middle aged woman, big breasted, western burb, her name was Rita but went by angel eyes or something like that.
anyone remember her?

I believe you are looking for Team Angel.  She went by Team Angel in her ads but is always referred to as Rita.  I can remember virtually anything trivial that I needant, I guess.  Here is the link:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=74481

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If she is the same one,she runs ads in the Body Rub section on occasion.....a place to start.

I have known Rita for many years. She used to be one of the hottest Dominatrix in the Twin Cities.  She has wonderful dungeons in both Minneapolis and St. Paul.  I first saw her in 1984 with her partner, Patrice at a dungeon in North Minneapolis.  She was so hot I couldn't take my eyes off her.  Of course, I was a bit of hunk then too.  Now she does rub and tugs in a northern suburb.  I have talked with her occasionally, and she still does fetishes and some Dominatrix stuff, but not as much as in her earlier life.  Of course, she is in her 50's now.  Her is a link to her most recent ad.

http://minneapolis.backpage.com/BodyRubs/busty-rita-52/7367582