One of Johnny Carson's funniest lines was when Frank Sinatra was his guest.  Carson leaned back and said, "Frank, I'm just wondering: When you're in a romantic mood, you have the lady over at your place, the lights are down low, the wine at the ready...who do YOU listen to on the stereo?!"

In that same spirit, I have this question:

When you're with your ATF and at the very height of passion, who are YOU thinking about?!

This is a spin-off of the common meme that, when we are having "routine" sex with our "regular" partner, we are probably fantasizing about someone else.  So, my question:  

When you're WITH that "someone else," who are you thinking about

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But before the climax, it came to me who would be a perfect partner for a double. Plans are in the works

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...yeah, I fantasize sometimes. I visit the women I visit because I want to be with them. I don't need to pretend they are someone else. But the circumstance of the visit is something I could wish were different.  

As opposed to an old fart paying a bunch of money to a beautiful woman so she will suck my cock, I sometime imagine myself much younger, high school even, and then it is easy to imaging the lady pleasuring me is doing so simply because she wants to. I love the hobby but "because she wants to" is a powerful stimulant. Scenarios are many. If we are on a couch, it could be her parents living room. On a bed, maybe it's a college dorm room. In the bathroom, early days in my marriage. Don't even have to close my eyes. I'm not trying to substitute a different woman, only a different setting. Just think back and try to recapture the feelings I experienced, lo those many years ago, when it was real and new.

.....I've enjoyed creating scenarios with my ATF's, including the making out on the couch while the parents are out...and "worrying" if they'll come home at any moment!    

That's one reason why it's a bit of a turn-off to me if I go to wash up upon arrival and I come out of bathroom and the lady is lying buck naked on the bed.  I enjoy a little fantasy play, undressing, etc., leading up to the main event(s)

...ME!

Why me?!?!

No, I'm not a narcissist.  Rather, I'm thinking how LUCKY I am to have this stunning lady all to myself for this little while...AND, I'm worrying about not performing....  Sometimes the former, sometimes the latter.

But, all in all, it's Nirvana for me for that hour or more.  

And, to my original question: No, I'm NOT thinking of anyone else in this case!  Just the lady in the moment (as others have said)

Very well stated