I've noted that a lot of reviewers note "good/great eye contact" during the BJ they're receiving. Does it really make much of a difference for most guys? I've got nothing against eye contact during a blow job but it doesn't seem to add much to my enjoyment. To the contrary, it sometimes feels like I'm supposed to be providing some feedback during the eye contact but I'd much rather just enjoy the moment. Your thoughts?

i find it very sexy for a beautiful woman to look up at me while she is pleasuring me.  It's not necessary but to me it indicates that she is having fun and is not going through the motions of lets start things off with just another bj.

I've used the line (more than once), "Hey, you've done this before haven't you?"

Possible i've seen one too many pornos also lol. I'm a visual person. I love seeing how a man is reacting to my french lol and some men are quiet during oral so it's fun to catch him with his head tilted back & his mouth is wide open while he plays with his own nipples....mmmm......I forgot what the rest of my point was lol.

But um yeah no you don't have to give feedback if she's trying to make eye contact with you lol and if eye contact or too much bothers you maybe I dunno let the lady know.  Like "yeah I'm not a fan of all the eye contact during oral kind of guy" lol wouldn't bother me a bit.

Don't you think that the eye contact is intended more to increase your pleasure rather than hers?  On the other hand, it's likely helpful to her to read your face to see if you're having pleasure.

but you can smile back at her, talk dirty to her or crack a joke or two.

Blowjobs are like DATY, every guy likes it done in a different way. With eye contact, she might be looking for an indication that you are enjoying the experience and approve of what she is doing. If you don't, speak up and let her know how you like your blow job.

i really don't know DickCurious.    all i do know for sure is that i love getting bj's, period.

I feel the same way as bickcurious. Always thought it's providers way to read you to find the technique that you like.  For me if the lady hits the technique then my eyes are closed waiting for happy ending.  If her skills are not working I look hoping it will get me going in addition to sudel instruction of course.

And at some point a really good feels so good I have no idea if she is looking at me or not!

when we are doing it, to have intense eye contact all the way through to the climax.  I love that.

Same for me.I'd rather that we both keep our eyes closed.

Had a GF many years ago actually demand either lights off, or worse in daytime she put the pillow/blanket over my head because she hated the idea I could be watching. Have not been with that many providers, but to date none have been all that great to begin with. No I don't care for the "eye contact" and could do without it. FYI girls, need to kind of pay attention some, if the guy is not needing that, then don't do it. Had someone who was the complete opposite, and let's say it was just annoying.

I think women who do this are turned on by it, too.
It's OK to break eye contact from time to time, tho.