what you're looking for is a private dancer or a very attractive female entertainer at a bachelor party.

HOWEVER......................

most of the hobbyists that peruse thiis site are not looking for that.  They are looking for something more intimate in a 1 on 1 private setting.  Most guys here are OK with a lady that might fall short of the ultimate of eye candy provided she makes up for it with a cheerful, enthusiastic, friendly performance with a fairly open menu that is competive with other ladies.

This whole argument is apples vs. oranges.  It reminds me of last year's discussion comparing massage providers vs, full service providers which I also consider to be apples and oranges.