entrapment perhaps? all the recent news kills me

I don't mind but why is this happening so much all of the sudden? Two wanted to know if I would like to see them soon and the third was offering a special. R things that slow right now? All three are providers with several reviews. R any of you getting similar texts; is this a new strategy by the ladies. I've got to be honest, I am more likely to see a given provider if she contacts me. I think that I tend to focus on the new lady I can see but when a lady I've seen demonstrates interest in seeing me again, whatever the reason, I tend to go that direction. I made an appt with one of the ladies and am waiting to find out what the special is on for the other.

I did not get any text at all. Damn, why am I so unlucky?

Business always slows down some around the 1st of the month. Most bills come due. Then there's the fact that summer is coming to a close. People are going out of town, winterizing cabins, taking a final summer mini vacation, ect. The increase in LE busts I'm sure plays a role as well. Gents and ladies alike I'm sure are getting more cautious & probably sticking with those they know they are safe with. As far as entrapment, if she has been busted, it's always a possibility. My best advice would be listen to your gut. I personally don't think a provider initiating contact is appropriate behavior. She could be putting you in a bad position. I've said this before & I'll say it again. A provider is the gal you pay to go away. She should always be 100 percent discreet at all times. If she's in a financial bind, that doesn't get to become your problem. Realistically, although you are a real sweetheart, "wink" they are not looking for the pleasure of your company. They need your donations. Hope I'm not sounding too harsh. Please be safe.

XXOO!!
Leann

It is the 1st of the month, and our bills are due as well... When there are troubles in the area it is always easier to see people you already know... Less of a risk... You must be a good guy as well and they enjoy your company....

But are things that slow?? Hmmmmmmmmm.... Here is my take... If I have 2 appt's a week, that is like making 12.50 an hour at a normal job working 40hrs a week.... You can make it on that, just have to budget wisely and not waste money...  As American's 82% of people tend to live beyond their means...

Just my 2cents

is gonna get you kicked out of the 'we work sooooo haaaard for the money' club....

Who said "we work so hard???" ..... Lol.....  I don't work at all, I play!!!!!!!

there are ten negative ones!  
You just encouraged ladies to start texting again!
For every guy who likes getting these texts, there are ten who don't!

The SO might see it.  Someone else in the family might have borrowed your phone.
It might be your work phone and you forgot it somewhere.

It is a slow time of year.  Kids back to school.  Guys vacationing with family.  Maybe the SO was feeling benevolent.  

Ladies-don't send unsolicited text!  Makes all of us look bad and look desperate.
When a guy gets caught, he's out of the hobby.  That's bad for all of us too!

Then you are perfectly free to tell the ladies you see to feel free to contact you like that.  Other guys do not like it for various reasons.  The ladies should be able to distinguish between those who are find with it and those who aren't and only contact the former.

First of all these "lady's" shouldn't be saving your number in the first place.And I think it is the economy that is causing this rash of unwanted calls. Like I've said before on this subject,if the economy is stretching the ladys budget it is also stretching the gentlemans budget.Bottom line is don't call me;I'll call you.I agree it makes the lady in question look desprate at best.I don't see women who unexpectedly call or text me,They go right to the bottom of the line.

I'm the exact opposite. I have a safe hobby phone and appreciate the direct marketing approach.
Getting the text takes the question of "who might be available" out of the equation and you know that the provider was looking for you specifically. I doesn't get any better than that in my book!

That said, it should probable be discussed before a provider goes this route because what worls for me and LDM51560, doesn't work for PaulHarvey88. Know thy customer.

If the wonderful ladies I've been with texted me with that intent, I'd probably say yes 100% of the time.

Them:  "Hey, it's been a long time.  What to get together?"

Me:  "YES!"

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Wow! Some fascinating responses here!  I'm racking my brains to understand what guy would get upset at some hot chick calling him to ask if he would like to see her!?! Personally I would think it was my lucky day!!

I can see where it might cause some sensitive issues if you are out with the missus and kids, but if that's the case, then you were the numbnut to provide that number to her in the first place, no?

As for the terrible economy and difficult times, who cares why she's calling?? She has a simple question: would you like to spend some time with her? Hell yes I would, or sorry, I can't. Case closed, have a nice day. What exactly is in there to get all excised about??

As far as LE, I have yet to hear of an undercover texting sting and even then, your precautions should be no different than what you would normally do.

I say congrats to you if you have SEVERAL ladies texting and requesting time. It shows you have good rapport with them and should consider yourself lucky. No need to overanalyze the issue, be happy you've saved yourself from having to search for your choice let's all quit being so paranoid and self righteous.

I don't do that and have always been told gentlemen prefer not to be contacted...however, if my friends would like me to, please let me know.  I do not keep email addresses and do not use my phone for anything other than details to secure an appointment.  I also generally plan my days ahead because of another career and personal obligations.  However, sometimes I find myself with the luxury of spare time, so perhaps it could work out with friends I have gotten to know (more than one visit.)  Just say the word!

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Forget us we'll be gone very soon. Just forget we ever slept in your room...

Very simple but wise words Leah.

So if you follow that logic, and made good long term financial choices (investments) every time you have 3 or more appointments in a week.... You could rather quickly become independently wealthy. There are some very savey women in this community who have figured it out.... Unfortunately others probably never do.

Is that 82% a real number or one you just pulled out of the air to make your point? I am not doubting it! Many people have a lot of excuses for not being financially secure, but they rarely get to the root of their problem, which is ussually personal choices.

Being truely financially successfull has a lot less to do with how much you earn than with how you budget and invest.

We live in very interesting times. The adversity of this economy is also full of oppertunities. Didn't someone say that recessions make more millionairs than other financial trends?

Well on a lighter note, I am enjoying all the great deals the Ladies are offering! Wish I was 10 years younger!!

I am single,have a safe phone.I just think it's tacky to call unless I tell the lady I don't mind.I have given a couple permission to do so.But I am the buyer.I decide when I want to hobby.I don't spend every waking hour thinking about my next encounter.And when I do decide to hobby,if I don't call someone I already know,I don't mind putting in the effort to do my research.If I don't call a lady back there is a good possibility I have a reason for not calling.Its simply telemarketing and I don't approve,just like I wouldn't like being interupted by an unsolicited call for auto insurance..To each his own.

Wow #2! You consider some girl calling to ask if you'd be interested in a nice private dance session no different than some dumb telemarketer calling about auto insurance??

you are correct buddy.

to each his frikkin own.

We don't pay these girls for sex, we pay them not to call us or count on us calling them.  If I wanted otherwise I would have joined match.com.    

If they aren't hot enough for a guy to want to see them again and initiate things, why does a call or text from them make the difference?

You said it much better than I did oloneeye!

Ya know if guys took the effort to get a "pay as you go" phone and set it to lock up with a password, and keep it turned off and hidden when not alone or in an attmosphere where they can use it, they wouldn'y have to worry. Pretty simple as well.

put on their TER poll. I would be interested in knowing the percentage of men who dont ever wish to be contacted. I never initiate text msgs but I sometime will email someone who has contacted me in the last week or two once Im back in town or available. I like to think emails are more discrete than texting, but I could be wrong. I have never received a complaint for doing this but I would change that tactic in a heart beat if that offends anyone.