Well,I've tried to give my last review.I've been a hobbyist for about two tears now and have seen a lot of girls,some good,some bad.My first attempt they said ,in so many words, that I didn't talk dirty or disrespectful enough.the next time they said I had the wrong address on the ad.Now they just rejected my final attempt.I will never try again.So if I miss out on a few lovely ladies because they can't find my reviews,so be it.I have too much respect for these ladies to talk the way the powers that be at ter want me to anyway.

I know exactly how you feel.  It was difficult to write the naughty details for me too, but most if not all these girls are aware that we respect them.  The ones who don't act respectful, well...you know what happens to them.  

And, they *are* here on TER after all, no?  They know how it works.  If the respect was obvious to the lady, as I'm sure it was, then that should be enough I think.  And there's no rule saying we can't continue the respect after the session.  Again, the ladies here know how TER operates.

Your words are in the case of reviews, merely tools to describe a fictitious event.  A description of a fictitious event does not equal the description of how you feel about a specific provider unless you dedicate some review space to do just that, which is what I tried to do.

To express your concern this way, however says to me at least, volumes of your character and dignity.  And no one wants to tarnish either for themselves.  But even having said that, I think that feeling this way kinda validates theories and labels given to a community like this; i.e. that there's no respect and everyone's just in it for the jollies.  WRONG, WRONG, WRONG!

Not that the people who think/say those things read the board or reviews anyway, but why prove them right even if this is all just 'fantasy'??

I hope I made sense..  :/

just a little, they will accept it. The first ones are a little tough to write for someone who is a true gentleman, but just realize that you don't have to be vulgar or disrespectful. The reviewers who do that, if you read between the lines, are actually reviewing themselves. Just use a few acronyms, and a little more descriptive text, and your review will be approved, and my guess is that the lady will like and appreciate it.

till you see my next thread. Hopefully it will be enlightening to you gentlemen and lend insight.  As well as confuse the hell out of you.  But hey.....do you know a woman who doesn't confuse the hell out of you at times?

~wry grin~

you bring honor to the phrase 'true gentleman.'

And I've seen reviews where the "juicy details" section is literally five sentences long. Go figure.

Have you considered examining the writing style of someone whose reviews are similar to the way you would like to write and see if you can use some of their techniques to get your reviews to pass muster?

Welcome to the club!  

Just had a glowing review of a local denied and no it is not my first denial either.  Worst was when a very BAD rip-off review was denied with no explanation after several requests for one.  That provider still pops up from time to time and I have to wonder how many other hobbyists are being ripped off or worse, and yes it was that bad.  

You ladies who want to get good reviews and long for experienced gentlemen clients might want to start asking what's up with TER!