Hi, I have a new review which is total bull crap lol. The session went south due to said client being aggressive (he was also 10 minutes late). Yes I made him leave 5 minutes early due to feeling completely uncomfortable. I even offered him $20 back. Anyways, I believe reviews are not discreet and its bizarre how an individual can say whatever they please and not include what they have done on their behalf. It makes me sick, I feel for every provider whom has become victim to false reviews. I understand this is part of the game, but there should be something we can do to either remove the review or have the full story included. I just dont want to be apart of them any longer if nothing can be done.  

He had similar behavior with me a while back...  
Mr. Shitty , you're going to push around the wrong person someday...  
If you need to talk PM me..  

That's hilarious, I'm sorry he treated you in an unpleasant way. If there are any other providers out there that has been a victim of Mr. Shitty please email me.  

This is the type of person who refers to a gentleman who actually likes women as White Knights.  My question to them; is the opposite of White Knight - Asshole, women hater, wife beater or is it  Mr. Shitty...  

But, they don't.  They see women as inferior and in need of protection.  Never straight forward with their motives and pretend to be better then others.  

If you're attracted to slim girls don't book with us curvy ones.
If you want someone who's model material don't book with a 7.
And so on & so forth...
You aren't responsible for his nasty attitude Chanel. Not at all.
it's not rocket science to the many sweet & kind gentlemen here that some guys are just hateful towards women in general and they'll never be happy .
My honest opinion is that reviews like that are useless to other hobbyists and I'd like to believe that when they see fellow hobbyists choose to abuse their privileges, see those who seem to think we're subhuman as nothing more than a cheap crybaby with an axe to grind.
Also,
As if a half hour session with a massage lady is enough to do everything under the sun when in reality we all know that more often than not, we just can't .  
 Know what I mean ?  - V

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I can't express how deeply sorry I am. Catch this consoling hug I'm sending your way.  

Those who commented thank you. Lchase can I perhaps have your email? There are some things I'd rather chat about on a private level.

Absolutely!

that providers can (and do) weed out the unsavory by looking at reviews and posting history,   IMO, these type of threads do a disservice to providers.     I am likely to take some heat on that opinion but I do believe their are others with similar beliefs and feelings about this.   My fear is that  unsavory and unsafe hobbyists who are posted about on the local boards by providers will just change their handles,  emails, hobby names, and phone numbers to "hide" their reputations as dirtbags and fucktards.    We have seen it before.  

I don't have VIP so I'm not sure what he has said about other providers. Unfortunately TER doesn't accept my card or my bank doesn't allow? Therefore I'm unable to get VIP for the time being.  

From what I have heard, it is not an easy process as TER does require something to back up your claim besides what you say but you can try it.

FYI Chanel, the reviewer has never reviewed until he has reviewed you. In other words no credibility and no one cares. You almost don't have to ask for it to be removed, anyone that can click the reviewer's name will laugh at his lack of experience and reviews. I think most will agree, especially since you don't have a run of bad reviews.  

Even when you have solid proof they won't look at it or leave it up anyway in some cases which to me is ridiculous.

It will be very hard to get the review removed because the meeting actually took place and right or wrong that is the reviewers take on what happened.  
The best thing you can do is keep giving the best service you can and as you get more good reviews his will become even less relevant. As it is his review is already so out of line with your other reviews it shouldn't have much effect on your business.  
Don't dwell on it because it's mostly out of your hands. Put it in your past and enjoy meeting the many guy who appreciate and enjoy what you do.

And I would encourage the OP to reach out to some of the few providers that still post on this board to make connections so you are in their loop.  Good luck

He is fearless in his appointment making and reports back with an ass ton of honest reviews.  What more can you ask for in a contributor to this board?

My one very bad experience with a reviewed provider--currently EXTREMELY highly reviewed in terms of numbers of reviews--led to me joining the board after being urged to do so by members here.  That review was dropped like a rock after I assume she complained--as was one other nearly identical review (for both of us it was a rip off with threats involved)...so perhaps something has changed.  At the time she probably had mere dozens of reviews, not hundreds.  But it was my first review.

Ter needs proof that he was aggressive, not sure how in the world that is possible. This site isn't very provider friendly. How can I delete my profile if that's the route it ventures to?  

With out concrete evidence and I don't personally know either of you, who's to say what is the real truth.  Maybe your lying and maybe he's lying.

Posted By: ChanelJade

Hi, I have a new review which is total bull crap lol. The session went south due to said client being aggressive (he was also 10 minutes late). Yes I made him leave 5 minutes early due to feeling completely uncomfortable. I even offered him $20 back. Anyways, I believe reviews are not discreet and its bizarre how an individual can say whatever they please and not include what they have done on their behalf. It makes me sick, I feel for every provider whom has become victim to false reviews. I understand this is part of the game, but there should be something we can do to either remove the review or have the full story included. I just dont want to be apart of them any longer if nothing can be done.  
   
 Any advice on how to be removed the review or be removed from this site would be greatly appreciated.

Look through the search bar up there, and you will find many threads indicating lack of providers engaging in the discussion boards.

You're correct thank you for your response Jennie.  

Sure, I believe I misinterpreted my point (I may get into further details later). I didn't read your entire post (at the park occupied by keeping my flowing dress from revealing my see through panties) I don't tend to participate in off putting conversations.

Posted By: Maruyama

Posted By: ChanelJade

Look through the search bar up there, and you will find many threads indicating lack of providers engaging in the discussion boards.  
     
 

   
 There is a world of difference between providers not participating on the boards and not participating with TER in general, which is how you characterised your original comment that I replied to. It's also why I mentioned the number of reviews on the site; it's a number that has zero correlation to provider activity on the message boards, and instead relates to, as you described it, participation on TER.  
   
 If you want to keep telling yourself that you aren't in a very small minority of providers who start with TER and then dislike it/leave soon thereafter, fine, I'm not going to stop you. I would imagine neither would any potential client you might get from here. Nor would the ladies that represent competition for your business. It's your life.

What I would do is..Wait, you were at a park on a windy day? In a dress with see through panties?   What were we talking about

I think this site exists because of reviews.  Reading all reviews is the only feature that requires a VIP membership and the VIP membership is  the only part of the site that may require users to pay money to the operators of this website.  The reviews are the site.  The discussion boards are simply another feature to keep members interested.  The site is set up for clients to post "reviews" of providers they have seen.  Providers have their own way to share information about clients.  Yes, both the reviews and board posts are wrought with all shades of shadiness.  But it is what it is.  Experienced people know how to navigate the BS and new members need to watch, listen, learn and research.  I understand you are upset.  There is a world of providers who come and go who have nothing to do with this site.  There are others yet who may have signed up but never say a word on the discussion boards.  There are providers who are active participants.  I can't understand why a provider wouldn't want a presence on TER, if only to never actively participate.  Don't you want to know what people are saying about you and others?  Knowledge is power.  Don't you want to advertise for free?  Do what you think is best for you personally and for your business.

Your profile will be removed along with all your reviews.  No future reviews will be allowed.  You won't be allowed to post on any of the boards; in fact discussing you at all won't be allowed.  With TER, it is an all or nothing proposition.

I respect your opinion, in my opinion they should make the site fair.    Situations like this should be looked into and solved fairly. But it is what it is, I'm over it...I cannot dwell on what I cannot fix.  

To be removed from the site as you had originally asked, you can request from TER to be delisted. Be aware, however, that if you decide to return, your past reviews will return also.  

Posted By: ChanelJade

Hi, I have a new review which is total bull crap lol. The session went south due to said client being aggressive (he was also 10 minutes late). Yes I made him leave 5 minutes early due to feeling completely uncomfortable. I even offered him $20 back. Anyways, I believe reviews are not discreet and its bizarre how an individual can say whatever they please and not include what they have done on their behalf. It makes me sick, I feel for every provider whom has become victim to false reviews. I understand this is part of the game, but there should be something we can do to either remove the review or have the full story included. I just dont want to be apart of them any longer if nothing can be done.  
   
 Any advice on how to be removed the review or be removed from this site would be greatly appreciated.

LChayse,
You're just ready to 100% believe the provider in this case? That the reviewer is the bad guy? Isn't it possible it's the other way around?

Posted By: LChayse

 
   

Posted By: Maruyama

Posted By: ChanelJade

Look through the search bar up there, and you will find many threads indicating lack of providers engaging in the discussion boards.    
       
   

 
     
  There is a world of difference between providers not participating on the boards and not participating with TER in general, which is how you characterised your original comment that I replied to. It's also why I mentioned the number of reviews on the site; it's a number that has zero correlation to provider activity on the message boards, and instead relates to, as you described it, participation on TER.  
     
  If you want to keep telling yourself that you aren't in a very small minority of providers who start with TER and then dislike it/leave soon thereafter, fine, I'm not going to stop you. I would imagine neither would any potential client you might get from here. Nor would the ladies that represent competition for your business. It's your life.

   
 You & those like you boil my blood!  
   
 This young lady is hurting. DO YOU GET THAT?! Put yourself in her shoes. She is young & new to the review boards. She got slammed HARD in her most recent review from a total douche bag early on in her career as a provider. Perhaps that douche is you hiding like a pussy behind that stupid alias of yours? Hmmmm......  
   
 She came to this board trusting participants could & would offer support & guidance. Thank god some of us were willing to provide that for her but lo & behold, as usual, the misogyny or hateful provider (which ever you are) has to jump at the chance to bully the new kid. PFFT!  
   
 She tried to address the issue with TER & failed to get the response she had hoped for. Another slap in the face for her. So now she is venting. BIG DEAL! I'd like to see how you would react under these circumstances. Don't you dare tell me you wouldn't be hurting & piping mad. JUST DON'T!  
   
 People here will validate that provider interaction (on this board anyway) HAS in fact dropped. Substantially I might add. Why? Because of ASS HATS LIKE YOU!  
   
 That is all!  
   
 

Cowards hiding behind an alias really makes my blood boil.