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posted 10 months ago

I get why gals require them, SO many guys have last minute... issues...
Seems like ever since Covid things are a lot different.
I recently had a horrible experience w/a deposit return for a double appointment that ended up not going thru.
I ended up feeling like a jerk even tho it wasn't my policy to begin with, & that's my point: I work in the cities a few days a week & I don't do deposits at this time.

twinkie_mayne10 months ago1261 reads

Deposits

Trying to see how many of you gents are okay or pay these deposits? Seeing many tryst ads that require them. Sure some gals may have reviews but many of the ones that require a deposit dont have reviews. I for one have never been okay nor paid a deposit to meet someone. Found a gal that id like to see, shes new to the scene, 0 reviews, and requires a deposit. Just screaming red flags tho i am thinking with my big head and not little head.

If you have paid a deposit, mind sharing your experience(s)

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jpsflash10 months ago56 reads

Not

I’m not paying deposit unless p411 member and I schedule through p411…. Outside of that.. not happening all scams ..

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vorlon10 months ago47 reads

I haven't paid a deposit

And while I believe most providers will handle deposits responsibly, I've heard too many stories about the ones that don't.

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twinkie_mayne10 months ago50 reads

Re: I haven't paid a deposit

Kind of unfortunate what this hobby is turning out to be. I get guys ncns and thats just as unfortunate for the providers but the deposit thing is just an easy cash grab for scammers out there. Hard to weed out who is real and who isnt. Especially if theyre a new provider trying to get new clients while also requiring a deposit.

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Mindyzurgirl10 months ago66 reads

I understand why...

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twinkie_mayne10 months ago54 reads

Re: I understand why...

Honestly im not sure why i havent met you yet. Heard your head game is out of this world 🫨

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Mindyzurgirl10 months ago61 reads

Blushing -e-

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Mysweetbetty10 months ago66 reads

IMHO

Do your due diligence in researching the gal before you send a deposit. No reviews, no website and only 1 ad on one site then I'd say no way. But if she's got a good reputation, has a social media presence, website and has multiple ads posted that you've seen several times in the past then trust her.

We work hard to build our reputations so you feel comfortable seeing us. The same goes with deposits.

I personally only ask for a deposit for an out of the metro outcall or if you've pulled a ncns in the past and very very rarely if red flags are flying in other situations.