Why do you gents like a girl to swallow your load? Just curious, cuz you would think after you cum it's hard to get turned on instantly from watching her swallow your cream? Inform me.  

For me, it is a turn on seeing my cum on her face and or in her mouth. Then watching her swallow is a turn on. Plus its kinky if she snowballs me.

...and the fact that I've already spilled my seed and my erection may be subsiding, I'm still very turned on by my partner performing this very intimate act. It's those emotional engrams that we men often fantasize about when we relive an experience with a lady. A lady can even enhance the sexiness of the act by showing it to us in her mouth before swallowing it, or letting it run out of her mouth and drool down her chin and onto her body. Little acts of love like that can be the little extra sumthun' that makes a guy more likely to come back and see you over seeing someone else.

I’m very fond of oral sex, both giving and receiving, and I have thought about why that is. The purely physical sensations of DATY on an excited woman, after all, could be closely replicated by sticking my face in a pan of lukewarm lasagna. But I still love DATY, especially when the lady communicates she is having fun. There's a real feeling of power and accomplishment when a woman is thrashing about under my ministrations and the thought of throwing a dental dam into the mix leaves me very cold.

I would have to assume you enjoy a man going down on you until you climax . We are in a sense enjoying your "wetness" in much the same way .
Imagine if the man did not enjoy this one specific thing and just as your about to orgasm he pulls away and you either fail to orgasm or its certainly less than what it could have been had he stayed on task and made you wither and scream .
For me I have never CIM with any woman although I really do want to experience it .
For one as we are about to cum our dicks become super sensitive - before ,during and for a few seconds after .
For me it not the fluid and where it ends up . I just want that warm tight mouth to stay on course while she looks me in the eye as I orgasm . It must be an incredible feeling !
It's also a sincere measure of intimacy and unselfish act of pleasing your partner - P4P or civie .
I get completely turned on by pleasing a woman . I keep going until I'm certain she has climaxed and if fluid is involved than so be it - I get off on her complete pleasure !
Just imagine a guy who was FANTASTIC  at eating you out ....
But every single time you get close, he pulls away for fear of your natural sexual juices .
I think it would be pretty irritating myself.
For guys it's kinda the same .....you brought us right to the edge and just abruptly stopped for fear of his cum in your mouth . The "dislike" you have is yours not his and his sexual satisfaction is less than it could be .

Pretty good analogy although there are some holes in it ... First off women are not just like men and no two women or men are the same either.  

my then GF gave me my first BBBJCIMSWLS, and I thought I'd died. It etched an emotional attachment to her that persists.
Today the swallowing aspect doesn't matter to me. It doesn't make or break the deal. Love it when they let me "linger" in their mouth and play with me gently. What I don't like is when a lady jumps away at the moment of truth, as tho the cops have arrived.

I'm not against it, I've dranken loads of my ex lover's cum but to me thats a personal line I won't cross with stranger's. That's why I wonder why guy's like it, what's the big deal if a provider aka stranger drinks your cum. Lady's? Why? I knock noone just curious. Lot's of interesting answers. Still confused on why provider's do it? For scores? Do you really enjoy drinking strangers cum? I'm seriously interested. Not judging

1) Bri - you actually taught me the importance of backing away when she hits the high notes. Seems like an importance lesson and key gender difference.

To me the act of swallowing is very erotic and the shows real intimacy between two people it also feels a he'll of lot better than wearing a raincoat. Although on the providers side I certainly understand why they don't offer that on their menu .I once went out with a gal who told me she once felt cheated when she blew me if I didn't fun in her mouth.Most erotic sex ever was 69 and both cuming simultaneous I still dream about caressing her beautiful breasts and gorgeous assets while I carressed her kitty with my tongue as she engulfed Mr happy with such an appetite then both convulsing together plus no fuss running to the bathroom to get rid of the condoms just relaxing in the after glow. It wasn't a power thing it was two people pleasing each other because of a connection we had. Hard to get that with p4p it seems providers don't care to show that kind of intamicey with a client they usually for some reason hold back.The blow job is usually to get the guy hard so you can fuck and move on with life. Anyway makes wonder who the lucky guy is show a with her now.

I am just happy to come in a woman's mouth.  If she wants to spit it out I am fine with that - I wouldn't like to swallow it myself

Lmao!! Oh hell no. Not very nice of her haha

I don't swallow my client's cum for health matters. Sure some say it's not possible to get a STD from the gent. But truth is you can. And I'm not willing to risk that. My mother is a nurse and filled me in with tons of information when I first started. You can get hepatitis herpes other diseases.  
As can you with a partner but when I'm in a relationship we both get tested every 6 months. I get tested every three months being the business I'm in. Of course I understand I could still catch something but I try to limit that situation and have fun as much as possible.  

As I said I can certainly understand this subject from a providers situation I just wanted to comment on how special it can be from a guy's perspective and the intimacy it requires and I guess I miss it lol

Totally understandable!!

Not me.... prefer a woman to finish me with her hand and spray my load wherever she desires...

Best way I can think of to put it is that she is "keeping" what I just "gave" her.

Many of the everyday foods we consume (especially @ resteraunts) present a greater health hazard than a mans natural semen.

and if a provider will do it, I like it.  It is a fantasy that is enjoyable.  I think it is a little bit of a power thing.
But the "stranger" comment is an interesting one.  If you are a good provider and I want a GF experience (just like you sucking and swallowing your BF's cum) that might include swallowing.  I do enjoy at least a CIM and you can do with it what you want after you "catch" it.

why would you want to have your own cum in your mouth, I hate when girls try to kiss you after they swallow

There is a big difference between ALMOST THERE and actual CLIMAX.  

+1.  The biggest deal for me though, as was mentioned earlier in this thread, is taking both mouth and hands off of Mr. BVT just as he's about to convulse.  What a mood killer!!!  And a sure way to make sure I don't repeat

That's how I feel and I'm sticking to it.

My reviews speak for themselves.   I offer great gfe, to strangers

Understandable, I'm not referring to CIM I'm referring to the swallowing act. My clients see me for me, I spose or my tits lol. But normally are finished via breast or hj or facial. I would hope a provider wouldn't just stop lol.  

I would just like to be able to get to CIM in the first place without a herculean effort.  I must have a mental block on that.  Maybe an ex really hated it and played some psychotherapy tape while I slept creating a mental block on it for me...lol.  I should go see a sex therapist who specializes in CIM and CIMNSNQ without getting desensitized before the finish .

Aww you poor thing!

Posted By: Agnar

I would just like to be able to get to CIM in the first place without a herculean effort.  I must have a mental block on that.  Maybe an ex really hated it and played some psycho-therapy tape while I slept creating a mental block on it for me...lol.  I should go see a sex therapist who specializes in CIM and CIMNSNQ without getting desensitized before the finish .  
   
 

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I don't get any extra thrill knowing someone swallowed, it's purely a physical thing. Just 'catching' it in her mouth is not the same as sucking throughout the climax.

I enjoy the provider doing CIM, as for the swallowing, not sure.  I think for me knowing she swallows my load gives me the false feeling at the time that she enjoys me.  I know, it's silly but at the time during that initmacy it sort of adds to the sensuality of the moment for me.

Includes CIM at a minimum. If you don't swallow, I won't see you. It's that simple. Not how I always finish but the option needs to be there. If you don't do it your call. But I guarantee you money's getting left on the table.  

Posted By: RaynaParis

My reviews speak for themselves.   I offer great gfe, to strangers

It just feels good, really really good.  

I like when women swallow because it's intimate, most definitely, but also dirty.  And the visual is really nice too; it just makes a session that much more fantasy-driven and kinked out.  I also enjoy kinkier things like snowballing too, cum is just lots of dirty fun!

Every lady has their own reason for swallowing. If you want to understand why I suggest you ask the ladies directly.
For me it's not about the scores (I'm massage only so I can't get higher than a 7 on performance) I do it because it's my choice. I don't think it's an intimate act either, mind blowing sex is intimate.  

Posted By: RaynaParis

I'm not against it, I've dranken loads of my ex lover's cum but to me thats a personal line I won't cross with stranger's. That's why I wonder why guy's like it, what's the big deal if a provider aka stranger drinks your cum. Lady's? Why? I knock noone just curious. Lot's of interesting answers. Still confused on why provider's do it? For scores? Do you really enjoy drinking strangers cum? I'm seriously interested. Not judging

Why do any of us like our particular 'thing'?  There are so many different things to like.  Do you like the same foods, activities, movies?  Same type of thing.  Some men LOVE a good prostate massage, while others have an invisible "exit only" tattoo on their ass.  Some men love to drink girl cum.  Some men have to dodge quickly.

That is the part that is MOST important when pleasing anyone, men or women.

Luckily, you have plenty of options

Rayna and I just aren't a part of them for you.  Everyone is different.

For me, the second the load is out of me it isn't mine anymore.  Do with it what you will.  Just keep doing that thing that pulled the load out.  Don't stop! Don't stop!  Don't stop!  

is a very well-placed condom with the talent to boot.

If you have false feelings that she likes you, she doesn't like you.

... providers not knowing the Common Information Model?  Why should a provider know the Common Information Model?  How will that improve the experience for her clients??  It's a complicated subject--it takes lots of training and experience to master!  And another thing--the Common Information Model is all about how objects relate to each other.  I think it's a bad idea for a provider to objectify her clients--how can that help, especially with "GFE" providers?!?  And then there's the controlling aspect of the Common Information Model.  That seems like hard-core BDSM to me!!  Not everyone is into that kind of thing, you know!  Plus there's these schemas to keep track of and... what?  It's NOT the Common Information Model?  Oh.  What is it, then?

I personally would rather see it run down the lens of her glasses and drip down her cheeks. It is good for the skin.

I am coming to this late, been off the forums a bit...  I agree with vorlon, there is something intimate about taking something that is from me, and wanting to keep it because it is from me, rather than wanting to get rid of it because it is from me.  It is NOT a must have for me.  But I have to say, there is a deep pleasure when it is kept in some way--swallowed, rubbed in, whatever.  And, it's a turn off when it is treated like some kind of poisonous chemical spill like the yellow cleanup guys in Monster's Inc.