I know this has been covered lately, and pushed by some providers and why not nice to get paid before you show up. Anyway this deposit scam seems to be increasing with providers, or should I say fake ads. Most ads that require a deposit indicate bbbj anal and very reasonable prices, along with very hot girls with no reviews. My question is have any of you paid these deposits, and what was the outcome.To me it's equivalent of asking a provider for a fuck on Tuesday and saying ill gladly pay them on Friday when I get paid. Anyway share your experiences if you have any. Personally its just not gonna happen.

A couple years ago when it seamed like I had a pretty nice date set up, with one of your said gals, she told me last minute when I was on my way to stop at a store to get funds into a gift card of some sort as that’s how she prefers payment. A bit odd I must say but I did purchase gift card, which I used later with one of my regulars and went to address she gave me. When I got there she asked for me to send picture of front of card and back of her card to verify funds. A NO I SAID. I was done right then and there but she texted a few times explaining why and even sent a few naughty pics.   Always buyer beware.

I doubt I would ever place a deposit but if I did it would have to be with someone I’ve seen previously, have great rapport with and had to see again, so highly unlikely.  Definitely never with someone that has no reviews.

Personally its just not gonna happen. I will never pay a deposit.
The only deposit a provider should get is BBJCIM

I agree and I think most of the providers who participate on here would agree that it shows zero common sense to send a deposit to someone with no reviews, no history you can verify, and whose ads seem too good to be true.  I would not do a deposit.  
     On the other hand, if I wanted badly enough to see one of the ladies who participate on this board or anyone who was highly reviewed and could be verified and they required a deposit I don't see anything wrong with doing that.  
     With one group it's a bad gamble and with the other group the odds are good you'll be satisfied.   My opinions only.  We all will do what we are comfortable doing.  

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I wouldn't respond to ads like that even if they did not ask for a deposit.

I mentioned before that I have in the past, but these dates were with ladies in another state. It is well known that both locally and nationally well known and reviewed companions have taken the money and ran or ended up blackmailing clients.  

You exaggerate or need better management skills. We put up with same pitfalls honey its the nature of the bz. You may be legit but there's many many others that aren't sorry this hobby is is a two way street not one way. Hate to read you the facts of life. But three to four hours to prepare for a new client is hilarious.

the deal is with client accounts refusing to believe and/or scoffing at provider's when we provide them truthful insight into the job but it is rather frustrating.  

no deposit under any circumstance!

jimmymack:
 Some providers just need that much makeup when they hit their 30's

Think about it.  Who asks you for a deposit?  Why? It is about guaranteed money not guaranteed service.  Paying in advance for anything is disingenuous.  Does a lawyer guarantee you will win? Does a phone company guarantee you will be happy with your phone service?  Does an airline guarantee your flight?  Ever been left standing with you bag at a hotel after paying in advance?  How is your fast food when you pay in advance?  Seriously, the best chance at GREAT service is when they have to EARN it! Ask those providers if they would rather have the option of getting a tip for great service or have their fee up front with no chance of a tip.  If they choose up front, think about what their thought on the service they plan to provide is.

Corporate word executives who look good and dress to the nines do not spend 4 hours prepping for work and many look better that any providers everyday to interact with clients. Once again I say bs or just plan poor management skills that need to be corrected. Sorry just catching my breath from gut wrenching laughter. Us guys deal with ncns too, bad neighborhood, filthy incall, fake pics, upcharges, sub standard performances, shorten time we paid for, hoes that are concerned with there phones then clients that are there, then ad in pimps boyfriends people walking threw or in the bathroom. LE providers get a misdemeanor  and government assistance. Guys loose there car families friends and jobs. We get robbed before we get to the door. It's the nature of hobby, so we aren't gonna put up with this newer form of SCAM. Get over rookie or get out of the business.

I'm not nearly as hardcore about deposits as some on here are, clearly.  

To me it is a risk assessment.  Obviously if the session occurs, then there was no loss.  It's only if she absconds with the deposit without seeing you.
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Yes a well reviewed popular escort can rip you off.  But the risk is pretty low.  On the otherhand some unheard of new provider on the equivalent of backpage or whatever, that's pretty high risk.  Best avoided.

How come whenever I visit the boards I just feel more sympathetic for the providers?

Rite there up at 3am getting ready for work. Sorry had to pick myself off the floor, after falling down in laughter.

There was a post on twitter on how much some of the "high end" ladies put into every single meeting with us. It made it sounds they are spending hours and near $100 just to get ready for us and alot of other ladies chimed in agreeing with her.
  I guess I just am an easy date. When I see my ladies I just have them wait for me naked, or almost naked (there you don't need 3 hours to pick out an outfit). If we didn't think you were already some of the most beautiful women in the world we wouldn't be seeing you. You can look however you want and we would still like you, if you like us back that is.

I don't mind deposits on well reviewed providers.  It's the ones that have only been running adds for a couple months with no reviewes that drive me away.  Even beyond the whole scam aspect. I do not enjoy creating  a digital trail with someone who may or may not be careful with my information.......

Wrong again I have alot of respect for providers. But thinking providers take 4 hours to prep there dates is pure BS, WE KNOW BETTER. We can see the Johns leaving the incall, while waiting in the parking lot for the phone call to come on up. Sorry Jordan ho's dont exactly have a reputation for honesty. In fact thats why ter exists so we can accurate information on providers, and cut through the BS to protect ourselves. Don't mean to rude or crude but that's the facts of life, we have way more to loose than providers.

First, you are a complete moron.  Second, I have seen Jordan for years and she is not only a true class act but a hell of a provider.  You are spewing garbage out of your mouth and it’s time to take your hatred out elsewhere.

Hey white knight not really concerned with your ass kissing. The thread is about the deposit scam being perpetrated among us. So stick to that or take your comments else where.

I am confused by what you are stating.

You do realize that anyone in any sort of professional job spends time on presentability and appearance even though they might not be getting filmed sucking a cock and using it as a promotional video to drum up business right?

Any man on this forum or in this hobby with a penis and half a brain can filter out the scammer ads looking to rip off people.  Yes, there are scammers out there just like in every industry.  Just like hiring a roofer that requires a deposit, I wouldn’t just give money to anyone.  However, if they are legit and verified to be a real person in the case of an escort that I want to see, I will give them a deposit if they require which is understanding.  In fact, I have probably given a total of $10K of deposits over the past two decades, have never lost a penny, and have experienced some amazing ladies.  

In my opinion if you haven't done your homework and trust the person you're paying the deposit too , your asking for trouble! Matter of fact i would have no problem paying full fee in advance to Jordan , Paige or many others .

Hey ass kisser, many websites WARN you against sending deposits and only a fools like you seem to send them. Apparently your either a moron or extremely lucky sending out 10k in deposits, I think you are a moron and a liar after that statement. Also I'm not pissed off and not spreading hatred, your the one pissing and moaning cause I called out one of your friends for saying she spendsv4 hours preparing for her apparant prom dates. Well moron calm down these girls are only attracted money not your ass kissing.

hey Jordan I am on your side about what you have been writing in this thread and way to hold your ground but the part about the deposit on account for the Beautician as common as it is ....is not the same for the guy that gets NSNC or late minute changed session (under no ones control) because we guys do not usually get a deal or some kind of compensation by 'most'  (and i do not know yours) for being in the same situation. the great providers it does not happen much but I have been around long enough to say it has and does happen . To me it is a tough situation overall that should be handled in the references and trust in the final scheduling.  
I personally get in more trouble for being the guy that wants to always be on time so i am always early, usually chilling in the area waiting for my moment to escape my van and head for the session of bliss.

My critical thinking skills are doing just fine thank you.

I think you need to work on your critical thinking skills.

Are you truly that disconnected from normal life that you can not conceptualize what the poster is saying?

Actually you are off, and if you chose to construct your business model that way then it incumbent upon you to deal with the consequences of poor planning, lack of scheduling skills, and general disorganization, and not your potential customer.

I paid half down for a garage door recently

For the record, I only send deposits to established verified providers.  Who the hell are you dealing with?  Craigslist girls?

Jordan, best to you.
"MN Discussion Board," see ya next year.

Ass kisser, I'm happy for you. Wondering why you are required to make a deposit on a regular of yours. Sounds like she dont trust you, must have a history of ncns huh.

Apparently you dont even trust regulars,  by requiring them to make a deposit. What kind of compensation to you offer when you can't make it or something happens. Or is doing business with you a one way street. By the way I asked my cousin who owns a few salons she told me the only time someone would be asked for a deposit is if they are a chronic ncns, and that she never heard of a shop making that policy.

Go pick up a streetwalker you creep!  Sounds like a car date is more your budget.

Your words are not being twisted at all.

Are you familiar with the phrase:

Once again kiss ass is attacking, well never done a car date mostly do outcall for your info. Seems as if you've been living on backpages, and street hoes. Oh well whatever works. You must take a page out of Trumps playbook, accuse others of what im guilty of.If you can't stick to the post without throwing a cry baby tantrum maybe you should move on. I see there are a few specials on alligator today maybe you got enough for a qv chump.

I agree, it is not a hobby for you.

Quote: The best chance at GREAT service is when they have to EARN it?”

Envalope is in the bathroom or on the table, bend over keep your mouth shut this isn't about you.