As you all may or may not know, I am new(er) to this hobby - Not old by any stretch of the imagination, but also not a newly graduated whelp looking for a fun, quick fling.  Well, I had a relatively free week last week and felt particularly "frisky" and decided to spread my wings a bit and go exploring a bit.  

I have an interesting observation I would like to share and maybe open up a few comments on.

Although there is certainly a part of the male psychi that loves the idea of a young(er) (19-25ish) woman, my thoughts always seem to drift back to my experiences with the more "mature" women here (I hope I am not opening a can of worms there) around 33-45ish (well, except one, and I have to give high praise to Elizabeth for being so laid back, easy to talk to and just incredible).  Thinking on it a bit I realize that receiving AND giving are both very important to me for a truely memorable experience, and it just seems that the more mature women out there know themsleves a little better and seem to genuinely/convicingly appreciate both sides of the equation more than a young(er) woman (I am still thinking of a recent visit with Alantra and wondering if we will ever make it beyond her massage table... ahhh -big smile!).  That, combined with a great personality and a general sense of relaxation when together, makes all the difference between a "good" provider and a great provider (the ones that make you smile when thinking about them and hoping you will have enough free time to visit again soon!).

Anyone have similar thoughts? Or maybe thoughts in the other directionfor a different perspecive?

p.s. REALLY - I mean NOTHING negative whatsoever in any kind of way by the word "mature" especially since I fall right in that range myself

woman. The younger providers seem to cancel at the last minute quite a bit - they decide to go do something else or just suddenly didn't feel like working that evening. I always plan well in advance - at least a week - and my luck with the under 35 providers has been awful. Many times I've scrambled at the last minute to fill an evening, and have had to find someone else at the last minute. Most of the time it has been with a more mature, experienced provider - and EVERY time it seems - it's worked out for the best. Some of my "make me smile" memories are with those last minute, more mature women I've met! Mmmmmm - thinking of one in San Jose right now!!!

I've met some wonderful women lately - I think it's because I'm choosing more wisely now. 35 - 45 is my sweet spot!

There are of course exceptions. But it is reare to find the early 20's Ladies who can really get into enjoying themselves... I do remember a couple and one in particular who could go on and on. She loved to recieve oral and had multiple O's, but that is rare in early 20 year olds. However 30's and 40's, much more common. And most of those Ladies are NOT faking! There are things happening that cannot be faked.

If I had to put a general age on it, I would say 28 and up.

I also had an opportunity to spend time with a mature woman last week, even more than those you so highly speak, but it sounds like I am maturer, older, than you, and had a absolute great time.  She was very near my age and the evening was absolutely fantastic, wish she was located in MN.  I have reached a point where the journey is as important if not more, than the destination and we were both able to take our time and enjoy the time spent getting to the final location.  Youner women are lovely to look at but I would much rather hold the mature woman.

when i was younger i would never agreed with you but was fortunate enough to have a little fun with a 33 yr old when I was 20 and she blew me away.  She was comfortable with who she was and her body and definitely knew what she wanted.  there must be a reason why they say women hit their peak in their late 30's .  i love the company of all women but would prefer 30/40 yr old over a 22 year old.

i have had great experiences with more mature ladies for sure. i could add many to your list but no need. It seems alot of the younger ladies come with too much drama and have no clue how to take care of business. Very few mature ladies post fake pictures,ncns,filled voicemail, no message return and the list goes on. So while alot the youger ladies are fun to look at they come with too much baggage for me. Ill stay with the 33-45ish group. By no means is this intended for all the young providers because there are some great ones there also.

I too agree that the Milf is usually the best experience.  They are more relaxed and comfortable about whom they are and why I’m there.  They seem to make that conection that leaves one feeling good in many ways.

I still have the itch to see the younger hotties too.  But you are quite right, I think on average I have had better experiences with those who are 35+.  I think many of these just have the experience in knowing how to read a guy and push the right buttons.  Every once in awhile you find that in the younger ones too, but its more of an exception.  I am in that post-mature group of guys now and it seems like I need the thrill of a reliving my youth with a 20-25 type every now and again.  But the compromise is definitely on the performance side.  (a recent exception would be Sadie however.)

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young flesh that is.......missed out when I was younger so I'm making up for it now. I prefer 20- 25 but have met a few younger and had some great experiences too. I think that what has been difficult for me is seeing a women that claims to be in the 30- 35 range but when I meet them I find that they are plus 40, even 50 once. However, when I wanted to see a mature provider that was over 45, I've had great experiences. For me, so much has to do with expectations and I hate the dishonesty of age that some ladies do. I saw a 22 year old lady this week (see review today on Miami) and had an awesome time talking and felt very relaxed as she was very laid back and sensual. It all comes down to comfort-ability and preference but I certain understand why so many prefer the mature ladies.

Aw thank you, you are too sweet! xo

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