Someone who is using blatantly false pics probably isn't that concerned with those things.
I'm new to this, but I was really put off by a gal that looked NOTHING like one of the pics in her ad
http://minneapolis.backpage.com/BodyRubs/saturday-afternoon-delight-my-body-on-your-body-available-all-afternoon-excellent-reviews-26/8645564
I really feel like it was a rip off. The 3rd pic piqued my interest but when I met her, she's much larger. I checked the pics using Google so I know it's not another provider in another state or something.
Should I have just left? I couldn't tell for sure at the moment I met her fully clothed. The location was a frikken embarrassment besides.
Please advise
Like any 'relationship'(business or personal) - if it's foundation is based on a lie(I.E - false pics) - you'd be well advised to walk(if not run) away.
or you are not happy with her appearance or if the place is a pigsty or in a questionable neighborhood, leave. Generally, a lady doesn't want to be naked, intimate and at her most vulnerable with a guy who doesn't really want to be there or who is judging her based on her looks or size.
Look before I went inside I noticed surveillance cameras on the lamp poles at both ends of the block. I really don't like LE cameras watching me park and walk to a building. Once at the building, I waiting a good 10 minutes in this entrance between 2 security doors where people come and go all the time. I wasn't really in the mood any more when we got down to business and I saw that I wasn't in the room with the tight little ass in the picture. Awesome. The DIY was SOL, and I left never to return.
I'll write a review if it will help others.
You're not an asshole. Everyone uses pics to choose.
All I said was if you (or any other guy) are not happy with what or who is there when you walk in, then leave. Whether it be the girl, the neatness, the neighborhood...if it is not right in your mind, then you should leave. You should be as comfortable as possible when having a rendezvous with a gal.
I never said you were an asshole and still don't think that. Men are visual creatures. You ALL look at the pics. So? I don't have a problem with that.
Security and surveillance cameras are all over the place....in every public building, including apartment buildings and condo's, and, in some neighborhoods, they are on every street corner. Big brother is watching for sure. That is why you do your homework. Please do not take it out on me that you do not have VIP. If you can afford ladies donation then you can afford VIP. Sorry but that's the truth.
I am sorry you had a less than desirable experience and, hopefully, the next one will be better and more to your liking!!
So where's the leap? Fake pics -> judge her based on her looks -> ?
Someone who is using blatantly false pics probably isn't that concerned with those things.
You stated: “I was really put off by a gal that looked NOTHING like one of the pics in her ad.” AND
“I really feel like it was a rip off. The 3rd pic piqued my interest but when I met her, she's much larger.” AND “The location was a frikken embarrassment besides.”
Once you got there and you saw her in person, your attitude changed (as it should have) and that, in itself, may have changed how the appointment went. Once you saw her in person and she was not what the pics portrayed, you didn’t really want to be there, right???? Do you think a lady can’t tell when a dude is not happy with her?
I am not sure why you are so angry with me. I agree with you. If a girl is not the same one that’s in her pictures, then you did get ripped off and she IS a con artist. But, on the same token, you had the power to leave BEFORE you were ripped off. If in a similar situation again, don’t go through with it if you feel that way.
I am sorry I hurt your feelings. I didn't intend to.
If that is not the Lady you can for........... or you don't feel good about the situation: GET OUT. Really! I always put a foot in the door or leave one hand on the door knob until I see I am not in the middle of a "BAIT AND SWITCH". If you came there for a certain lady because you liked the picture and she lied about her looks etc, you have the right to leave, stage left.
FYI I leave incall appointments before paying about once every two months. The days following I'm so happy I did not waste my money on some cheat who could not be honest about who they are. We call this FALSE ADVERTISING.
SM69
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That's just me.
http://minneapolis.backpage.com/BodyRubs/saturday-afternoon-delight-my-body-on-your-body-available-all-afternoon-excellent-reviews-26/8645564
I really feel like it was a rip off. The 3rd pic piqued my interest but when I met her, she's much larger. I checked the pics using Google so I know it's not another provider in another state or something.
Should I have just left? I couldn't tell for sure at the moment I met her fully clothed. The location was a frikken embarrassment besides.
Please advise
Buy the VIP for $25 and do a little homework.Use tin eye or google image. These are the tools you need to play this game,they will save you money and keep your bad experiences to a minimum. Write 2 reviews in a month ,Its free.
Well I only care about what I'm doing, that's not using misrepresenting pics & delivering as promised.
BTW I do have security cameras at my incalls but that's for my buildings personal security not LE.
The area in question you were talking about has a lot of rough people that hang out at night there that's why so many cameras outside of there.
Speaking of pics, this is why I refuse to post hardly any these days. I'm sick of hearing opinions about them.
Sorry but I weigh anywhere from 130-140 & I am 5'6. I've been that weight/height for over 10 years despite kids.
That's not over baby fat or even fat at all really. BMI is below avg. So
Dare I spend money on fancy new pics only to have someone either accuse me of using fakes or not looking like my pics here ( which has happened before) til they saw the unedited version and shut up.
So those of you that wish I'd do more can thank all the rude people who just can't let someone be.
Well of course I'm not gonna look like my photos they're cropped or in sepia color some other editing to keep my privacy intact. lol could you imagine a sepia colored lady with a blurred out face at your door? Hahaha.
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tough lesson, it happened to me once. The BP ads are notoriously fake. The P411 photos and even Eros tend to be real. Check with providers to send non-published pics and check with reviewers as well, and NEVER see a gal just based on an ad, its how you get in trouble.