I cannot even think of a time when Ive had a man NCNS. It rarely happens. Almost all the guys are super respectful on every level.  Im also not a phone person and that would annoy me as well! If you've been verified, they should not need to go beyond that in my opinion.  I simply send a confirm text the morning of.  And then send a text with the entering details as soon as Im ready for you!  I like to keep it simple for us both.

The thing that got somewhat annoying is that she insisted upon talking to me by phone even before I sent my references and work info.  She explained that she had been burned before by NCNS's or fake guys.  Okay I believed that at the time, and it seemed somewhat reasonable on her part.  Appointment was made two weeks in advance.  In total there were 5 phone calls required (including the 2-call) to get in the door.

Yeah that was kind of dumb in retrospect.  Still that is what she required, and two references.  Now I've heard horror stories of providers resorting to blackmail.  One provider that I saw recently (review pending) told me of a certain provider showing up at the office in a not so nice way.  Wow!

If not paranoid......... Sometimes gals treat the guys as though they are GUILTY until PROVEN innocent!