So on Friday I had setup a massage appointment with a woman I had seen before. She wanted me to call 2 hours before our appointment to confirm - which I did and no answer and her voicemail is full. (I hate that!) So I call every 15 minutes after that and no answer - no answer - no answer. Time to move on and I get in touch with someone else that sounds very nice and accomadating on the phone and we set something up for mid afternoon.She gives me her address and tells me to call when I arrive and she will let me in. I arrive on time and call and..... yup no answer. I try three more times to no avail but at least with this one I can leave a message to convey my displeasure. As I am making my way home - 30 min - I get a text saying that she went over her last appoinmnet and I could come up now. Riiiiiight. Oh well today is another day!

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brutal.

Feelin' your pain...  

Must be something in the air 'cause I drove to 3 different appointments yesterday and got stood up my all 3.  4th call was totally random from BP, but she was available and on time!  

I got the 'come hither' texts too and simply replied that I had already seen someone else while I was waiting to hear back.  

Sucks...

In all the years that I have been practicing massage, both therapeutic and erotic, I have never, ever been in a situation in which I ignored a scheduled client.
I've never booked people so close to each other that one session running over would lead me to knock another session back.

I have heard other tales from guys who have experienced much worse than that.  Why are the ladies who do these things still getting business???  

In a bout of frustrated honesty myself, I want to know...
For the massage ladies like myself (and I can name a few others) who are professional, consistent, discrete, sexy, and affordable...
How hard do we have to advertise??
What do I need to do to get your business???

While I had two very wonderful and stimulating and satisfying sessions yesterday, I also had most of my afternoon free.  I enjoyed the art fair at St. Anthony Main, but I definitely would have enjoyed meeting you much more.  

And you would have had a deep, penetrating, sensual and stimulating massage with an explosive ending and more in a private, upscale, discrete and convenient location.  

Anyway...  Just curious, I guess and I hope the rest of the weekend goes better for you.

Anna Karess

Must be something in the water.  I had a 9:30am Friday appt, confirmed the night before.  She said call when you're on the way and if she doesn't pick up it's cuz she's in the shower getting ready.  I called on my way and sure enough she didn't pick up.  Silly me, I kept on truckin.  Got to the sw burb area she gave me (40 minute drive) and called again...no answer.  9:30 came and went, called again, no answer.  Hasn't answered her phone since.  I did leave a thank you very much for being so considerate voicemail.

The only reason I have not seen you is because of your rate of $250 for the hour for a massage. I only do massage and that seems like it is a bit high for an hour massage from my experience.

It happens to us on the other side , too.
You poor guys! You deserve better than that. Even if an appt doesn't work, most guys are good about calling and letting me know. It has been a long, long while since I have had an ncns.
I hope you guys get some relaxation today, it is your special day, even if you are not a dad!

I don't understand what is up with some of these ladies either.
I'm totally with A. on that question.
How do those people stay in business?

When I'm out of town, I can't always answer my phone because of connectivity issues where I reside but, never the less I always have someone there to handle things for me.
I have CXL on short notice before, due to emergency
But NEVER No showed someone, that's uncalled for.

I don't charge $$$ for a traditional gentlemen's Massage either.

I know that it happens to the other side but I have never done that nor would I. I was just relating what happened to me yesterday. BTW - why the alias?

I think all of us who have been here for a while know the ladies have these problems too.  However, the only way it would give me any slight satisfaction would be to know that it happened to the escort who NCNS'd me, not you or some other one who is simply another victim of other people's poor behavior.

I agree with Hardy.

Great point.

I think you're running into girls who say "yes, 1pm is great" to EVERYONE.  First person in, gets lucky.  The rest drive around endlessly.

A number/tag machine outside the door would be helpful.  That way, you get there and if you're number 11, you know you have a 5.5 hour wait.  Go catch a Twins game I guess.

You see that what you get in a 250 session is way WAAAAAAYYYYYYY more than just a gentleman's massage.
So, what Hardy is saying.....  All he wants is a typical massage with quick ending.
Or he wants the thrill of only paying for a massage but getting oh so much more when the girl is willing.

I played that game back in my early days.  I only charged 80 to 150.  But the sessions were turning into full out romps.  
So I learned the hard way that lots of guys... maybe not you fine upstanding gentlemen here...

But lot's of guys claim they only want massage but really when you get them on the table they keep touching, pressuring, needling, wanting more.  It became obvious that the massage was only an excuse for them to get in the door.. some thing they were able to tell themselves in order to justify what they really wanted.

Not to worry though, this is all still a learning game.  

I guess I just wanted you to know that when you choose me (and other consistent ladies I know)  you're not only paying for a certain service.  You are paying for a level of professionalism, a garauntee of satisfaction, never an NCNS.  You won't find somebody coming on the board complaining that they scheduled with me and had to wait 15 min in the parking lot trying to get a hold of me.  

And of course, like always, you get what you pay for.  And if you want to spend your Saturdays chasing tail with out any satisfaction, then that's your choice.  I was just wondering why you were choosing that route.

And she can come out every half hour so and announce through a speaker "now serving number xx?"

LOL, I'm laughing but sometimes the frustrations of real life can be funny, or laughing at them can be about the only way to deal with it. The take a number is almost how it seems sometimes.

What really ticks me off is the dishonesty. If you double booked because you think you can, or whatever reason you have..... Don't tell me blab blab blaw when you are in there with another client who is getting rushed through so you can get my money for a rush service as well.

Truth is we can bitch all we want but it is something that will continue to happen as long as there are people involved in this with no concern about anything other than making a quick buck.

And us guys are suckers for these young little hotties so they get away with it, for a while.

Fortunately the cream rises to the top slowly but surely.

Anna is pretty creamy

BN

I have always behaved as a gentleman and have had some truely special and fullfilling sessions for $150 + encounters. Overpaying for a service does not make it better.

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Well said MsA! Yes, bargain hunters still slip in the door from time to time but not like it was in the beginning. Screening and a professional detailed website tend to weed those guys out...most of the time.

I don't know what type of massage style you are looking for Hardy. The massage world is vast with regard to extras. I'm sorry we weren't able to hook up over the weekend. One of these days, the stars will align and I'll find you on my massage table naked.

xoxo Di

I'm soory too. You are correct - someday the stars will align! I am looking forward to it!

I am considering offering massage but I bow to the ladies who do them daily.....they are goddesses!
AND there I was....all weekend alone.

NEVER a NSNC with S. RED.

You are always on time even if you have to drive 2 1/2 hours to meet me.

Not singling out you or anyone else.

Had it happen to me before I knew how to use this forum.  My ? why no names.  Isn"t this soap box meant to help people make informed choices?

For the price of a piece of coal my dear.

It takes an enormous amount of work and $$$ to provide an excellent location, amazing environment (think total immersion, surround-sound, etc), highest quality oils, training/education, a shower for your convenience, not to mention a light enough schedule to not rush through each session.

She could steal a digital number display like at the DMV and stick it in the window.  A little more discreet don't you think?

But that would be illegal!

Fantastic idea.....Like at the deli.
Thanks for the laugh.

Illegal!?!  

Why would you want to do that when Sam's club or Costco has 'em cheap?  You can get bulk "supplies" there too and save a trip!

Hardy did try to book with people that he knew and trusted FIRST, this I know for a fact.

I've seen Hardy several times for massage only and he couldn't be more of a gentleman if he tried.  

On Annas comment, I know EXACTLY where she is coming from as well.  If they were all like Hardy, that comment would never have slipped through her gorgeous lips. Alas, the Hardys (guys who truely do enjoy just massage with a special ending and are gentlemen about it) are few and far between sometimes.

As Diana said, having a professional website and a bit higher of an honorarium will help to weed out the men who expect a diamond for the price of a lump of coal (love that line pythia!).  

As for Hardy, I hope to see you very soon as it always makes my day when I do!

XO
CG

awwwwwwwwwwww - i'm blushing. thanks!

Welcome to McProvider's, may I take your order?

I'd like a happy deal BBBJTCNQNS with a side of anal please, but whatever you do, don't super size my order.