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how do you really know
Justforfuntimes 1499 reads
posted
1 / 13

Guys, does every provider tell you how great you perform oral?   Gals, do you tell us all how great we are? - regardless of how true it is.

I seem to get pretty positive feedback.  I love pleasing a woman.  Call me dull, I'm just not so sure I'm that talented.  But I will keep trying.  

How do we really know that you have enjoyed our attention?  

Thanks all for responding.

wingman1346 85 Reviews 1144 reads
posted
2 / 13

I expect every provider who is good at what they do and who wants to keep you as a customer will tell you she is having a good time whether she is or not.  Maybe I'm just getting more cynical in my old age, but isn't that part of the business?  And don't you just LOVE reading the review extolling the virtues of the hobbyist's skill at oral or whatever?  I'm much more interested in reading about the provider's skills, not the hobbyist's.  I don't know that we ever know if she has Really enjoyed our attention...all we know is what she says, not what she feels.  Maybe I'm off base, but that's my opinion.

BoardAlias 3511 reads
posted
3 / 13


WingMan1346 hit several nails on the head! After seeing a provider a few times with no complaint on her part she abruptly stopped me 2 minutes into a DATY interlude saying it just wasn't working for her; unrelated life circumstsances were getting in the way of her enjoyment of the experience. Like most guys, I enjoy the possibiltiy of pleasuring a woman and to be told in such an overt way that was not happening was a turn-off and I doubt I'll see her again.

And yes, reviewers self-assessment is tedious and pointless. It's guys primarily that read these reviews and I have no interest whatsoever in some other hobbyists penis size, oral skills, or metro sexual grooming habits. Primary source verificaiton with the provider might provide a certain, but slight, value of entertainment...

I wonder at times if the providers do have an underground communications network...

hardyharhar 83 Reviews 962 reads
posted
4 / 13

Spot on. Who cares about the hobbyist's "skills". When I read a review when he keeps talking about himself I can't finish reading it. Get over yourself already. We don't care about your "skills".

puddle672000 6 Reviews 1015 reads
posted
6 / 13

Totally agree.  The reviewers who delve into there great performance remind me of John Candy in Splash where he comes running out screaming "I made it in penthouse, I made the Forum".  Really who cares about your performance review the provider! and i am sure providers communicate with one another

vorlon 119 Reviews 1157 reads
posted
7 / 13

Agreed.  I always like it when a provider seems to enjoy what we are doing but I know better than to think I am particularly good at sex.  But that's not what reviews are for; we are interested in her skills.  Yes, her ability to cause "suspension of disbelief" is valuable but I don't need sentence after sentence of how good the guy is at doing something.

oleoneeye 152 Reviews 962 reads
posted
8 / 13

How pretty she is, how great she is at sucking ur cock, how much you like her tits, etc.  Its just part of the dance.  But for knowing if its actually working for her, some bodily reactions are hard to fake.  For many women, getting extremely wet and engorged is pretty much a good sign that her body is reacting (even if mentally not), and for fair complexioned women their chest and neck will "blush" when having an orgasm.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 1041 reads
posted
9 / 13

..i'm a terrible liar.  And how to know if a lady REALLY did enjoy your oral skills try not to drown her in your spit when you DATY so you can't really confuse her true wetness with your spit (it's very common for guys to drool all over the chocha and them comment on how wet she is from your oral prowess when most of that came from him).

Justforfuntimes 827 reads
posted
10 / 13


Wingman,  I'm afraid that I have to agree - do we ever really know (unless she's a squirter and the juices flow :)  ;)    On your other thought about guys who write reviews of themselves I whole heartedly agree.  I certainly don't need to hear how great someone thinks they are regardless of the endeavor - sex, athletic events, work, etc.  just another display of selfish arrogance.   My intent with the question wasn't to talk myself up, simply to get some honest as possible feedback on the topic of pleasing a woman.  thanks

Justforfuntimes 815 reads
posted
11 / 13

Thanks MsMocha.  I'll keep that in mind.  Any other thoughts about how a woman reacts during a great session?  hip bucking, rapid muscular contractions, etc.  I'm trying to get schooled!  :)

bigdell 81 Reviews 1138 reads
posted
13 / 13

Ever hear of a catch 22 situation.  Very much like that.

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