...she seems to be an enigma.
I saw that Beth is listed on P411 (username "ATYOURBECKNCALL" - ya right!) I sent an appointment request. She responded within a few hours confirming the day and time, with instructions to call 30 min B4. The day of, I drove an hour to the general area mentioned in her BP ad. called her 30 min B4 - VM was full. called 3 more times, the last call being at the time of the appointment. 2 and a half hours and 100 miles for nothing.
I noticed her last 2 reviews took a serious dive as well. ~sniff~
...she seems to be an enigma.
yes this is the same!
and i was treated the same for waiting for more than 30 minute and then have to leave due to the look was not even close to what was reviewed
Not that it is makes the experience any less frustrating for you but I have found it good idea to confirm appointments on the day they are scheduled to happen, particularly if you don't have her exact location.
No I didn't. her BP ad had a general location rather than a city name so I figured I had good enough idea of where i was going. And I guess I have more faith in the ladies that are on P411. this is my first ncns from a P411 provider.
So, if I call her before I leave (an hour and a half be fore the appointment) and she doesn't answer and her VM is full, does that mean I shouldn't go?
Unless it was someone I had a lot of confidence in, I wouldn't leave until I got a hold of her and confirmed. In this case with a new provider without much of a track record, I would regard that as too risky.
I guess the way I see it, If I don't leave until I talk to her. And I don't get a hold of her until 30 min before the appointment then there is no way I can make the appointment on time. and then I'm at fault. just my opinion.
If I might make a suggestion, next time in a situation like this tell her you will be coming some distance and say you will contact her the morning of the appointment to confirm. It doesn't guarantee things will work out but it might save you a wasted trip. Another thing I have found helpful is to keep the numbers handy of some providers who might be available on short notice if you do get NCNS'd.
I guess I personally am getting bored with what seems to be weekly complaints about this young lady, (among a few others) & frankly starting to think you get what you ask for, & my empathy is running dry. Additionally. When gals who don't much care about responsible business practices read these posts time & again about the same ladies pulling the same BS over & over, there is not much motivation provided to encourage them to make any changes.
I am a take action type of a person. In this case, I would notify P411. Gina doesn't take kindly to this type of behavior.
Second, & I guess IMHO, most importantly, STOP CALLING LADIES W/ BAD TRACK RECORDS! You'd be amazed at the changes a quiet phone will incite.
Beth is a new provider, and unless I am mistaken there have not been "weekly complaints about this young lady." Seriously, there were NO issues or drama with this lady until today - so exactly what track record was the OP supposed to looking at?
Here are some recent threads mentioning her. I know nothing negative has been written about her; except that she uses someone else's pic, she's older than she advertises and she a bit heavier than expected. Otherwise, some gents have some really good things to say about her.
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=21&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&Search=beth&SearchType=1&DayFrom=45&DayTo=0&MessageID=150964&frmSearch=1#150964
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=21&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&Search=beth&SearchType=1&DayFrom=45&DayTo=0&MessageID=151263&frmSearch=1#151263
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=21&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&Search=beth&SearchType=1&DayFrom=45&DayTo=0&MessageID=151597&frmSearch=1#151597
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=151615&boardID=21&page=#151615
I can cite a variety of complaints regarding NCNS, being excessively late, not being the gal in the pics, ect. The reviews themselves indicate these problems. If I were a hobbyist (thankfully I'm not, hearts out to you guys) & read her reviews alone, I would assume one of several things. She is new & inexperienced, doesn't care, &/or is incredibly disorganized. Next, I would ask myself, "do I have a full day to potentially WASTE" More than likely though, I would drop her into my "Possibly at a later date" bucket, wait for some reviews that show Marked improvement, & find another beauty in the mean time. There are after all a wealth of them to chose from.
My point is not necessarily specific the this young lady. Although based upon her review history, this incident is not surprising to me.
My primary point is I have seen the same complaints repeated over & over about the same gals. They can't keep treating you this way, if you don't schedule with them.
Sorry if I'm sounding harsh. I recognize I can be quite critical in attempting to make a point. "UFFDA" It really is my intention to be helpful. I mean it when I say my heart goes out to you guys. Ok! I'm putting myself in "Time-out" now.
Kisses & safe wishes!
Leann
Hello all,
I guess it's nice to be talked about but I would prefer it not to be in this way.
I have to sincerely apologize to Dr. Bud. The P411 thing is new to me and I don't have a smart phone so emailing is not the best for me. I did forget my phone at home yesterday morning to run some errands. I typically don't work sunday mornings as I am a huge Packers fan but they didn't play yesterday so when I first replied I figured it wouldn't be a problem.
As to all the other comments, I am new at this and with the ter reviews it has been busier for me. I am learning how to balance and schedule. It is difficult though switching from the unreliability of BP callers to a more timely crowd. Communication is important and as I try to make everyone's experience unique and amazing sometimes time or lack there of has become an issue.
Hope this clears some things up for everyone. Much love to all of you I have seen and had the pleasure of sharing time with. ![]()
Now, THERE"S a classy reply from BeautifulBeth. With an apology to Dr. Bud to boot!
I think it's a two-way street of "unreliability" with both BP callers and BP providers.
Time will tell if BeautifulBeth" walks what she talks" (or in this case, writes!)
I'm betting she will turn out to be reliable, drama-free and someone I'll look forward to meeting soon!
Most never do and if they do respond they are defensive and never want to admit to any mistakes on their part. Hopefully, this will just be some growing pains and you will become very successful.
We have all been there & had to live & learn. I too wish you the best of success Beth. You most certainly have the potential to be an excellent provider. The life of a provider can be an incredibly rewarding, fun & exciting experience. Looking forward to seeing more of you in this community.
Safe wishes!
Leann
Too funny. One day, you want her reported to P411, suggest that she doesn't care and that seeing her would be a waste of time, and say that her NCNS isn't surprising given her review history (which has no NCNS in it)
And now...you wish her nothing but the best, you think that all of the sudden she has potential to be excellent and that you just can't WAIT to see her around.
You should have stayed on your time out.
Your post is straight out of the Ron Paul debate textbook. Just make up some facts or exaggerate them and most people will be believe you just because you have been around for 70 years.
Sorry that my location bothered you. What I said was the truth though. Sorry it didn't really work between us as you had expected. Whether you believe it or not, I truly care about everyone that comes through my door and I tried to be gentle..... not enough I guess. Hopefully no hard feelings, none on my end at least.
She admitted to me upon greeting her when I saw her last week that the photos on BP were false but I knew that based on prior reviews. I had not made the connection with her P411 listing until this thread started. Although she states her name is Beth in the P411 descriptive text, the member ID give you no clue of the connection unless you have first discovered her on P411 and click on the links to her reviews.
The photos on P411 are definitely her and I really don't get why she isn't using those on her other ads. She would be doing herself a favor if she put Beth in her member id as well so its easier to search for her there.
Could you supply the link can,t seem to find her ad. Thanks
How do I do what you just said?? I am kind of a technological moron. Also TER finally linked me to my reviews so I can read the full reviews.
I really do want to wait to get better photos and to blur out the face or whatever to post myself on BP. I don't mind more reliable sources to have my photos but I lots of plans for my life. Unfortunately, this area of business won't be legal till I am president lol.