How many of you have been stood up by a provider and when it happens do they say I'll see you tomorrow. I generally use a regular that I've seen for years but lately she is getting less dependable it seems she will make an appointment with me early in the day then later on I'll get an excuse and she can't make it but how about tomorrow. I always have a great time but I'm left with that feeling of being thrown under the escort bus for someone else and now it's to late to find another quality provider and its gettin old. But I'm such a chump I keep tryin to believe her. At times it seems to happen if I contact another provider anyway does this happen to you.
The best part of this game is you can make everything brand new any time you want to. There are so many wonderful ladies that I have met I don't even have time to meet the people I would like to see.
Why she cancels does not really matter, time to meet a new flame.
upon by a provider very rarely ends well. One party always feels cheated or used in some way usually. Best to give your parting kisses virtually and move on.
I usually don't say it bluntly that I have no interest in seeing them again but I make an excuse like I saw another lady, I bought something expensive after she stood me up and am now broke. When I have more cash, I will get in contact with them again. In your case with your regular, the writing is on the wall and has been for some time. She is taking your money for granted and thinks of you more like an ATM than a client. Time to move on. The best way to get over any blues is to see other providers quickly and avoid getting attached to anyone.
Posted By: jimmymack100
How many of you have been stood up by a provider and when it happens do they say I'll see you tomorrow. I generally use a regular that I've seen for years but lately she is getting less dependable it seems she will make an appointment with me early in the day then later on I'll get an excuse and she can't make it but how about tomorrow. I always have a great time but I'm left with that feeling of being thrown under the escort bus for someone else and now it's to late to find another quality provider and its gettin old. But I'm such a chump I keep tryin to believe her. At times it seems to happen if I contact another provider anyway does this happen to you.
If I had reason to think that was or might be going on I'd move on, my time has value also and reschedules are a PITA. My guess is she's moving you around to make room for other guys. She knows you'll put up with it so she's maximizing her productivity.
intermittent reinforcement schedule--she doesn't reschedule ALL of your appointments, just some . . . and you keep allowing this, so she receives the rewards, and you get to . . . delay gratification.
How many of you have been stood up by a provider and when it happens do they say I'll see you tomorrow. I generally use a regular that I've seen for years but lately she is getting less dependable it seems she will make an appointment with me early in the day then later on I'll get an excuse and she can't make it but how about tomorrow. I always have a great time but I'm left with that feeling of being thrown under the escort bus for someone else and now it's to late to find another quality provider and its gettin old. But I'm such a chump I keep tryin to believe her. At times it seems to happen if I contact another provider anyway does this happen to you.
You'll probably never know how many times she's rescheduled other appointments to make room for you, and I haven't met a provider yet who wants to drive off respectful and fun regulars. It doesn't sound like the scheduling has had an impact on the enjoyment you get out of the sessions, so ask yourself: why is it that important to feel like you're this lady's #1 priority? Isn't that what a wife or girlfriend is for? The business is what it is and cancellations and reschedules will always be part of it. While it's true that there are other providers out there, seems to me that you should spend some time thinking about what you want out of a hobbyist-provider relationship before deciding whether or not to ditch the one you have.
If you feel she's giving you what you need and you enjoy your sessions, you can live with it or you tell her and hope it changes. Most ladies want to keep their regular guys happy and coming back, but if she feels you are getting too demanding well....... If it's a deal breaker for you move on to someone else, you can always try to swing by at a later date. Keep in mind she is not your GF she is someone you are paying to have your way with and she doesn't owe you anything beyond that.
how providers have such bad luck with their vehicles two hours before your appointment! Accidents, flat tires, won't start, car died stuck out of town etc.... Just sayin.
1) If it bothers you that much, stop seeing her. Who knows, perhaps that will eventually get a response from her and you can see if she changes her ways. But be prepared to simply move on. 2) A similar option would be to tell her that tomorrow doesn't work and that you will be in touch another time. Then do so. If the pattern continues then you may want to go back to #1 3) Have a talk with her about it. Keep it low key but be prepared for the possibility that she won't react well and you may just need to move on.
Sure it can be frustrating when your all riled up and ready to go and you get a last minute cancellation. But I think shit does happen. Remember many ladies are running 2 completely different lives and chances are the 2 cannot coexist. There's family obligations (often with children) hobby client obligations, hotel logistics etc...we have no idea what goes on in their lives from the moment just before we walk in the door and right after we leave.
Maybe she give you a bullshit excuse. Would you rather hear my car broke down or the truth, Aunt flow decided to visit today, or my kid threw up all over the gym at school and I have to pick him up. Kinda takes away some of the fantasy No?? Maybe she did double book. Not a big fan of it, but its a tough biz ladies get cancelled on last minute all the time. If you feel like a "chump" than talk to her about it. If you don't feel like you can talk to her then you have the power not to be a chump, simply move on. Plenty of great ladies out there that would be happy to see you I'm sure.
I tend to agree with this, generally, but I don't believe it's because of any elevated expectations on my part. It's not a hard and fast rule (at my age not much is hard and fast anymore) but I have found that if it's a true NCNS, almost nothing good ever comes of the eventual meeting. The providers that I like to see are the ones who are emotionally invested in this, and the "hobby" is not just a job but an honest expression of their real sexuality, and desire to be comforting nurturers. Those are generally the types that will really try hard to let you know if something comes up and they can't make it. But if it's a NCNS stand-up... Move on, period. The thing that makes me want to see someone more than anyone else... is that they want to see me.
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