is there any instant message on here or just mail ? and how do i mail to another member, just type in the name the way i see it ?? ben, help me out, lol

But what works better is if you are both VIPs just meet in the TwinCities chat-room that's close to IMing.

(I also wish we had a true IM system within TER, but not as of yet)

how do i do a pm ?

if I'm PMing someone about a particular post, I just click on that tiny envelope behind their name inside their post.

thanks for the help ben