The is a follow-up on an earlier thread about a ncns with her. since I had written her first review and reported great results I felt I needed to find out for myself and had been planning to see her again anyway. Made an appt for an incall yesterday, reconfirmed about 3 hours prior to the meet (and she confirmed back by txt), made a 2 hour drive and sure enough, ncns for me too. I waited aroung for about and hour, found some shopping to do, etc, and finally gave up. I did however get a text from her a couple of hours later saying she was sorry, but that was after I had texted her again about how po'd I was. Claimed all sorts of bs - "got tied up at the bank" (banks are closed on Sat afternoon), "i wasn't planning to work today anyway and was just doing you a favor". We all know shit happens and things can cause delays or cancellations, but there is no excuse for leaving a guy hanging with no call back or text to at least cancel. When I told her about how her behavior was the talk on TER, her defense was that guys were using her old 213 number and it was this other girl and that girl's pimp causing that trouble. Well, from what I can see, the prior ncns complaint had linked to her new ad which has her new 763 number. And since she did it to me as well from her new number, I don't think there can be any doubt about her being the new ncns queen in town.
It really pisses me off when I do a TOFTT on a new girl and report, accurately, in her first review that she is a good thing and then watch her turn into a total flake. Sorry guys. Its only a theory but I wouldn't be a bit surprised that someone with much deeper pockets than me trumped my date at the last minute. She is the type that would definitely get snatched up by a sugar daddy.
Her is the link to her profile. If anyone still wants to TOFTT and try again, do not use the 213 phone number.
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=166258
Here is her most current BP ad.
http://minneapolis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-brunette-beauty-19/5449758
I can confirm that I used the 763 number. This now a patern.
It really pisses me off when I do a TOFTT on a new girl and report, accurately, in her first review that she is a good thing and then watch her turn into a total flake. Sorry guys. Its only a theory but I wouldn't be a bit surprised that someone with much deeper pockets than me trumped my date at the last minute. She is the type that would definitely get snatched up by a sugar daddy.
Her is the link to her profile. If anyone still wants to TOFTT and try again, do not use the 213 phone number.
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=166258
Here is her most current BP ad.
http://minneapolis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-brunette-beauty-19/5449758
She's definitely not the first girl to make a good first impression and then crash and burn shortly thereafter.
Had a similar experience recently. Contacted a "new girl" on BP and saw her after she convinced me on the phone how real and genuine she was. Had a great first/second date and she told me she couldn't wait to see me again - we were even planning an evening together in the future. I even brought her some nice gifts and tipped her the second visit. Guess what happened when we scheduled my 3rd visit?
I am sure what happened to you also happened to me...It's called the "better offer" syndrome. I just chalked it up as a great lessoned learned and moved on. I recommend yourself doing the same.
Some girls get overwhelmed by the response when they make a good first impression and then don't know how to properly handle the attention and keep their scheduling straight. Then crap like this happens. Some will get a handle on it after a while and some won't. I'm not defending such behavior; I'm just saying it does happen. Maybe she will realize she is screwing up and if she does and fixes it, I'm all for giving people second chances. If not, as you say we just move on to someone else.
is there a time gap in them. This might indicate this issue. Some providers can only be reached by phone and it can be difficult to reach them. But this is their way to manage their time. It can be frustrating for the hobbyist, but this is their way of politely saying no. I think we're seeing that the worst thing a provider can do is commit to something and then not be able to honor the commitment.
I don't even mind if they can't honor their commitment, but, cripes, just pick up the phone and let us know ahead of time so we don't all waste a lot of time. It'll go a long ways towards getting another call someday.
that would require keeping some sort of appointment book with some sort of reference to a name and phone number. For those who actually do keep some sort of appointment book, the more experienced providers have developed their own codified recording scheme in order to maintain client confidentiality and avoid any actual name and number records. I think however there are many ladies who simply do not bother to remember appointments and that is why they simply tell the guys to call 30 minutes prior to reconfirm. there is in reality NO appointment. So you can imagine how easy it is for guys to get double booked and also why there are no call backs.
and timing is everything. The good news is that there are other ladies you can call and try the no answer one again some other time. If you are in the middle of a paid for session do you want her to answer the damn phone in the middle? The good, smart ones turn their cell phones off during sessions. There are ladies that organize their sessions by e-mail or pay someone to organize for them but their rate is higher. If you're OK paying more, contact these ones.
I caught her during the same kind of crap in her biginning stages. She told me the money came so easy and she would make appointments with good intentions of keeping them. The problem was the money was burning a hole in her pocket and she got urges to go shopping and spoil herself. She got a bad rep and the easy money stopped and it took months to improve her image, she thanked her good looks and new guys little heads to jump starting her a second and 3rd time before she finally got the message.
All part of the growing pains of women and men in this game of fast money and hot women.
To your point, it is amazing what we will do (and put up with) to be with young hotties. I , for one, are guilty of this. I read NCNS posts on this brd and think it won't happed to me.
Seems like the hotter they are and the easier the $, time management/NCNS issues come into play.
when I wanted to be the first to get to see a new girl. The thrill of teaching and seeing the expression on her face for her first pay for play encounter. Man ya have to put up with a LOT of shit to be first in line!
But.. I can count a handful of occasions where the experience made all the rest worth while! Both in pay for play and that lady straying from her hubby the first time!
Add me to the list. Contacted her and she seemed so nice. I thought I would give her a chance to redeem herself. I drove up to her place to see her get in a van full of pimps. Another lady answered the phone and offered up herself, saying Mz. Devine just left for Rochester. I declined.