I grabbed this topic from General discussion and I'd love to know if Minnesota guys also want this:  
"... So what is the best way to ask a provider to show me something new when most of the time, my provider is new to me? (I like variety)."

My answer is to state this plainly at the beginning of the session and hope that the provider Is the kind of person who likes to teach.  

If someone asked me this, I would probably say that I could tell him things to improve his technique and what I personally like, but all ladies are different of course.  

And I'd also say that it depends on how good he responds to my suggestions.

For instance, if I tell him that I prefer that he not use his tongue as a whirlybird inside my mouth and then a few seconds later he starts spinning that thing, am I going to want to tell him again? I might do so a 2nd time  but not a 3rd time, lol!

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