Never done a hotel incall before, how do you do it without pulling unwanted attention to yourself? Most hotels nowadays require a room key to operate elevators/enter the hotel, so the provider would have to walk you up right? Would the hotel receptionist not grow suspicious after seeing the same individual escorting multiple different people to their room?
I utilize hotels at times & I've never had an issue because I research my hotel of choice to avoid such issues. Most providers do the same kind of research.
You walk in like you belong there. Don't lolly gag, go right to the elevator.
I haven't had the room key experience, so can't comment on that hotel operation.
However, I can say that if you are going to see a provider at a hotel, just act naturally. Sometimes, it feels like a spotlight is trained on you, but if you are minding your own business most people won't even notice you.
I have gone to higher end hotels and used the valet, have had the desk clerk order a taxi for me after the sessions etc. If you act like you belong there (i.e. I am not doing anything wrong) no one should hassle you.
Most hotels don't require a room key for the Elevators, maybe the higher end ones. If considered, most local providers have their own place.
I had a date who accidentally booked a hotel that needed a room key to get up to the room. The lady texted me when I got there. She said there is a book on the second floor, accessible by stairs. Open it to page 172 and there was the key to room 1010. Very neat and secure solution. The second floor was a lounge with a small library, so the book didn't stand out.
The provider is the one who will come under scrutiny if the staff notices a lot of traffic to her room. The ladies will always have a strategy to get you in with no fuss.
Since you have never done it, I would suggest picking a hotel or two or ten and go practice before the "big day" arrives. Go give a few dry runs and just walk in and around so that you are accustom to what will happen. Then you won't be so freaked out when you actually go to meet a provider.
Thanks fellas. Simple solutions, but it's good to hear from those of y'all that have experience.
You may want to ask the provider for which way to go to get to the elevators before you walk in. Just one more thing to help make it look like you belong.
If I am going by the desk I find out where the elevator is and always carry something. Like my old computer and a newspaper. Just my idea that I stick out less that way. Either way if a vehicle is involved park at a side door and leave a key card somewhere. I leave one in my gas cap door.
Your provider of choice will ensure you make it to the room with no hiccups. Hopefully, shortly before you even step through the front door of the hotel, the provider will have given you step by step directions on how to maneuver past the front desk and the elevators with ease. As others have said, walk in like you belong there - as if you checked in hours ago or the previous day.
Another tidbit of advice is that depending on the hotel, it may help to "dress" the part. This doesn't necessarily mean a suit and tie but I always recommend jeans, loafers, and a nice button down and/or sweater and jacket. Hotel staff never give men a second glance dressed like that.
I might be on the phone. No one will be rude enough to interrupt you. You can walk in looking down and distracted and then look up to check your surroundings if you need. That seems perfectly natural when your primary attention has been on a phone call.
Once a hotel employee moved towards me. I raised my voice a little and began to tear a couple of strips off an imaginary conversation partner and the hotel guy changed his mind. These little games are fun. Don't be nervous.
The talking on the cellphone trick is often used by people trying to sneak into places they shouldn't be -- restricted areas, or employee only areas. Apparently it is pretty effective in deterring people from challenging their presence.
