So I know most guys on here have have pro that are regulars. But what constitutes a regular. Is it someone that you see a couple times a month, or a woman you see maybe once a month, or someone maybe you see once every 2 months which would equal 5 to 6 times a year. Everyone has a different definition and just curious what your definition is.

Second visit is a repeat. Third(and subsequent) enters regular territory.

I ponder this idea of regulars often. To me it seems to imply...with some regularity, like having a special time of the day after your coffee that you spend in the bathroom. There is a note of comfort on either side that chooses to label themselves regular.  I might be some gents regular gal but it isn't exclusive or arranged, those would be other things. I don't want to be "regular" to anyone. I'm sure to some that regularly visit an escort means that they are investing or earns them a place "as a friend".  I try to be present and focus on the energy at hand because nothing stays the same and the only constant is change...to me saying regular is kinda like normal which we all know it is nothing like normal anymore.

… to NOT make “regular” like “normal”.  🙂

I know... I loathe both words in my daily life. I don't want to be a comfy pair of slippers, that's what my first husband thought of me. I don't want to be told what it means to be normal is either, that was husband number two. So regular just means until they aren't of interest anymore or they don't "perform" good enough, they run outta tricks perhaps? It all sounds full of expectations.  

That's a great read Jersey.  

I was just coming up with reasons one would no longer be a regular. I'm sure there are lots of reasons like they become unaffordable, someone's getting attached, the man finds a new ATF, the provider stops offering services, retiring (either one), location, etc.  

The providers who I have considered regulars are the ones who consistently show me a great time.  So I guess I could say a regular is someone who is regularly great!

I got two vehicles so its not a big deal.  Never co signed on a loan though.  Gotta draw a line somewhere.

For me there is an ego thing of getting my dick sucked (it can be viewed as an act of submission -- which is why it is used as an insult -- i.e. Suck my dick!) .  So getting my dick sucked by a Dr is even a greater ego thing.  And yes Dr. Jersey, I was a client and you did suck my dick.  

You folks are thinking too much about this!  Whoever said it's 3 times or more got it right.  

You call on her private number and she answers by name. Then discuss what time works rather then play the “would 2:00 on TUESDAY work game “ Then maybe discuss what kind of wine to bring along.

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Would take that another step to say you must be a Trusted Regular.  Nice!

Lex was the only one I saw at my peak so many years ago for an extended period. I was probably seeing her 2-3 times a week on average. I think there are several reasons we saw each other that much. Personalities we "clicked," she knew my buttons to press, and she was a "cat." On our second date, she walked in without any clothes on...damn

Man, that sounds more like a mistress If you've saw her 2 to 3 times a week.

You think that's a lot, way back then. Some gentlemen saw a specific local companion 2-3 times a DAY! She was new, and her "menu" was very "open." That is an actual definition for a cluster f*ck.

How does that work?  A guy schedules one appointment for the morning, one for the afternoon, and maybe another for the evening?  I guess if you need more recovery time for MSOG than an hour affords then it looks workable.

I don't know how he made it work; even at my best, that would not have happened; ok, maybe once. LOL. We were young at one period, and a stiff wind could set it off.

That often would never have happened for me.  Unless maybe if my regular had a nickname of
Cumguzzler.   That might do it. 😉

There was a time I could manage that in an hour but that time is long, long past.

How would you have the time, money, or energy for that to happen.. Are you sure this guy wasn't just exaggerating.
 If I was gonna spend that much time with a provider, I  would just rather her become my mistress or sugar baby and give her a monthly allowance and be done with it.

I always felt that the info/data was accurate and truthful. The information you could find out was more intense than anywhere. I never questioned other guys' background on any why. But, more than one verified that they saw her a lot. I talked about info in those "those smaller private online groups." She was not using a particular safety device (at first), so some are looking for that.