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Owarunara 4 Reviews 1459 reads
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1 / 10

There is a provider that has fantastic reviews here and I have really wanted to see her.  I've sent a couple of introductory emails but never get a response.  Pretty sure she has a screener.  What is it that I might be doing wrong in just sending an initial email?  I'm kind of at a loss here.  I'm pretty much just saying that I liked her reviews on TER and am interested in an appointment.  Any thoughts?

smileguy2000 6 Reviews 762 reads
posted
2 / 10

How many days have passes since you emailed ? Sometimes providers are busy with personal stuff and take a while to reply. Did you provide the required 2 provider references ? There are a lot of variables associated. In my opinion, just wait if you can or try contacting another favorite provider. GL.

Owarunara 4 Reviews 639 reads
posted
3 / 10

Sent first message about a month ago, and another one just recently.  I'll take your advice.  I don't want to be too pushy or annoying either.  So not sure how frequent I should keep trying.

Drumsticks 90 Reviews 718 reads
posted
4 / 10

Sometimes it helps to send a follow up TER PM to let her know you sent her an email, in case it ended up in her spam folder.

DJ1985 21 Reviews 505 reads
posted
5 / 10

Did you include a time and date you wanted to meet? If not she may think your not serious and just wasting time.  Read her website, look at her calendar to see if she's in town.. If you don't get a response after a couple emails move on and try again later.

vorlon 119 Reviews 458 reads
posted
6 / 10

Some ladies are very specific about the information they want and won't reply if that information is incomplete.

kimcorruttela 586 reads
posted
7 / 10

I've clicked on an email(it gets marked as read), and then am distracted by something else. I always appreciate follow-ups if it seems like I've forgotten.  
Send another email, and if she still doesn't respond, her loss!

Mindyzurgirl See my TER Reviews 398 reads
posted
8 / 10

You mention how often you contacted her but didn't answer wether or not you sent what you should have.
So a little more from the gals point here; sometimes when I put up a new ad I get a bunch of email that simply says "hi."
Or some mention when they would like to meet me but never tell me anything about themselves... So even if yours was not like that you may still be in an inbox surround by emails like hat....
or yes the random few email for whatever reason-do sometimes end up routed to junk ....and I sometimes forget to check that folder for days.....
     One last point and I can't stress this enough....if you've ever mentioned things that you would like to do with her, or anything even slightly sexual or you ask questions that could easily be answered by reading her reviews &/ or website ......
That would be a big reason you get the cold shoulder.
 So I hope this information helps & gives some perspective of what could be happening. Take care & good luck =)  
~Mindy

jsugar777 6 Reviews 463 reads
posted
9 / 10

it can be frustrating, i know!

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