Most DEFINITELY a S3X ADDICT!!! ALWAYS have been & thinking I ALWAYS will be!!! lol. haha

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I completely enjoy engaging in a good romp, but I do not believe that I am an addicit.  Addict implies that the behaviors are impairing normal life functioning. However, I am a hobbyist, I cannot say that my "lifestyle" is normal.  
Just know that as you age you are always going to find moments in life that make you wish you discovered them early. Just make what you can of them now, so when you find these moments you wish you have done early you can say, "That would have been nice to discover early, but I was a _______ and that made life awesome now and I would do it again."  Live it up! Soak it up! Never give up

I've always been extremely sexual and very interested in human sexually ... As I always say the mind is the biggest, most involved sex organ!

... per a recent study by UCLA.  The first one on this subject, apparently!  Can't imagine why someone didn't study this subject before, with lots of field studies... for the scientific research value of course!!  

But that doesn't mean that someone can't really REALLY like sex (or s3x)!  And what providers and hobbyists don't!!  

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Relate sexual addiction to a dissociative state. Arising from anxiety or depression, people will disconnect from their environment and go on sexual benders. But in general I have difficulty believing in sexual addiction idea. I believe it could be a diagnosis similar to gambling addiciton, but sex is generally finite. Once sex becomes so important to an individual it interferes with nomal functioning, then many underlying things need to be looked at.

lol. I'm a sex addict in my "OWN" definition... And, I guess I am NOT a sex addict when it comes to some other people's definitions!!  

I loooove having fun!
I loooove foreplay, middleplay & endplay!
I loooove kissing & cuddling!
I loooove having sex!
I loooove giving head!
I loooove having my pussy ate!
I loooove getting really wild & kinky at times! (BDSM/Fetishes)
I loooove being gentle & other times being rough!
I loooove to learn EVERYTHING that I can! (although I know almost everything when it comes to sex!)
I loooove to partake in many different types of sexual activities!

I personally do NOT like porn... As I LIKE to make my own porn in the bedroom!! lol... withOUT cameras of course!!! But, if you want to bring porn & watch it while were together I'm okay with that!!... it just doesn't get me off! The physical experience I have with others gets me off!!

I loooove sexual energy!!
I loooove trying many different positions!
I loooove trying many different things sexually!!

BUT, even though I loooove SEX!!...
S3X does ***NOT*** ever interfere with MY DAILY RESPONSIBILITIES IN LIFE!!!!!!  

So, I guess what my supposed to have been a light-hearted, really fun joking around topic... became super serious & heavy hearted when it became apparent that EVERYBODY HAS A DIFFERENT DEFINITION of what "sex addict" means!!.....

So, I guess THE QUESTION SHOULD HAVE BEEN...
On a scale of 1 to 100... where do you find yourself sexually???  
(1 being not experienced at all... don't know much... have had sex a few times in life but am a newbie to hobbying/providing and haven't tried it yet... and 100 being VERY experienced... have had sex a lot in life... have even tried some BDSM/Fetishes & am an extremely experienced hobbyist/provider!!!)  

I would find myself at 100!

You should refer your questions to the Ad Board, because they all end up being about what you do.

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Perhaps they are opinions and not definitions. I can't claim I am an authority to define it but my opinion is that the term is used far too loosely. Just don't find the humor or playfulness anywhere when discussing addictions.

I find humor in my past addictions... now that I'm sober for a year & a half!! I like laughter & don't mind laughing at myself!! Even though I'd NEVER laugh at anyone else!!! just myself!!