So this was a recent post on social media by a local lady

... any provider who thinks her clients are “the worst”.  And I never will.  The providers I see again and again clearly appreciate their clients (except maybe the occasional asshat client, lol).

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I'm not surprised by it, it's a service industry and you're going to be really hard pressed to find someone who truly likes their customers whether it be SWers, waiters, nail techs, and etc. I used to work FoH and BoH at a restaurant in college and talking shit about customers brings comradery.
I mean I mentioned nail techs too, and I'm sure a SWer has thought "are they talking bad about me in a different language"  
Yes, they are.

The first, a photogenic curvy local I had been lusting after for a while, very hot to look at. It was a remote, dull, appointment. Hard to tell whether she has any real personality. If she does, it wasn't available to this client.  She held me at arms length for 90 mins of going through the motions. Felt like a waste of time and money.

I don't worry about it; she's only hurting herself. I pay what I pay to whom I will pay it, and not only are my regulars worth it, but they brag to other ladies about how worth it I am. The ones who are going to call me a "slobbyist" because of my TER presence are losing out. Oh, and if any of you man haters are reading this, let me clarify something. YOU are not the hobby. The LIFESTYLE is the hobby. Women are not "pieces of meat " to me. I love my professional girlfriends as much as I would a good civvie girlfriend.

But seldom do I know.  I can only control how I behave and treat them and I always treat them nicely.  As far as those who hate this work go, that is ultimately a problem they have to work out for themselves.

The term "slobbyist" was invented for guys like you. The women are sluts? If so, good. I'm a slut myself, and I like hanging out with my own kind. They don't enjoy it? One of my girlfriends recently gave me a reference to a new girl I was seeing. She sent me screenshot of the reference email , and it contained the remarks "that's my buddy" and "Have fun!!!" No one would want a woman who's sucked thousands of cocks? Well, I don't want to be married in the first place, but if one of my favorites decided she wanted me for a boyfriend, and the relationship would be an open one, I'd be all for it.  

Your description of them sounds like you are not fond of these girls, and then you take them on nice getaways? Talk about expensive. Anyways you don't need to go all out and give in to all there demands to get to know them. Just be nice and friendly and you'll learn alot about these ladies, names, kids, personal lives, ex's. I know most guys stop going back when the lady gets too personal or overtells but I do, it is getting to know them. Oh by the way if you want to know what ladies think this way about guys just dm, I am happy to give names. It is not like they have been on this site for the last year anyways.

Just name them. The talk about supply and demand, independent business owner, and etc, means it's being treated as a business. That's totally valid, sex work is work. So if they are following this notion, so should we in a way. If a restaurant did you wrong, you wouldn't skirt around their name would you? I think this service industry should treated as such.

I kind of don't really care about their politics or what they think of customers.  I'm there for the sex.  If she performs okay, I got what I wanted.  If she jokes about me behind my back, so what?  She wouldn't be the first, won't be the last.
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I treat them with respect (well, except during role play with SB, then they are nasty dirty cum sluts -- until the end of the session when we chill and return to normal roles.)   I'm always invited back except one time when the SB obviously thought I was too old for her.

I have some friends I also do business with.  When our activities involve their professions, I pay them for their time and expertise. I think that’s only fair, and they’d do the same for me if they ever used my professional services.

Look who knows what these gals really think about us,its different for everyone.Of course the more money you spend, they like that. Do you think they'd see you without the money? Answer is no.But its nice to pretend.

How about the time I paid her (not giving her name here) for one hour, and she kept me around for 3 hours? Still think she doesn't like me? And this has happened more than once, and with multiple women. Make fun of "white knights" all you want, but those of us who know how to avoid the man haters, and know how to treat a lady, do wind up real life friends with extra privileges. Not all the time, of course, but far more for often than people expect.

I read the same post about the gal who stated this on her social media account.

Is that like blaming the reviewer and TER when a review truthfully says was a half hour late and received a forty five minute hour once’s session started?
The other side being a provider responding the guy smelled like moldy  cheese and left brown streaks on the sheets. ( Oh - excuse me Providers can not respond directly to reviews )  
Agree often this site is as fair and balanced as Fox and CNBC

I don’t hang out with “hoes”.  I don’t know any hoes.  But over the years I’ve built friendships with a few providers. And we actually “do things” together, which don’t involve their profession.  Funny you mentioned helping a friend move because I did that recently for a friend who happens to be a provider.  I’ve helped providers in other ways too, and they’ve helped me... one in ways I could never repay.  

I Demand to know if the Ho / Ho’s in question throws Bukkake parties and who is in to Supply her with said activity  Other than that I could give two shits less their thoughts .  

If you want to believe all of us who tell you we've had experiences that don't fit with your preconceived notions of what the relationship between a client and a provider must be are lying, that's your problem.

Back when the providers used to join in with us it got brought up a bunch that providers should review us. I noted that that would not ever work because providers would always give us 10s and say amazing things about us. If girls told the truth about what they thought of us we would stop seeing them, they would get no more clients.
  I put in the line "they would never bite the hand that feeds them" Then one provider who is in this group thats being talked about said "she feeds herself very well thank you". But where do you get the money to feed yourself - Us, duh.

So no, my friend didn’t pay me for my time. Did your friend pay you when you helped him/her move?  

Absolutely not.  

If you plan a dinner and drinks with a date it will cost way more than 400 - try 700-800. 150 for verification? Yes that crazy idea exists but not here and only if the guy has absolutely no way to verify him and that is a last resort.
 All these digital sessions are crazy and you wonder what guys actually do that but there are some out there or this would not exist.
  You can never assume a lady will see you off the clock, dinner, drinks but yes it does happen, alot. There is a lady from AZ that comes up here about twice a year and we spend the night together every time I see her. Yes I pay her her rate but I pay her the only rate I know. If a girl wants to hang out after and go for drinks or dinner or do whatever then that is up to her. Nothing is ever planned, it just happens. Most guys just automatically leave after an hour because thats what they are "supposed to do". Stop seeing high volume by the hour massage girls and see low volume friendly escorts.

You have bigger problems than Covid, your stupidity will get get you in front of bus going down street well before the virus gets you.  

Your hallucinations leave something to be desired.

I honestly think the  people doing the "virtual" dates are people who are not seeing them in person.   What I mean it is the same guys who use "cam sites".   So they feel they might not be cheating or doing anything illegal.   So the people that are doing the virtual are not the same guys who pre-Covid would go to an incall or outcall.    

I’m not going to split hairs on who may be involved . Or their justifications.  

I can't control what a provider thinks of me.  I like to think I am being nice and respectful of her.  But I really just want the use of her for a time.  What she thinks of me personally, or men that use her services in general is beyond my control.  

All said and true what you outlined. No issue on that.  

I would have thought you folk might have come up with something different by now.

And not a very good job of it.

You people need more to do in your life. Another ridiculous discussion about what is right and what is wrong. Just work hard and play hard without the 13 year old drama.

At least it’s been entertaining to read all the drama these past few days.  

Your expecting a lot.  

That’s great for a mannequin , but I’m not paying premium  just for that.  

A Cadillac Cimarron is still a Chevy Cavalier, under the hood .  

I’m not into scat play. Point taken

The ol bread factory with cheese curds. Throw in some red sauce call it a meal .

They like us older guys because they figure we won't last long and they can make a quick buck.  They can say it's because we're more generous or more respectful, or more experienced in how to please a woman.  It's all been said but truth is they want to perform less and get the green.

Yes you got correct, the longer your into this shit the more you realize how correct you are - I’m totally with ya, don’t feel sorry for these sluts they will run over you and take all your cash, totally heartless!

None of these ho’s have a boyfriend - because the boyfriend can’t figure out why it costs him 400 every time they have sex - so he finds a real girl