I would like to give kudos to Melissa for doing the right thing today.  I had booked an appointment on short notice (I have a thing for real redheads) and started driving to the location.  A few minutes into my drive I got a call from her saying that she was sorry but would have to cancel due to a "family emergency".    It doesn't matter what the real reason was (maybe she got a bad vibe from me, I don't know), the fact that she called to cancel shows a great deal of class and good sense; something that I appreciate.  Sure I'm a bit disappointed and my little head is yelling at me, but that's much better than spending a 1/2 hour on the road, show up at the location, and try to get the girl on the phone to see what's up.  NCNS really gets me PO'd.  I just wanted to thank Mellisa for doing the right thing and let me know that she wouldn't be able to make the appointment - very, very refreshing and much appreciated.  Good Girl.