I have had two LTRs with that.
The first, we were together for a year. She finally met a guy and they moved in together. She continues to work some on the side but--her intimacy is for him and that is a good thing.
We have often discussed the GFE experience. I have never thought it was literal, because do you really want the complete GFE experience?
Well, I can't review clients, but there would be MANY who really mean it when they want the GFE experience.
I could show up without make up, in tears, and needing a shower, and they'd love me anyway. That has come with time. There aren't really GFE experiences right up front. You don't get it with the first session. It takes time to develop.
That being said, when I do want to cry and I am feeling the love, it just makes me want to love back harder, stronger, deeper.
Humanity at its finest 
Thank you guys (and quite a few ladies, as well) for your "GFE" experience!
ooxx,
Trinity
I have had two LTRs with that.
The first, we were together for a year. She finally met a guy and they moved in together. She continues to work some on the side but--her intimacy is for him and that is a good thing.
The second, I see twice a month for more than a year. We don't need to dress up. The sessions are as hot as ever. We know eachothers background stories. I see people between the times I see her and she has active client lists. Jealousy and drama are not part of it. We just enjoy eachother.
Hobbyland can be a nice place for human beings. The sad and brutal parts come from the attitudes people won't let go of. No one here is in a position to claim the moral high ground over any of the honest providers.
I understand and agree with the idea that "dressing up" is really not necessary.
The first, we were together for a year. She finally met a guy and they moved in together. She continues to work some on the side but--her intimacy is for him and that is a good thing.
The second, I see twice a month for more than a year. We don't need to dress up. The sessions are as hot as ever. We know eachothers background stories. I see people between the times I see her and she has active client lists. Jealousy and drama are not part of it. We just enjoy eachother.
Hobbyland can be a nice place for human beings. The sad and brutal parts come from the attitudes people won't let go of. No one here is in a position to claim the moral high ground over any of the honest providers.
I see an ATF usually at least one time per month when our schedules align with the stars I have seen her for over a year now. Sometimes scheduling is difficult. We both have very busy schedules. We have shared some very private moments over the past year. She knows my back story and I know most of hers. On one visit we were discussing something and she teared up. It made me feel even closer to her. When I got ready to leave she held me ever closer...like she didn't want me to go. It really touched me. I am happily married and so is she. Neither one of us are looking for any drama etc. She meets my needs and I hope I might in some small way meet some of hers. We are lovers when we meet and friends when we part. Nothing more...nothing less. That is the way it should be. I trust her and she trusts me.
I guarantee you meet her needs, as well. To have that connection ability is a beautiful thing, and there are a lot of us that aren't just putting on a show. You obviously have one of those
Trinity, so many kudo's to you for sharing and giving the real you! For me, "putting on a show" is something I can not do- its me and sometimes , not often , but the other party is not into making a connection- its still all good, because I am still going to be just me and give my best. Maybe they won't return, but then it was not meant to be. I hope hobbyists understand that a good provider/woman gives a piece of herself with every meeting and one that intimate and sharing just serves to replenish the heart and soul and so thankful for the hot, love em up , gentlemen that fit into this category! Great post as always! J.xoxxo
for better or worse, in sickness and in health. I can do that without crowding you or possessing you. the last time I was with you I remember saying "we are a part of each other now". That is what it is all about. It is not about looks or sex it is the gift of self to another human being, for no reason other than because we are here together to help and care for each other. When we allow each other inside we take risk and most times it does not amount to much but when it does there is no way to value it, it is priceless.
You are very special, I wonder if you even know how special. You take great risk to add kindness and love to the world. Your menu is limited but your heart is not. your reviews and the loyalty of those of us who love you is immeasurable. the reason we want the GFE is because it is you. "with silver bracelets on your wrist and flowers in your hair".
I hope you will always be you, anything less would be a sad thing.
PS for the wife beaters and pussy renters; don't trouble yourself trying to understand my sappy flower child missive, My sadness for you is unless you are open to the risk you will not know.
I love you too, Sweetheart, and my heart is very open. It's a wonderful thing to see people you love have a smile on their face because of the connection you share.
This is the most beautiful thing that can, and DOES, come out of this hobby every day!
I think the pussy renters should steer clear of me, because I'm not going to make them very happy.
most of the junk on this board is negative. It is about stealing a watch or NSNC "AGAIN" guys pick a topic that they do not agree on and address each other as 'asshole'. the ladies can be sharp tongued in kind.
If it is Trinity the words are love and kindness. It is about giving of self and caring for people. You know this so I wrote it publicly in the hope that who you are becomes contagious. Your energy has benefited so many but not just you, it is Elan and Victoria and others who's name I may not know. I would even include the 4th Musketeer in her day plus many others I have met that do not know you who understand. Many wonderful people on both sides and sadly many who are not. I hope the jerks stay away from all of the wonderful ladies because like most beautiful things they can be fragile.
to the ladies; seek to be like Trinity in the way she cares for others. That and protect yourself. Not every guy deserves your kind touch. check references, see only kind men who appreciate you.
Because I'm real world honest, and never hide behind alias.
Totally kidding, but I have my snarky side, too :P
... is the mutual experience of licking the salty tears and drinking them down and tasting them on the lips together.
Intimacy is certainly present and the heart sweetly wide open and wounds licked and healing...
Lovely way to find tears turning from tears that come from wounds and turn into, in just so many moments passing between us, tears of joy, in the sharing.
Yes!
But is this GFE or BFE or just plain incredible intimacy in being human together.. a moment of pure and simple recognition of humanity alive in me and alive in you now?
GFE and BFE are acronyms that lose meaning and are left in the dust as I lick tears with you... there is nothing, no label here anymore... just a raw and naked sweetness, nothing more.
I can be myself--whatever that is that day-- with you. It is a beautiful thing. I saw one of our mutual clients yesterday, and it was very sweet to watch his face as he talked about his amazing experience with you.
I love being in this with you together...
y it is only you who could invite and welcome my first entry into this world.
I have a favorite lady whom I only see once in awhile when she is touring. I actually miss being with her, just in her company, talking, etc. I was married a couple times and I don't miss my exes at all. LOL
I've had a few clients cry with me. So, yes, you can! It's only fair to go both ways!
ooxx,
Trinity
Trinity I believe in life you always get more then you give. Because of the person you are, and how much you give of yourself ,the love you feel from those of us who have had the joy and pleasure of knowing you is real. I feel privileged and honored to be part of the group that thinks of you as more then GFE....you're a friend.
I'd like to respond to YOU in person... Ahh, if only I could review you
That review might be a very entertaining read, 50 shades of................??
The kind of trust and loyalty that allows that kind of openness takes time to develop. The type of friendship that makes time spent together that much more sweet.
I originally got into this hobby to fill a sensual and sexual void in my life. With you Trinity, I have been able to do that, but so much more. Your willingness to open your heart, to provide a safe environment to express myself honestly and to support me in difficult times have been a true GFE experience. To connect with you at this level has been nothing short of amazing.
Those whose lives you touch take those experiences out into the world, reflecting and amplifying their impact, like ripples on a pond.
You make the world a better place