I am just wondering if other hobbyist wouldn't mind sharing what rules they would consider a deal breaker? With information comes knowledge and we can let providers know what the market will and will not support. NO PERSONAL ATTACKS and please don't be provider specific. Just for info. Have fun and party on
P.S. mine would be no DATY YMMV
I will only see girls that are GFE which to me means DFK. Obviously some other services are required too but my wants in those areas are not too wild so have not caused me any problems.
for me if she claims to to be a GFE, I expect DATY, DFK. Prefer BBBJ but do not have issues with CBJ.
I have a short tongue, so if DFK is offered,I respectfully decline.
Do you honestly expect anyone to promise you DATY and that YMMV won't happen before meeting you?
I am sorry, but YMMV is a fact of life. Which means anything might or might not happen. Any experience between client and provider will have a certain chemistry. This chemistry will dictate how the session goes.
I agree that having a set rules of engagement may help, as in knowing certain things are off limits before getting into it. But, one does need to be realistic in ones expectations.
I have known those that I enjoyed a DFK with, but not the first time I met them. If I had not met them because I thought they would not DFK, I would have lost out.
I am not trying to argue or be hostile, just expressing my point of view.
B.O.B.
Aproviders profile is only a guideline to things that may happen. It is then the hobbyist's responsibility to present himself in his most appealing way. I doubt you would get any kind of kiss if the tobacco juice was still on your chin, and in the same way, I would hate to see, or smell what you may run into with someone who does not DATY,and you got really lucky [wink] and talked her into it!
DFK and DAY are a must. I also really like (but rarely get) lingerie, high heels, erotic dance/lap dance. Just my personal proclivities! Some guys look for the GFE, I like to find what I call the HME (Honeymoon experience).
My list has to do more with atmosphere than activities.
One thing that blows it for me is having to push. I like a little introductory chat as much as the next guy. But it seems like 1/3 of the time, the provider is very assertive about getting started, 1/3 they're less assertive, but still very responsive to your signals, and 1/3 of the time you actually have to get pushy to get things going. I never, ever go back if it's that last 1/3.
All I really have to have is enthusiastic participation. Give me an assertive, enthusiastic provider who enjoys what she does, and I'm all set.
As for the action, I actually like passionate LFK, or just K, over DFK.
OK, on to the more embarrassing detailed stuff... I've never been a big fan of finishing "in the bag" so I VERY MUCH prefer that some kind of uncovered finish be available. If BBBJTC is a no-no, Russian or some other uncovered activities are always OK by me. I doubt I would ever see one of those providers where evrything--even HJ--had to be covered.
I guess I alway try to prepare myself (showered and dressed appropreatly) Like I expeect the provider to be. I do look at reviews and see if DATY is available prior. I understand that chemistry is always the unknown. If it is not available in reviews I will pass. That was my point. No offense taken by the way.