photo session with my sister yesterday, I realized the recent review was accurate about my weight.

That weight doesn't really make you a bbw because I know quite a bit of ladies that same weight & they don't look like a stereotypical bbw at all , curvy yes but a size 10-14 is pretty avg woman size in america.  When a FAT man to objectifes a womans body in a negative way it just makes my claws come out...confidence is a thousand times sexier than outward appearances any day imho.
Good job on your sobriety !  
I'm mostly muscle so a lot of men would confuse that with being fat however I'd like to see them run the 5k's, do the warrior dash courses and all the other running around I do with two toddlers in tow on a daily basis without being completely exausted to see people & then call me that.
Good luck ! one more thing, it's ONE review. Why are you still giving them power over you?
Xo V.

If you have a GREAT Smile, An Awesome Personality, Your Clean, And Respectful
the weight is just a PLUS..... Not All Men Like Bones ......

There are some very very muscular women who would be considered BBW if they went by weight  because muscle weighs more than fat.

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Yet if you looked at my clothes size or weigh you might. I am 5'9 1/2 " and wear large to extra large or a size 12 to 16 depending on the brand ... My measurements also don't scream bbw. I am ok with curvy, baby fat, voluptuous, etc  maybe bbw is a negative term in my head idk but I do think its mostly how you feel and carry yourself .... As long as you represent yourself accurantly with your ads so the potential clients have an idea what to expect. We are beautiful in all sizes!!! Thankfully men love many different sizes.  Love yourself or no one else can.

Whose guidelines?  

And, she is a BBW-- a small one, yes, but a BBW nonetheless.  A size 12-16 may look differently on a tall person but it's still a size 12-16.    

Sorry (not really) I couldn't resist. & TOUCHE gorgeous!

I got a little flustered.  My apologies.  It irritates me that an alias feels the need to argue with ME of all people about size and weight.    I have been plus size my entire fucking 48 yrs,  and have been nearly every  size between size 12 and size 32.  I did a freakin' term paper on it in college for my sociology class.  I do believe  I know something about the subject.    

There are those who are obese but there are also those who could stand to gain a few lbs.    
The majority are what one would consider normal weight to 20 lbs overweight.   No matter,  
they are all great!!!

Had the OP been a thin spinner this feed would take up 1/2 the page by now filled with hobbyists throwing out hoots & consoling words.  

Your beautiful no matter your size!! I'm 190 and consider myself a small bbw, though i do not put bbw in my ad, i prefer curvaceous .

Other people's opinions are not one of them.

It might just be that someone else knows as much or more than you do about the subject and simply disagrees with you.  That is not arguing.  It is disagreeing.  As you have pointed out yourself many times, this is a discussion board.  Using an alias has nothing to do with anything.  

As men we have been trained from birth that when a woman's weight is the topic the only safe response is no response.  Personally I have never met the OP so I have nothing to add other than I prefer to see real women and I am not a skinny guy myself.

like I said, even though I was surprised to see the pictures, I still know I'm hot! so that's the only thing to me that matters!... how I feel in my skin & not what some guy thinks! it was more of a "lol that guy was right!    I have gained weight but because I'm blonde, I didn't realize!! " more being funny giving myself crap... lol... ha ha!