Hey everyone, doesn't it seem like I post on the discussion boards a lot?  
    I've been really trying because according to TER I can not gain access to the "provider only"  boards unless I'm a contributor to the discussion boards often enough.  
Honestly this is hard for me to do, I'm a very careful discreet type of gal & I don't like to talk much....
--Well not casual talk anyway  
       I GUESSS I'm just looking for some well balanced connections with other lovely, providers....
I also have some good ideas to share & would feel better with the privacy that board MUST have.  
So far I have requested 4 times, weeks apart each time. The only time I was give a reason why was after the second request....when I was told to post more on this board. Now I just get a denial.....so I guess I'm asking for everyone's opinion
Should I just give up? Or does anyone have any tip's for me?  
Thanks to all! Keep smiling,  =)  
~Mindy

was once a little nut who held its ground."--Unknown

How do other providers gain access, since as far as I can tell there is only about a dozen that post regularly.

Take it easy.  Put in a word or two on what others post by way of replies.  Doesn't have to be clever or attention-getting.  Just two cents worth.  Say if there's a post where a guy asks if women prefer a clean-shaven pubic area (a topic that reoccurs about every 8 weeks), drop a post that says "Yep, prefer it clean" or "Either way fine with me."   Or on the days when providers post pix, give a boost to one of them and reply to their pic with "You look lovely." or "If I had a dick, looking at that would make it hard."  Just show a presence.   Your reply on the bra post was a perfect example.  It'll be easy, sweetie.

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I enjoy reading your posts. You seem honest and sincere, and add a good perspective to the board.

do..... they use providers username and password to access PO bd.    IMO, you're not missing anything,   I've been told.     Been told, one can not tell if you're talking with a provider or guy using some other means.

A couple weeks back I had a whole lot going on in my personal life. Your PM was very long with some very nice things to say
In fact I'm not sure that you requested anything of me directly but I remember something about "I'm not within your realm of things to do right now." I'm so sorry not to have replied but I read & answer all my my own messages myself and if someone is not direct with what they are wanting once it a while a couple may slip thru the cracks. I do think you should not have announced to everyone reading the board that you didn't get a response, it would have been much nicer to reach out  in a personal message one more time first.  I wish you nothing but the best feel free to pm again-if you want-
Have a great day =)

Thank you for the kind, encouraging words. Great ideas! I will do that =)

wrong thread   opps!

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Well, at least you have a chance of being allowed on the provider boards. I'm not allowed on there ever because, months ago, I had my screener log into my TER account (for appointment booking) from another IP.

Oh he's harmless, unless you're severely allergic to tree nuts( including coconuts) like I am because then he'll almost kill you and make fun of it in his review . LOL!!  

There's nothing remarkable about most of the discussions here; it is just day to day stuff.

They gave me that excuse the 2nd time around! & I was among Top 10 posters @ 1 time too!

And, I'm still trying!!! Erg!