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I imagine that the initial message may either be missing something or may not be enticing enough to justify a response. I've found that people who text, initially text send one of two messages: "Hey, how are you?" or some variation of "You available?" Email tends to be a bit better but often times, it's something along the lines of, "Hey - I'm interested in seeing you for incall. Is that available." Suffice to say, these types of inquiries yield zero responses or at the very least a snarky one.  

Whether you are texting or emailing, I encourage a message along the lines of:

"Hello "insert provider name". I hope you're well. I saw your ad on TER and I am inquiring to see if you have availability in Minneapolis on Friday, November 13th at 6pm for a 2H engagement - incall preferred. If so - I am more than happy to provide the information you need to feel comfortable seeing me. Thank you for your time. Respectfully, (insert your first name)"

Copy paste that and edit as you see fit. Now, some may still opt to not respond to that because you didn't provide all your screening information in the first email but I imagine many others would look on that sort of inquiry kindly.

So after taking some time off of the hobby I have return and trying to meet with some providers and also going up some references.
Over the last three weeks there have been providers that emailed and or sent text only to never get a response. I get that providers don't always check the phone or emails but seriously, is it that hard to reply back to someone? Just curious if others had run into issues like this

If you look at a thread from recently, scroll down, you'll see a related thread on exactly your question.

Did you read their verification and/or policies before making initial contact? Most established providers need specific information from you to get the ball rolling on screening. For example, reputable and recent references. If they don't screen I'd be weary as it could be a scam.

I'm afraid it must be you, I've never had a problem whether it's email or text. You must be saying something wrong in your initial message.

I imagine that the initial message may either be missing something or may not be enticing enough to justify a response. I've found that people who text, initially text send one of two messages: "Hey, how are you?" or some variation of "You available?" Email tends to be a bit better but often times, it's something along the lines of, "Hey - I'm interested in seeing you for incall. Is that available." Suffice to say, these types of inquiries yield zero responses or at the very least a snarky one.  

Whether you are texting or emailing, I encourage a message along the lines of:

"Hello "insert provider name". I hope you're well. I saw your ad on TER and I am inquiring to see if you have availability in Minneapolis on Friday, November 13th at 6pm for a 2H engagement - incall preferred. If so - I am more than happy to provide the information you need to feel comfortable seeing me. Thank you for your time. Respectfully, (insert your first name)"

Copy paste that and edit as you see fit. Now, some may still opt to not respond to that because you didn't provide all your screening information in the first email but I imagine many others would look on that sort of inquiry kindly.

Thanks for the advice. To each provider, I sent an email stating I saw their review or ad on TER and would be interested in setting up an date the next week. It's strange because one of the providers has reviews that states that she returns emails fairly quickly. I sent another email to her with a more info like you suggested and still radio silence( she doesnt state what her verification process is), so at a loss.

There may be more happening behind the scenes (re: their personal lives) but it is rather odd that all of them are not responding. It could be possible that AI is flagging your email as spam. It does happen from time to time, to the point I've had to start checking my spam folder or "all mail" folder.  

Unfortunately, until they return your inquiry, I would chalk it up as a loss of time and pursue other options. There are a plethora of gorgeous providers in the area and from what I see, new talent is always springing up. You'll find someone who whets your appetite. 😇

I have been trying on and on from last couple of months to schedule some time with at least 15-20 gals from MNErotica Website using email properly with 3-4 lines explaining that I can provide recent references , but to-date there is no response whats so ever is happening in the back ground
Luckily I have one scheduler working for a group of providers who all work near to uptown  who responds quickly , I got exhausted here , I have seen all the gals at least twice

Very frustrating. At least send a reply if your not accepting clients.. doesn't seem like the best way to promote business.

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