Gives you something to do during the buildup. They also just make you feel good in general. But I'm beginning to think they're a bad idea for first-time visits, for personal reasons.

I wouldn't care to drink if the lady wasn't partaking. I wouldn't mind at all if she drank without me, depending I guess upon how much she drinks.

Conversely, I may or may not drink even if you're drinking. Depends on the trust. But since I vet ladies I see very carefully, I almost always feel fine about drinking with them. In all cases with two exceptions, I do my own screening and scheduling!😄

... hydroxilic acid.    And many of my dates with providers are in the morning, and I'm not a morning drinker.  Even for an afternoon or evening date, I need to drive afterwards. So I'm fine with no alcohol. If the lady prefers a certain type of beverage, alcoholic or non, I'll often bring some with me. Unless she says she loves something like Gout de Diamants Champagne... then we might stick with the hydroxilic acid!

I find that the men who I see know their limits. I will partake in a glass with my lover to help set the mood; or we can abstain from drinking and get right down to fun. The last thing I want to do is mother anyone, unless they're into that.

Drink and be merry! I'll call you an uber if need be. Cheers!

But that's about it for me.
In my experience alcohol rarely leads to good decisions.
 

in an adult beverage.  Most of the time she'll say 'yes, I'd like wine or whatever.'  So, w/my favs we generally have wine or booze.  A fav and I a few years ago drained bottles of Patron (tequila) over a two year period - Patron was her drink-of-choice.  Sadly, she retired. I haven't had Patron since...

If a provider does not drink, I will respect her, and elect not to drink in front of her.  When I see you Kyra, I will bring some dark chocolate?

dont show up drunk or pull out drugs unless you want to get sent away at the door! I've only seen this a couple times. Both in the day time on a weekday none the less! But yes, otherwise I do enjoy indulging a bit while we chat but a cup of tea or coffee can do the trick as well.

If done properly, it's a turn on, and sets the mood.

I saw a provider who talked me to her place on the phone (rare these days) and as she was giving final
directions, she asked if I wanted some wine? Then said "Red or White"?

Regardless of alcohol, it showed preparation, and was done in a sexy way.  Preparing and thinking of me, was unique and I will never forget the gesture.  (The little things go a long way for me...)

  (..I don't think either of us even finished 1 glass of wine) 😀

I have never been an alcohol person. I'll have a little sip of wine on occasion but that is it. I have been with a few ladies in the past that have a glass of wine or a beer while I am there and I have never found it to be a problem for me. If it makes her feel better and more relaxed that is no problem.

I will typically bring one of those 4-packs of wine to a session.  I will chat with my girlfriend while we sip our bottle of wine to set the mood.  Afterwards, I leave the remaining bottles behind; I guess that's my version of a tip.

But I as well have been in a few situations where I left a few men completely sloppy drunk and left bad for them because if the wrong lady was in there it would have been trouble

 
Kyla

Getting all buzzed up with a provider is cool

what sucks is everyone addicted to drinking the kool aid.