Since I’m in the senior friendly age group…the other day it was cemented into my mind. This happened when I saw a senior living complex and they had a sign outside that said “55 years and older”…damn. I don’t know why I did not see that before…selective vision?

I went over to 411 and looked at all the escorts locally and then just checked “senior friendly”. The amount of escorts that checked the senior box was almost the same as all of the escorts.  

My question is what the heck is senior friendly? Does that just mean she will go on a date with a somewhat older guy? Because, I think that a date between an older guy and a 30 year old are completely different.  Recently I had a date with a younger escort, maybe she thought that I was younger…I don’t know.  I was going to mention to her “look you’re not pulling out a tree stump…take it easy…to start off with.  

When guys get older everything changes…so…I’m not always going to swing for the long ball, every once in a while I’ll lay down a bunt.

Anyone else like to chime in?

I don't know, but I suspect that "Senior Friendly" for most providers who post it is simply an indication that they don't care who or where the money comes from.  For thoughtful providers (and there's no way to know which ones are thoughtful), I take it to mean that they understand the issues that us older gents have and (1) aren't going to laugh or scold us if there are performance problems; and/or (2) understand that extra effort may be required to get to a happy ending.

I imagine there are younger providers who don't really want to fuck grandpa.  But most older providers appreciate older clients.  That doesn't mean they don't want their husbands or boyfriends to be hot young studs, but as for working conditions, older clients are less of a risk.

I suspect younger providers who don't want to see older gents just go radio silent if they suspect the guy is too old.  But I can't recall seeing any ads saying "no old guys."

On the other hand, lots of mature providers have "no guys under 35" type statements in their ads.   So it is pretty clear that "senior friendly" statements in their ads are intended to encourage older guys to contact them and set up a session.

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This is what I have noticed actually for years, if I’m not able to “reach” that point, because of a thousand different reasons…the escort thinks that it is her fault or something similar. Then I got to explain for a while about it’s like a crap shoot. Just about 100% of the time it is not the providers fault…ok ladies

I did hear this, but I’m unsure if it is true. That Viagra can prevent a male orgasm.

Thanks for the response, I kind of figured out what you said. I was thinking when I posted my original, if providers know about how much a guy can “change” when he gets older. He probably will want a completely different date then 20-30 years ago. So, she might have to twerk the experience for him

I’m not asking her to know how to work my portable defibrillator…just kidding… I do not have one

Most older guys are more secure…but like everything else…there’s one in every crowd.  

I have seen some provider ads that will say they do not see men over 50…move on.

If she's going at a pace that's faster than you prefer then ask her to take it easier.  Any escort worth her salt will be fine with that.

Definitely enjoying this post
It’s all about finding the right girl
(And yourself)
The past few months I was pretty down because I just wasn’t enjoying myself. Then I found Grace.  
Our first time my equipment just wouldn’t work and I was getting down on myself. Grace just said are you enjoying yourself. I was and she said don’t worry and enjoy what you do have. Words to live by especially for us old timers.
Thanks Grace

Lol @ selective vision  

For one reason or another, there are ladies who like to exclude entire groups of people from their clientele. It seems the most common basis for doing so are either age (will not see anyone over or under a certain age, under a certain age being the most common) and race.  

You are right in that there are usually different experiences in seeing older men vs younger guys. It seems to be a common perception that follows - many see older clients as more generous, more likely to book longer appointments, and “easier” in terms of physical activity involved. On the other hand, some ladies feel older men are men are actually more work because of possible equipment issues or emotional needs. I’ve also seen it said that ladies like to be attracted to their clients, and feel like they will be turned off by older men.

I don’t really generalize clients and so don’t exclude people based on anything, which is why I checked the box on P411!  

Hey grandpa! Lmao

...dates. Other escorts will chime in on how much they enjoy them, too. It's quite obvious to the public when they see a young fox with a silver fox what's taking place but each shouldn't GAF about what others think and just enjoy themselves. Other men give the Silver Fox an approving look and grin; other women will give disapproving looks at the couple. It gives the couple an adrenaline surge.  

Connection, LOL, Lets be honest, you really meant to say  "As long as there's $$$$".  Will you fuck me for free if we connect?

...is NOT a barrier for meeting them.
It's cut down a lot on the "i'm 65/70/75 etc is that a problem?" issue in initial contact.