How much is made up BS? I seriously doubt some of the claims that are made by some of these agencies/girls in regards to education etc. Granted, I'm sure there may be some truth but how do you separate the truth from the BS. Why make choices based un unsubstatntiated claims.
How many guys really care about the favorite foods,favorite movie, or actors of a provider? Do you care about their dreams or how smart they say they are.
Looking at the Viva ad below, I go straight to the price and picture. If I want an appointment I would look at the requirements and thats really about it. Do we really need to know that so and so would like to look into George Clooney's eyes at dinner?
I could have written this thread. You've just moved WAY up on my "to do" list.
For some of us, 2late, it's NOT just about the sex act, it's engaging in an a relationship, if only for a few hours. These details may seem trivial, but they do leave some insight into what is going on in the other person's mind. In short, I care because I need to "click" at a higher level than just physical.
To quote John Travolta (Vinvent Vega) from "Pulp Fiction": "I've given a million ladies a million foot massages, and they all meant something."
How much is made up BS? I seriously doubt some of the claims that are made by some of these agencies/girls in regards to education etc. Granted, I'm sure there may be some truth but how do you separate the truth from the BS. Why make choices based un unsubstatntiated claims.
True, but the pictures could be fake/enhanced as well. I just have to believe that at least 51% is accurate, which makes my using these insights better than ignoring them.
If they want to let me know beforehand what some of their interests are, that's fine; it may make it easier during the downtime to find things to talk about. But at least for me it's not likely to be a much of a factor in my deciding who I want to see.
I never said it was THE factor, but in this community of so many viable choices, I'm going with the ladies I stand the best chance of "clicking with". The more insight I can garner on that, the better!
I was actually replying to 2Late. Don't get me wrong; it's very nice when you "click" with the escort and really enjoy the down time with her but for me it is not a big factor in choosing whether or not to see someone. However, someone with a charming personality whom I just enjoying being with is someone I will likely go back to see,
Every now and then something is listed that peaks my interest. Even with the local ladies, I prefer the ones who invite me to a fantasy that is about more than just the sexual act.
Like what? Perhaps I can accommodate you. My pics are real. I am for real.
If you are seeking latter ... then definitely skip Bio, About, Interests, etc
If you are seeking former .. then all that information becomes amazingly relevant.
Lina
Well I am not as well studied in the sidelight of hobbying as the poster but it is fairly important for me to know what my next date likes and dislikes. I like to provide little gifts that are indigenous to those likes and have conversations that are at least somewhat appropriate to them also. For the life of me I can't figure out why a provider would lie or fabricate those likes and dislikes. Believe it or not...it definately gives some hints to the personality of the provider. For those who think it is nonsense...just pay no attention!
I agree, I could care less "what her favorite wine" or "TV show is". Yes, it would be nice if she was somewhat eduacated so we could click but that is not really why I am spending my hard earned dollar on her. What is important is her pictures accurately reflect (no touch ups) what she really looks like.
I also go straight to the pictures and then price. My advice to agencies when they market their gals is more accurate pictures (no touch ups) and less verbiage. I skip ads that are full text and few pictures. If I want to connect at a personal level I will just go to Yahoo personals and find my match. Ladies, sorry for the bluntness and alias but it is true.
What's important to me (in order) is:
1. Looks
2. Looks
3. Price
It may be true for you..but not for everyone.
I've clicked, or thought I did, with a few of girls that I knew nothing about. I chose to see them based on their pictures, price, and services offered. Noting more.
It's very important to know that she would like to look into George Clooneys eyes at dinner. I would never leave a providers incall without having memorized her favorite food or actor. I'd also make sure I find out her cat's name, how she feels about her mother, and what her ideal pair of shoes would look like so we can talk about it at length!
Afterall, she's paying me thr...oh wait...nevermind...turns out I really don't give a shit. Imagine that.
I find the personal information about likes etc interesting. I am more apt to answer an ad that has that information.
I also never answer ads with many misspellings, excessive slang etc.
Maybe if I ever found them to be interested in anything interesting, I'd be interested. *say that five times fast*
It's always the same - 'I like movies, music, shopping, exotic travel destinations and fine dining blah blah' - no shit. You and every other estrogen filled being on the planet. And I like bubble gum, so what. Watermelon flavored, since you were all dying to know.
Either we see that scripted fluff over and over again because A. She really does lack any depth, or B. She believes that most of us don't give a fuck, or C. She thinks WE all lack any depth.
Let me find one whose interests include researching proper scientific nomenclature for the purpose of taxonomic classification of rare genus', and I might say, wow, she sounds interesting. But I'm still not going to book an appointment with her if she's a goblin in a skirt.
If her interests are limited to shoes and celebrity gossip, I'm cool with that. I'm only bringing an envelope, not a princess-cut diamond ring.
You must crack yourself up.
Look, from an experienced provider's standpoint I can certainly understand why there are some who are not at all interested in my personal likes or dislikes. Understood. No problem. Maybe we should then dispense with any kind of description of ourselves that might attract the type of gentlemen we know we will click with? Which might just result in (God forbid) both of us having a good time? For some of us it is not all about the Benjamins and for some gentlemen (I am guessing I have a little more experience at this than you) it is not all about the sex.
Choose who you like for whatever reasons you like. But don't slam the providers who make an effort to give some insight to who they are in the hopes of attracting a client they enjoy as well. I like what I do because I can be as selective as you.
I'm sure I crack someone up, but not I, said the Irish guy. SoftSnow, meet LIP - devil's advocate.
It's not like anything useful ever comes of threads like these. Just a bunch of people trying to wax philosophical with their opinions that never change anyone else's mind. So excuse me if I kick some shit. Actually, I could give a fuck if you like it or not.
So don't take yourself so seriously, miss Alias. I'm guessing "can take a joke" is not listed in your bio.
I really don't care what an experienced provider you claim to be. Doesn't make you smart, intuitive, or correct. Maybe you are, but don't give me that wise-old-owl bullshit like it means anything. This guy named Dan Quayle was an experienced politician and...no comment.
I haven't begun to "slam" anyone yet. The fact that you think so only verifies my previous statement - you read too much into this board banter. Lighten up.
What I said, in fact, is that the majority of those auto-biographical ramblings you refer to as "insight to who they are" are but stat-quo fluff to take up space on a page. It's marketing and most of it is half-assed. Not that it really matters, because that is not what really sells.
It would be unfortunate to think that all of you were as simple as the e.g. in my second post to this thread. I don't think that, for the record, yet still - page after page reads that way and ultimately tells us little or nothing of use. And because they do, I lack interest in them. So oooohhh, scuz. I know, right? What a vile thing for me to say!
Yeah, it's nice when you "click". In my last review I detailed just such an experience, lots of that highly coveted 'clicking' going on in that session. It sure as shit didn't have anything to do with her bio, which is about as useless as an Irishman at bar closing for gaining any "insight" into her personality. I just got lucky, and that's about all we can hope for no matter what the last review said about girl X. It's also all you can hope for, if genuine chemistry is really as important to you as you let on.
Yes, I know, I know, it's not all about the benjamins, though I doubt you'll repeat that line for the next guy who asks for your free time. And of course it's not all about sex to every client, yet somehow they always seem to end up with their cock hanging out. Are we really going to argue about these trivial details?
If you really think price, pics, and services rendered aren't first and formost to 99.9% of future clientelle, then I say ignorance is bliss. Nearly everyone who does read about your love of animals and fine wine is doing so as an after thought. I don't care if your bio reads like a facsimile of your next clients bucket list - if he doesn't wanna fuck you, your phone will not ring. Let's not pretend otherwise.
Disagree if you like, I have no problem with you fooling yourself.
Great! We agree. I certainly have no problem with you fooling yourself either and your rant also does not make you smart, intuitive or correct. For the record, I never stated that I do not think that price, pics and services aren't foremost. But they also are not exclusive to how many make decisions about who they choose to see. You are expressing an opinion, not stating facts.
Speaking of ramblings, arguing trivial details, lack of humor and taking yourself too seriously...chill out sweetie and have a cocktail! What is it our friend Drumsticks always says? "Relax, it's just sex!"
(And you're wrong--I love a good joke. You're the best one I've read all day!)
Lady, can you read? I'm IRISH - I'm already having a cocktail! Now take your own advice, have a drink...and be sure to crush up one of your Valium and pour it in.
It was you who began this back and forth when a trivial post made entirely in jest caused you to shit a brick. Clever response by the way, I-know-you-are-but-what-am-I is a classic. To that I say, double doo-doo on you. 
for bescumbering us all with your sharp wit and persuasive rhetoric. I am sure you've convinced many.
Having the last word doesn't win the argument dearie, but by all means, take it. In the meantime, you can enjoy a good laugh at all the gentlemen who are so foolish as to believe anything that the ladies write about themselves...or the reviews written about them. You certainly are not that naive. Good for you! I would imagine that any provider who researches her potential clients via their posts or reviews will give anything you write a second thought as well.
Hugs and kisses baby and have a great night!
But haven't you advised not to believe what you read? Now which should I take seriously--the Irish part? Lucky? Or Prick?
Fable of the Porcupine
It was the coldest winter ever. Many animals died because of the cold. The porcupines, realizing the situation, decided to group together. This way they covered and protected themselves; but the quills of each one wounded their closest companions, even though they gave off heat to each other. After awhile, they decided to distance themselves one from the other and they began to die, alone and frozen. So they had to make a choice: either accept the quills of their companions or disappear from the Earth. Wisely, they decided to go back to being together. This way they learned to live with the little wounds that were caused by the close relationship with their companion, but the most important part of it was the heat that came from the others. This way they were able to survive. The best relationship is not the one that brings together perfect people, but the best is when each individual learns to live with the imperfections of others and can admire the other person's good qualities.
Moral of the story..........learn to live with the pricks in your life!
Love ya--muah!!
As someone that has experience being a provider, this has been a great thread! There are points well taken from all opinions!
As service providers, we have to look at truths in marketing ourselves, after all male hobbyists are our clients, but its much more than that I think.
It boils down to preferences both sides, what are you looking for? Some men are clearly stating that they look at the photos and price point and it doesn't and it matter the least what the providers interests are. Some hobbyists say they are interested in what the providers interests are so that they have something to connect with and possibly also have ongoing appointments, growing a provider hobbyist friendship.
It also is what boils down to each individual provider and how they want to run their business, each one unique. Of course the bottom line is making a living. Some are looking for a more ongoing regular client who does share some interests and the date may consist of outside activity's like dinners, movies, etc. The main rule for all is to show the real deal in the pictures and if you are going to list interests be truthful about those too.
No one preference above is wrong in this business, JMHO
In regard to one's "grammer" (or "grammar" if you will) spelling, vocabulary, punctuation...who can say?! Hardly an indication of one's intelligence, good sense, propriety (or lack thereof) common sense, or sexual prowess. Definitely not a factor when considering the base instincts involved in a good fuck! Who cares? LOL
LMFAO, just not too loudly! My wife is upstairs.
Afterall, she's paying me thr...oh wait...nevermind...turns out I really don't give a shit. Imagine that.
I like intelligent women who can hold a conversation. I like to take her out to dinner and get to know her a bit. A body with no personality holds no attraction for me.
If all you want is a body, that is your taste. It's not good or bad, it just is. I have mine.
fuck me. Hard, deep and with any sort of passion you can drum up.
Lucky for me I had one today with an awesome guy!
for tiny wee willies. The shame is not yer willy laddie--'tis yer tiny little mind!
I love to click with a lady. It just isn't going to make any difference whether her likes and dislikes are listed. These things should be discovered when you are together not from an ad for sex.
The only ads I am seeing are for "time and companionship". Where do I find these ads for sex that you speak of?
The original question was "How many really care about the favorite foods , favorite movie, or actors of a provider?"
In summary it appears that many do care and to varying degrees.
When given the option of seeing two equally beautiful ladies, the ability to chose between the "Veggieburger-HouseBunny-KeanuReeves" escort and the "BlackenedMahiMahi-PulpFiction-RobertDeNiro" escort can be a valuable deciding factor.
It give me an idea of her interest and intellect, Assuming it's accurate.
At some point during to date I will talk to her. It nice if I know a subject (other than "the hobby") that we have in common. I think conversation is as important as the physical actions. How many average looking ladies get great reviews because they are able to carry on a conversation with their client.
Doesn't mean anyone will pay attention to that though.