I've learned that my ATF, who showed me some of the ropes of the hobby, has passed.  I'll miss her and know that may of you will too.

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When I come to the end of my journey
and I travel my last weary mile
Just forget if you can, that I ever frowned
And remember only the smile.  
Forget unkind words I have spoken;
Remember some good I have done.
Forget that I ever had heartache  
And remember I've had loads of fun.

Foret that I've ever stumbled and blundered  
And sometimes fell by the way.
Remember I've fought some hard battles
and won, ere the close of the day.
Then forget to grieve for my going,
I would not have you sad for a day,
but in the summer just gather some flowers
and remember the place where I lay.  
And come in the shade of evening
When the sun paints the sky in the west,
Stand for a few moments beside me
And remember only my best.  

 
*Not written by me, but one of my favorite poems. Hugs

It's tough knowing someone whose company you enjoyed is no longer with us.

I see things like this from time to time.  In this case a sad passing of a friend, in other cases an issue of unfortunate circumstances or even mistreatment.  The intention is not questioned, however what meaning does an anonymous vague statement by an unknown nameless person about an anonymous nameless person have.  
we are a group that tends to support each other.  My suggestion/request; when you post a human interest or unfortunate event please try to find a way with respect for the person and there privacy to let those of us who may have known her (or him) know who or what you are referring to.  Possibly a non descript photo or a providers work name.  it may not be possible to do that in some cases but if you could try it would give your memorial more meaning if it included something like ; my friend know to some of us a Jane xoxo.  
My thought is not critical of anyone or there intentions, I believe that prayer, goodwill and karma are real.  If I knew your friend even one brief meeting that person is now lost to all of us.  I would want to remember her and morn her passing.

So very sorry for your loss. Take solace she is surrounded by love & peace amid those she loved & have passed before her.

Warm hugs & kisses,

Leann

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Personally I appreciate the anonymous post... obituaries can be placed with a photo, and if this lady's family has elected to use one and a loyal hobbyist or friend (or even enemy!) looks into it, her personal life could be in jeopardy. The last thing the family needs is to have a concerned hobbyist / stalker reaching out to them to express his condolences inappropriately or become involved in their life in a creepy way because of his grief. If someone is not returning your calls/emails and you believe they could have passed on you could post a "Have you seen..." post and if you have reviews or someone has info they may reach out to you privately... I just know if I were to pass away I don't want anyone here to post a thread about it and risk intrusion on my family's privacy during such a difficult time.... I've had a stalker and I'm sure many other ladies here have as well. I think its appropriate to leave it as; enjoy the time you have with each other while you have it, because anyone could quit or get busted or die - the result of each is her leaving us. Treat each situation the same and cherish the memories made, that is all we have at the end of the day in this world (p4p especially). If you are really curious PM the author and perhaps he will tell you, but please OP, please don't post her name publicly.

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