want to visit someone who is going to post about me on the board and where my incall is and what it looks like and other details that are meant to stay DISCREET and PRIVATE. We trust guys coming to visit us (for what its worth lol) and because you don't see the error in your ways, you are one to avoid.


[2] That it's okay I guess for providers to post fake pics, do bate-n-switch, up-charge, give poor service, rush service, give a run-around, take donation and run, etc... and that's okay. If a hobbyist gives a bad review under REVIEWS, it's taken as factual experience. However, if there is critical comments of a provider and certain details on Regional Boards, there's all kinds of negative comments towards the hobbyist and all kinds of sympathy towards the provider????????

You postd too much info about the ladies you are seeking! And no links and that pisses people off. Did you see my link about how to copy and paste the URL bar? This could really help you in the long run (See the post about Jessica).

The providers using fake pics and doing all those things are NOT the providers on this board who are well reviewed and care about their image. They utilize backpage, want to make a quick buck, and aren't afraid to pull a scam to do it. These are things we urge hobbyists to do their research for (tineye, image search etc.) and it is up to you to find it. If you see her, you took the bait, a bad review is acceptable but talking about gangsters coming out of her house, how you NCNS her, and the intersection where her incall is is just not good hobbyist etiquette. The girls who act like this DON't expect good comments on TER because they don't KNOW or don't CARE about TER, they just want your MONEY. They are not in this conversation or equation. They will never see this.



Also, I already get jerked around enough without doing any jerking on my side... I won't be playing with someone who sounds as vindictive as you! Who knows what pisses you off...

Also, I'd comment about Alex but I have no idea who she is and you didn't post a link. You should be more like the Credible Hulk....

I don’t really know any of the background on the responses to his original post, but I’ll give my take only on the post above……

First, providers and hobbyists have certain expectations of each other.  I don’t think it has to be a situation where it’s Provider vs. Hobbyist, nor should it be.  For the most part when these expectations are clearly articulated, understood and respected a good time is had by all.  Second, it is a business, and providers are here to make money and none of us should begrudge then for doing that.  With this said, the simple economics of it would dictate the better the service, the more earning potential.  I know that may be a little simplistic but I think it holds true and is very relevant.  Finally, and most importantly, hobbyist should become familiar with the term Caveat Emptor, which is Latin for “Let the buyer beware.”  Basically, I believe that all hobbyists have a responsibility to themselves, and to a lesser extent the hobby community, to do their research and see providers who are legitimate and well-reviewed.  Something that is “preached” on this board constantly!  If a hobbyist chooses to see a provider who is not reviewed or has less than stellar reviews then they have to take full responsibility for the outcome.  Let’s face it; it’s a cold cruel world.  There are some not nice people out there; all of us need to take steps to protect ourselves.  If I fail to do so or I make certain choices, then I have to take full and total responsibility for my actions and the outcomes of by behavior and choices.

Of course this is just one guys opinion.  Be safe, be smart, be respectful and do your research!!!!

Buck


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and stay out of the drama, but you've ruined your chances with the upscale providers with your ignorance and unwillingness to listen to simple logic.  You have missed COMPLETELY what has been said to you about why your post was inappropriate.  At this point, you can just got to the backpage roulette wheel and hope you don't get busted, because I don't want to see you, ever.  None of my clients out my incall on here!

You are not safe to see.  Why are you even doing this hobby?

over the past six years. I have over 70 reviews and most all are for outstanding service by providers. I have posted a few that reflect a bad experience but they are very few and usually reflect a warning for other hobbyist. I generally only see reviewed ladies or if I get a good tip from another hobbyist or provider. I am a very happy hobbyist after six years of hobbying. This is not the kind of place to come and spew all your anger and negativity. Most people on this board would love for you to have a great experience everytime.

Thank you Trinity!

Oh and purple guy no hard feelings. I just hope you learned a few things. Good luck!

I can't count how many people I had to completely cut off
because of them being indiscreet with sensitive info.
You being one of them.  I agree you are not safe to see. Ever.

On top of that, this is not a hobbyist only board.
Anyone is welcomed to contribute including providers.
Xoxo!

When you find yourself in one, stop digging.

Alex - Has over 300 reviews...

Not digging a hole. Just being honest! Not sure why all the sympathy towards certain types of providers?

Actually, most of my experiences have been average to great! Like most hobbyist, one has to go through the learning experience and had a few bumps in the road. I'm not making any big complaints about the hobby experience. Just one particular. Not sure who you are, but don't worry. I won't bother to see you either... I'll stick with my favorites or those with good or great reviews.

Seriously is the link under my handle "SEE MY TER REVIEWS" not showing?
If you don't know who I am then you're truly lost.
Lol um I PASSED ON YOU FIRST. Furthermore I'm massage only.
You keep going on & on. Let it go. Lol!

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but did you not read the response I made to your "Jessica" thread? I clearly showed you how to copy and past a link to show us where you got your info from! Maybe one thing they didn't make clear is that you have to be viewing the page you want to show in order to copy the correct URL. The URL changes in the address bar as you surf the net - each page is a different URL, Use the copy and paste directions below to copy and paste the urls from the ladies TER profile (or at least give us their ID) so we know who you are talking about, and copy and paste the links from the girls on backpage you search so we know them too! After all this riff raff though, you might be better off not posting at all.

I'll repost it here for your viewing pleasures.

: I agree with the other people that posted, posting a link is not tying our shoe laces or wiping our ass, its common courtesy. This is like when guys use a girl as a reference and just put her name and don't give me her site or email so I have to do my own digging to find these things. You wouldn't give a job reference like that! Why discuss someone who no one knows and then tell them to find their own link. Anyway, I think I found her.

If you don't know how to copy a URL and paste it, I suggest you visit this site:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080220000745AAY9sER

****Copy URL from the address bar of the page you want to share.
*****Paste the URL below the thread message box where it says link URL.

THIS Jessica might have repeat customers because of her specials, her skills, or her looks.... or any other number of reasons. Maybe PM the guys who reviewed her if you want a solid answer. Otherwise the rest of us can only speculate until we become a regular of hers.

Also, I don't know what reviews you're talking about, she didn't list her ID. Maybe you could copy and paste that for us if you want to share?


If not there is plenty of room at the kids table. :


Also, you can link pictures the same way by pasting where it says picture URL below your where you write your thread message.