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TrinityLake See my TER Reviews 501 reads
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and I share my life with my clients.  I like to connect with people.  As a general rule, it's good not to ask a provider on your first appointment.  However, you can ask me.  I'll ask you all the same stuff, because I'm genuinely interested.

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tomtom20131048 reads

this question comes from my general curiosity about the lifestyles of providers.  i'm curious to know if the provider's 'job' interferes with any personal relationship they might have with a sig-other.  I know many of us hobbiests have sig others and we all hobby for different reasons, but i'm wondering what its like on the other side.   I wanted to ask the last provider I saw about this topic but didn't want to put them on the spot if they weren't comfortable answering my questions.  so....  ladies, does your provider 'job' interfere with one-on-one relationships in the real world?

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anmename434 reads

If you ask when you walk in the door, yeah, not cool, but when you have seen a provider a few times and you start to share more pertinent life details, I think its a bit more acceptable. No one forces anyone to answer the question. I have had providers who told me that were married (and engaged) when I first saw them (even wearing rings to support it) only to have them later reveal to me that they were indeed single. I've also have the opposite happen.

My point is: Ask or don't ask, you really don't know the answer.

To the OP's question: I think you'll see two responses:
1. My SO loves it and supports me in it.
2. I choose not to have an SO because I don't think I can find one who supports me in it.

I highly doubt that we will see a "He hates it. We fight about it all time and any day I expect he's going to bust down the door of my incall with guns blazing!"

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vorlon365 reads

I've had that come up in conversations with escorts before but only once we have seen each other a number of times and are more comfortable with each other.  But not all the time; some prefer to not talk about their personal lives.

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AngieSummers790 reads

who worships the slutty ground I walk on:)  He is totally supportive of what I do.  He worries only about my safety.  We have been together for 20 years and have known each other for 25 years.  I have only been a provider for a couple of years, but before that I had an amateur adult site, and he was my primary photographer and videographer.

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TrinityLake502 reads

and I share my life with my clients.  I like to connect with people.  As a general rule, it's good not to ask a provider on your first appointment.  However, you can ask me.  I'll ask you all the same stuff, because I'm genuinely interested.

Trinity

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jchan113346 reads

I talk too. Well, too much about nothing that's erotic and has turned some providers off. Just as they are trying to provide a sensual experience I am prattling on about business or current events. I also ask way too many personal questions. I connect with others this way and that is my form of intimacy. Don't get me wrong, I like tits and the other stuff, but conversation is what satisfies me. That and bbbj... :-D

I can single-handedly ruin a session by talking all the way through it. Who wants me now? :-)

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ezra007374 reads

The last few ladies I have seen they have been asking me about my personal life, married, kids, etc on the 1st visit.  In general I feel curiosity can go both ways.  What I think would be cool is to participate in a meet and greet type of thing where people feel more comfortable just talking and having fun.  Its just that the LE and privacy factor combined make it near impossible.

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