1. Outcall to my townhome. Live in a very big townhome complex, driveway shared by 4 units. I have two extremely nosy neighbors. I go out of my way to mention, dress like you are going to Target. See Daisy.
2. Hotel outcall, same, dress like you are going shopping or chilling. OR dress like sporty spice. What you would wear going to Yoga. Carry a yoga mat, duffel bag and the preverbal water bottle to stay well hydrated. Love peeling off leggings.
3. OK, I have not done this, but I want to. Turn up the volume. Go out for dinner and drinks, wear the most revealing outfit she owns. I want them to stop traffic, turn dudes heads and cause women to point her out, then start whispering. Would cut a hole in my front pants pocket, so she can play with my junk during dinner and drinks she would have no panties on, duh. Want to make a scene, bit of danger mouse and exhibitionist. Then back to the hotel, for window sex. Window sex in a high-rise is something I have done a quite few times with GF's and providers.
In Vegas, it is a uniform. She who shows the most skin wins.
Here is the big cavoite; I am single, no dependents and a transplant, that does not know that many people. The chances of running into someone I know is slim to none. Go to places they would never go and I don't give fuck.
Acknowledging discretion and anonymity are the cornerstone of this thing we do. Number 3 is just a unfulfilled fantasy.
Agree totally that providers should know better. Just in case, I always spell it out as in 1 and 2.