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brilove1219 reads

This has probably been discussed a thousand times but I am wondering. Is it not good etiquette to write reviews for providers if you are asking providers to be a reference for you and add you to the whitelist and okay you? By no means am I saying "do this for me if I do that for you" or to bump up reviews and such. Just common courtesy! I also do understand that some wait for the next month kinda thing to earn free VIP and I know writing reviews are work but so are timely, sometimes repeated reference replies.

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sens312642 reads

I can't imagine asking a provider for a whitelist without first giving them a review. But then, there's more than a few things in this hobby I have trouble imagining. Some people are just rude.

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JoeBanzai664 reads

I usually ask the lady if she wants me to post a review. Some do not want them. If you want to be reviewed, mention it nicely after the session, a gentleman should comply.
Some guys just might not like writing reviews and there should not be any "do this for me and I'll do that for you" going on.
This hobby can be frustrating at times

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buck1848552 reads

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sxychic617 reads

I would be more than happy to give a reference too.

I am all ears...... What is/isn't acceptable to provide in an inquiry?

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sxychic520 reads

Great topic! I think this is an awkward subject. Part of my verification is to read the clients' reviews he has written and check out his White List Referrals as well. Very helpful. Sometimes reviews etc. are talked about before or after a session but not much... and even though I rely on them, I don't want reviews... or White Lists.. but whatever, I will give if requested! How long are they good for? There is a delete next to your White List, so what is proper etiquette, and when or why should the delete button be used? For some reason there is not a delete button next to reviews. Some of mine are old. I am up in the air on this topic and would like some more input as well.

Posted By: brilove
This has probably been discussed a thousand times but I am wondering. Is it not good etiquette to write reviews for providers if you are asking providers to be a reference for you and add you to the whitelist and okay you? By no means am I saying "do this for me if I do that for you" or to bump up reviews and such. Just common courtesy! I also do understand that some wait for the next month kinda thing to earn free VIP and I know writing reviews are work but so are timely, sometimes repeated reference replies.

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2late402 reads

I've weighed in on this question before.  IMO, a whitelist should not be deleted unless that client has done something to warrant removing the original whitelisting. I rely on those whitelists because I have rarely given out personal information.  

Some gals have suggested that time should be a factor but I disagree.  Basic human decency does not usually change with time.  

A reviewer, I believe, will have his old review removed if he writes a new one for the same girl which is significantly different than his earlier one.   It's also likely that he could have his review removed if it was requested. This is probably covered in the rules if one chose to read through them.  

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Great topic! I think this is an awkward subject. Part of my verification is to read the clients' reviews he has written and check out his White List Referrals as well. Very helpful. Sometimes reviews etc. are talked about before or after a session but not much... and even though I rely on them, I don't want reviews... or White Lists.. but whatever, I will give if requested! How long are they good for? There is a delete next to your White List, so what is proper etiquette, and when or why should the delete button be used? For some reason there is not a delete button next to reviews. Some of mine are old. I am up in the air on this topic and would like some more input as well.  
   
Posted By: brilove
This has probably been discussed a thousand times but I am wondering. Is it not good etiquette to write reviews for providers if you are asking providers to be a reference for you and add you to the whitelist and okay you? By no means am I saying "do this for me if I do that for you" or to bump up reviews and such. Just common courtesy! I also do understand that some wait for the next month kinda thing to earn free VIP and I know writing reviews are work but so are timely, sometimes repeated reference replies.

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Freestyle869546 reads

Ok, I have to agree with JoeBanzai. I don't go into a meet with the expectation of a beautiful lady doing anything in response to me doing something. Personally I just like to keep the memory to myself and they do the same. It's kind of a no kiss and tell thing. However, if a lady ever wanted me to, I would gladly oblige.  

But in response to this thread, I just posted my first review. So if that is what is expected, so be it. :) By no means did I mean to not be grateful.

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DJ1985485 reads

Reading reviews to help you when looking for a lady but then saying "I don't kiss and tell" after you find one, sounds a little messed up to me...imho

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sens312498 reads

It's very helpful to have some honest reviews for a provider. It can be done without compromising their privacy, and it usually helps to bring them more business. It also helps the hobbyists to not waste their money on the scammers and instead give it to the legitimate providers.  

Posted By: DJ1985
Reading reviews to help you when looking for a lady but then saying "I don't kiss and tell" after you find one, sounds a little messed up to me...imho

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knotsaway525 reads

Agreed.  Just be respectful of the provider's wishes on reviews, i.e. ask them if it's ok to post a review.  I've only had two providers say "no" on a review.  One was despondent over a couple of recent dishonest reviews.  But she's a wonderful lady and I had a great time with her, so I wanted to write a positive review for her.  So I offered to let her see the review before I published it, and she liked that idea.  She asked for only one little change.  The other time I did not write a review was for a provider who prefers flying UTR.  Even if she was ok with a review, I probably wouldn't have written one as my experience went so far beyond her normal menu, I don't think I could have written a review that provided enough details to be useful (or acceptable to TER) while keeping the off-the-menu details private.

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2late445 reads

Well said!

Posted By: DJ1985
Reading reviews to help you when looking for a lady but then saying "I don't kiss and tell" after you find one, sounds a little messed up to me...imho

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macdaddy1944602 reads

men tend to be selfish and arrogant..i am sure you ladies have noticed..

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