Well, every provider is a little different. I think when it comes to age preference , I think most providers prefer men that are older because they know there's less chance for bullshit to happen but I guess it depends on how much older you are. If you're 35-60, you should be in any providers wheelhouse. If your over 60, I would aim for older pros unless you know she cool with your age.

I won’t sugar coat this to please the modern paradigm.

They aren’t chicks with dicks, they are dudes with tits.

They probably prefer younger partners just like the majority of men do.