Re: I encourage my clients to explore variety

Same here Curvy! Its what this is all about! I like to suggest others that after meeting the client, I think he might really enjoy and have no problem giving references to help him along! The more you give, the more you get- always been my policy, variety is fun! and spicy! If he really enjoyed his time with me, maybe he will be back sometime and that's really nice too. Sugar and spice and everything nice-yum!

Makes perfect sense, but I have to wonder...

... if some ladies are as duck-like as others.     I've had mostly good experiences with reference requests, but had a couple of surprises of the not-so-good kind.  One was a case where I saw a provider twice within a month, for 90 minutes each, thought everything went fine, but when I asked the provider for a reference a few weeks later, she said she didn't remember me.  So I sent her some very specific details of our two sessions... said she still didn't remember me.  Talk about a blow to the ol' ego!     Fortunately, a provider whom I had seen only once, for an hour, and had a great time with (and IMO clearly a class act all the way) said she would gladly give me a reference and did so promptly.  

The other problem I had re references was with a white list request of a provider whom I had seen many times for what I thought were good times for both of us.  So I decided to ask her for a white list, and she said "sure!" but said she didn't remember how to do it (I had checked beforehand to confirm she had white listed others).  So I told her I'd send her the link with instructions, and did so later that day.  Never heard from her again, even after a follow up from me.  Go figure.

Posted By: AlastiNatalie

This business is one of come and go. Not the type where a man stays seeing one woman for a year - if they wanted that they'd have a girlfriend! Ladies should let these situations roll off their back like water off a duck. It was his choice to see you, he is choosing to see someone else, let him perhaps be disappointed and he'll end up back with you That has worked for me before. Threesums are always fun and if a ref is for a girl I've done duos with plenty of times I'll be sure to let him know we are so much more fun together That has wound me up with a threesum before as well  
   
 xoxo  
 Natalie  
 

I have no problem giving references AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lets all have fun and be safe